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Date Posted: 21:26:10 05/19/16 Thu
Author: Laurence
Subject: Re: Blaming and shaming
In reply to: Lucy 's message, "Re: Blaming and shaming" on 20:02:27 05/19/16 Thu



I have noticed when I communicate with my ex that if say I bought the kids something for $20 then she spent $100. There's nothing I can do that she can't do better etc. everything I do must be minimized etc. I never was able to fully appreciate what she has become until I went no contact. So my advice is walk away. Time space are liberating in many ways and give perspective. It breaks their spell.

Good luck

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  • Re: Blaming and shaming -- Lake Breeze (Very good comment, Lucy), 12:57:55 05/20/16 Fri
  • Re: Blaming and shaming -- Lake Breeze (Small addition), 13:05:21 05/20/16 Fri
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