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Date Posted: 17:21:02 02/28/06 Tue
Author: 23
Subject: Re: Advice
In reply to: chico781 's message, "Advice" on 15:59:14 02/28/06 Tue

Follow your heart, man.

I could tell you to play the game - don't call her, don't write her, don't seek her out because women don't want someone who wants them that badly because they look desperate. I could tell you to do that and it just may work, but it wouldn't be what I would do.

I refused to ever play those games. If I love someone, I tell them so and show them that I do. You are obviously deeply in love with this person. You are always going to wonder "what if?" if you don't pursue this as much as you feel necessary (short of stalking her).

If she doesn't want you, you'll find out. But at least you'll know. If you think you have the emotional strength to deal with rejection, follow your heart.

Sounds like a really tough situation. I wish you the best of luck.

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[> Re: Advice -- amadaun, 18:45:55 02/28/06 Tue [1]

Chico, you sound like an incredibly thoughtful, supportive, loving guy.
I think Nathan's advice is absolutely spot on - give it a last shot, talk to her about what you are feeling as honestly as you can. Then you have done everything possible, and should have no regrets.

Whatever happens, is meant to be.

If things don't work out,just go with it, and see what life brings you. You may not have met your soulmate yet,- she could be just around the corner!
Best of luck........

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