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Subject: Re: Question Author: bodack [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:29:56 01/24/24 Wed In reply to: Stepmom 's message, "Question" on 10:41:02 01/21/24 Sun That is not the first request I have heard like that but not normally that one. I do remember a post from a boy who was adopted who felt like spankings made him part of the family. While I was never spanked as a kid, I seem to remember six licks being the most common. Not the very long spankings that you hear about here. Back in the day my High School Girl Friend gave her little brother six with the belt. The goal was tears. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Question Author: Stepmom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:17:14 01/24/24 Wed I did talk about this with her dad. I was a little surprised by his response and a little miffed at his lack of support. He looked puzzled, seemed like he was in deep consideration for a few minutes and just said "Welp, if that's what she wants, next time she's naughty give her a good one." I feel that he could have given me a bit more support if he had discussed it with me and maybe done a little more to take care of the matter himself. There have been times when in the back of my mind I've thought about just turning her over my knees, I think like any parent, or in my case step parent probably does, but for the most part she's a pretty good kid. I feel blessed to have a wonderful husband and a loving, well behaved, helpful step daughter as well as decent support from her mother. I just can't foresee her ever even desrving a spanking but maybe she needs a spanking. I don't know if I could ever actually do it, though. Thanks for your thoughtful responses. And so you all know I'm not stupid, I completely disregarded Patrick's response. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Question Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:09:33 01/24/24 Wed I would be miffed at your Husband too. You might want to read this thread about people and their thoughts on the spankings they received. Do the parents of her friends spank? What about corner time afterward? Does she want it to be just the two of you? https://www.voy.com/250800/1602.html [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Question Author: Ginger [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:35:31 01/24/24 Wed It's disappointing that your husband wasn't more supportive and willing to be a part of dealing with the situation. I suppose it means he trusts your judgement, but it also leaves the decision in your hands. (I seriously did not intend that as a pun, but now I can't bring myself to delete it, lol.) Inappropriate levity aside, I guess you need to decide if there would ever be a circumstance where you could find yourself willing to spank her. If you decide that you just can't do it, then that's that, and it's a completely valid decision. If you think you could entertain the possibility, then I suppose it all circles back to why she asked for it. And you seem like a thoughtful and considering person. Of course, you didn't pay attention to Patrick's ridiculous suggestion. Good luck with your decision! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Question Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:00:55 01/24/24 Wed You and others have come up with good theories and you have been provided with ideas and suggestions to deal with your stepdaughter's need. I say need because she is clearly telling you how she wants to be punished and trusts you enough to share it with you and have you administer a spanking which she already realizes is embarrassing Otherwise why not share it with her dad whom she did not wish to know about her desire. So there is already an intimate bond with you that she does not share with her father because she does not want him to know. Rather than over-think it all, why not simply accede to her request. Giving a spanking is not complex. It can involve nothing more than smacking a clothed bottom in whatever position you feel most comfortable with given your reluctance at this stage. The otk position may be too much so simply have her bend over and smack her clothed bottom. Have her tell you next time she in naughty and that you now expect her to do so. That will take the guess work out of figuring out when she is naughty enough to spank and put the onus on her rather than you when spanking. Perhaps a half dozen hand spanks may well address her need and the problem is then solved without pondering in anguishment about the right thing to do. If more is required she will no doubt somehow communicate that to you and that will then perhaps help you better understand where she is coming from. Bottom line, is start easy and conservatively and satisfy her without causing yourself undue reflection and worry. If the spanking becomes more than an incidental thing she will have to open up more to you and you can tell her as much if the expectation is that you are not doing enough with your conservative approach. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Question Author: Patrick [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:42:47 01/24/24 Wed Yes you know and you understand well, that she needs it. I only wanted to help you how to do it effectively and unforgettable. Your husband will not help you anymore... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]