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Subject: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to

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Date Posted: 01:32:01 08/14/03 Thu
In reply to: whitney 's message, "Re: Confrontation...if that's what you like to call it" on 18:09:56 08/13/03 Wed

Im just going to be honest about this, up front and personaly. Whitney, I can't speak for Paul but i know he has good intentions. I know also that I wish to have good intentions. We only act out of love for our friends. I believe there is absolutely no way for us to talk to you about anything that concerns us without it hurting your feelings. Thats alright though. You are very defensive online and thats a good thing.

Hear me out. I read what you say and it makes me sad. I would have never guessed such spiteful words would ever flow through your fingertips. I know a happy Whitefeather who always smiles even when things got her down. Anymore I feel as if i no longer know you. You say you are happy and yet you are here, burning down whatever bridges, whatever ties, whatever connections, whatever friendships you have left with the people who care so much about you as to show concern. Yes I agree, some of the things we have done, the ways we have gone about talking to you may not have been the best, but please forgive us for that, we are only human.

If this is the punishment for caring then so be it. If I must choose to have you hate me for the rest of your life because I feel the need to tell you I'm worried about your well-being then so be it. I see no other way around it. You know how I feel. I've talked to you many times about things. Please dont shut down on me, on us, as I see you doing now. Thats all anybody wants for you after all. Nobody is trying to radically change you, we are just making sure you are OK. Only now for some reason it seems that friendly advice is unwarranted and punishable by harsh words. Its hard sometimes to hear it from your friends, but do you know why that is? It is because you know they care about you. If we didnt care about you we would never openly show concern for you in such a manner. I dont know what to say anymore. Thats all that can be said.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to	steve	05:41:14 08/14/03 Thu
Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to -- Tang, 10:13:14 08/14/03 Thu Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to -- caroleena, 13:04:57 08/14/03 Thu Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to -- steve, 09:26:45 08/16/03 Sat
sorry but i had to let it out	Caroline	15:43:56 08/14/03 Thu

Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to	Josh	20:12:49 08/14/03 Thu
Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to -- steve, 09:30:20 08/16/03 Sat
Re: I dont understand you anymore, but I do want to	steve	09:42:02 08/16/03 Sat