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Subject: Re: Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking


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Date Posted: 04:54:07 01/29/13 Tue
In reply to: Confused 's message, "Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking" on 18:34:07 12/06/12 Thu

Little miss Sassy pants is growing very self righteous. I'm sure you know about the eye rolling, the "Huh", the head toss and all the rest. Have you ever heard "Yeah, I'll do it later."? "I'm kind of busy right now."? "Oh, you just don't understand."? "Mooooooooom!"? Those are phrases that just make my body shiver and my neck stiff. She has been warned.

One point I would like to make. I know and see parents parents who almost encourage their kids to be rude and disrespectful but I've often heard the phrase "Don't you dare talk to me that way!" This disturbs me greatly. First I try to teach my girls by example. If I'm rude to people or talk behind peoples backs they will certainly pick up on that, so it's only natural that my kids will act that way. One would expect they would also view their parents without respect, if only inwardly. If I expect them to be respectful to their father and me, I certainly expect them to treat others with respect.
I have heard that my dd has shown disrespect to an adult at school. I think it has something to do with a crush. This is a very difficult thing to work around and I'm trying to be very patient and trust her explanation. I've also heard that, being smarter than everyone else (if you've ever had a tween daughter you know what I'm talking about) she has 'disagreed' with her teacher. We have talked about it and she, of course denies it. She may not even think she's doing it. But that is something that has to be comforted and clarified.

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Re: Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spankingGigi16:37:20 01/29/13 Tue


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