People like you come to mind. Look, like the poster above said, she was not blameless. She made a mistake and was held accountable for it. The "history of bad behavior" sounds like a bunch of micro aggressive nonsense. She was never disqualified from any pageant in Oklahoma that I recall...in fact, she competed quite successfully as I recall, made top 5 or top 10 every year. The whole "bad behavior" trope is a purity standard applied to strong women and even more so to strong women of color who are expected to stay in their lane, toe the company line, be "manageable", and don't make too much noise. That we would ask ANY modern young woman to act like a 1950's sitcom housewife is why pageants have become a joke to people outside our circle. I have faith that Allison has a much different vision for Volunteer America and I think each of the inaugural state titleholders reflect the evolution of pageantry...and that certainly includes Jordan. -- Miss Volunteer America Pageant

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Subject: People like you come to mind. Look, like the poster above said, she was not blameless. She made a mistake and was held accountable for it. The "history of bad behavior" sounds like a bunch of micro aggressive nonsense. She was never disqualified from any pageant in Oklahoma that I recall...in fact, she competed quite successfully as I recall, made top 5 or top 10 every year. The whole "bad behavior" trope is a purity standard applied to strong women and even more so to strong women of color who are expected to stay in their lane, toe the company line, be "manageable", and don't make too much noise. That we would ask ANY modern young woman to act like a 1950's sitcom housewife is why pageants have become a joke to people outside our circle. I have faith that Allison has a much different vision for Volunteer America and I think each of the inaugural state titleholders reflect the evolution of pageantry...and that certainly includes Jordan.

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Date Posted: Tue February 15, 2022 09:23:52
In reply to: 's message, "If she was do innocent why didn’t she go back to MAO ? Because she was welcome back into that organization. She has a history of bad behavior . Ask the Oklahoma people about her" on Mon February 14, 2022 20:30:03

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: I was waiting for you to start with the racist implications. This has nothing to do with her race . She’s trouble just ask the OK girls
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: You were waiting for that? Sounds like you’ve been called out before. But as someone who clearly comes from the Oklahoma pageant system, it doesn’t surprise me one bit. The state isn’t known for being kind to Black titleholders, all of whom seem to get reputations for being “difficult to work with”. I think the problem is likely that o conscious and unconscious bias that is pervasive in a state that is best known for the mass genocide of native Americans. So, I’ll just file that in “commentary from a pageant dinosaur” file, roll my eyes and give you an earnest “Bless your heart.” 😘

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Date Posted: Wed February 16, 2022 19:49:20

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Thank you for your very measured, respectful, and imo, wise, posts. Great explanation of the situation and its implications. When someone makes a low effort, throw away post- especially an accusation with no receipts (she's trouble), I love to see posts that give context and educate, and you did it so graciously. Well done!
Author: people like you make the board better [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: Wed February 16, 2022 21:08:49 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: If you want to use the race card every time someone disagrees with you go back to MAO . Volunteer will not but up with all this BS wokeness . The best girl will win regardless of her race , creed or religion. Enough is enough .
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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: I think it’s hilarious when people use woke as if it’s a dirty word. I guess the alternative is to be asleep? Anyway, I don’t see anyone using a race card here. Someone pointed out a pretty well-known fact that women are subject to outdated tropes when it comes to being manageable and that standard is even greater for women of color. So unless you have the receipts to back up any claims on how egregious Jordan behaved in Oklahoma, have a seat, otherwise you just kind of sound like a jackass. Nobody said rays played a role in what happened to Jordan in New York… But when someone from Oklahoma comes on this board and starts coming for the girl… Well, Oklahoma has its reputation and it’s well deserved. I think the volunteer system is going to welcome Jordan, Michela and any other black delegate with open arms and I think they both are going to do quite well… Which is probably why you’re so pressed.

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Date Posted: Fri February 18, 2022 18:31:06

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