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Date Posted: 21:58:44 05/19/16 Thu
Author: Still wondering (Fake it til you make it)
Subject: Re: Blaming and shaming
In reply to: Sue 's message, "Blaming and shaming" on 19:40:37 05/19/16 Thu

He is 100% to blame for tearing your marriage apart for a man!!

I would avoid contact with him completely. However, if you find yourself in a situation where you absolutely have to communicate with him then you muster up every bit of confidence you have in your body and act like you've never been better. Who knows, maybe you even met a man who is sweeter and more fun than he could ever be (I'm not beneath lying to a liar).

I know you said that you've had a problem with self confidence but starting now, that's no longer any of his business. Confide in a friend or family member but as far as he's concerned, him leaving should seem to be the best thing that ever happened to you.

Ignore, ignore, ignore, but when faced with the unfortunate circumstance where you have to talk to him then it's time to give this ass hat a little of what he's been dishing out for years. I think If you look deep inside you know you have good qualities. Maybe you're sweet or giving or funny or cute or compassionate. Draw on that and pretend you know you're all that until you finally understand that you ARE!

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Re: Blaming and shaming -- Rob (grasping at straws yep), 00:58:33 05/20/16 Fri