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Subject: Maintenance Spanking


Author:
Serena (Maintenance Spanking)
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Date Posted: 06:41:19 06/07/24 Fri

In our family, we have established a structured approach to discipline and behavior management that includes regular maintenance spankings. This practice started when our daughters were six years old, and it has evolved as they've grown. Currently, our daughters, aged 12 and 14, receive a maintenance spanking every Sunday morning after breakfast.

We find that scheduling the spankings on Sunday morning serves multiple purposes. First, it provides ample time for recovery before the school week begins, ensuring that any discomfort has subsided, allowing them to focus on their studies and activities without distraction. Second, by addressing any behavioral issues from the previous week, the spankings help set a positive tone for the weekend. This timing is strategic, as weekends can often be a peak period for potential misbehavior due to the lack of structure compared to school days.

The nature and intensity of the maintenance spanking depend on their behavior throughout the week. Typically, the session includes a hand spanking with some hairbrush strokes for added emphasis, especially if there have been notable behavioral issues. Our older daughter receives her spanking over my husband's lap, which reinforces the seriousness of the discipline. Our younger daughter is spanked over my lap, maintaining consistency and ensuring that both girls understand the expectations and consequences. Both spankings are administered on the bare bottom, with skirts lifted and underwear pulled down to their ankles. This approach is intended to make the spanking more impactful and memorable, thereby reinforcing the importance of good behavior.

For maintenance spankings, we primarily use our hands and a hairbrush. These tools are also used as a warm-up for more severe punishment spankings. For punishment spankings, which are significantly harder, we use a big drilled paddle. In more severe cases, we might employ a strap or even a cane. These methods are reserved for serious infractions and are meant to serve as a strong deterrent against future misbehavior.

The frequency and intensity of the maintenance spankings are adjusted based on their behavior. Last year, our older daughter exhibited particularly poor behavior. To address this, we increased her maintenance spankings to twice a week, with sessions on both Wednesday bedtimes and Sunday mornings. This adjustment led to a marked improvement in her behavior, allowing us to revert back to the once-weekly schedule.

We have observed several benefits from this approach. The regularity of maintenance spankings serves as a constant reminder for our daughters to behave well. Knowing that their actions will be reviewed weekly helps them stay on track and reduce instances of misbehavior. Additionally, by maintaining good behavior, our daughters can avoid the more severe punishment spankings. The maintenance spankings act as a preventative measure, making harsher consequences less frequent.

This structured approach to discipline has been effective for our family, but we are always open to learning about how others manage maintenance spankings and discipline in their homes. How do you handle discipline and ensure good behavior in your family? Do you have a similar system in place? We are interested in hearing about your experiences and any advice you might have.

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[> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking


Author:
Anna to Serena
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Date Posted: 12:21:38 06/07/24 Fri

Hi Serena,
I to give maintenance spankings to my children. I have girls 20,18 and 15 and boys 17 and 14. Maintenace spanking are given on Sunday after church service and breakfast and again on Thursday after dinner. Maintenance spankings are given with a brush. Discipline spankings are given with hand and paddle.

I started maintenance spankings when the two oldest became teens and they became rebellious and had attitude. I have noticed a great improvement in their behavior. I still on occasion still have to give a discipline spanking, mainly to my two youngest.

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[> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking


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Rebecca
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Date Posted: 12:38:01 06/07/24 Fri

Pro=spanking grandmother here. The only place I have ever heard of "maintenance spankings" is on boards like this. The idea is absurd and cruel. I hope it is just imagination or confined to consenting role-playing adults

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[> [> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking


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Dana
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Date Posted: 16:42:47 06/07/24 Fri

Maintenance spankings for children is fantasy or abuse. Anyone can post anything on the internet. I've been around way too long to think different but, as fantasy, I suppose it's harmless.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking


Author:
Constanze (Rebecca & Dana)
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Date Posted: 05:47:27 06/08/24 Sat

Hello Rebecca and Dana

First I have to say I am a pro spanking mum too.
BUT
It is indeed exactly as you suspect, more than 95% of what I have read here, is pure fantasy (thank God!), or better says, even quite crude and stupid fantasy!
Where every spanking story is more exciting, than what some users wrote!
The best example is always, when men and women over 18 are spanked naked together in the living room *lol*
When I read this for the first time, it was so hilarious, that I have really had to laugh out loudand.
Now I scroll away almost immediately.
Because, this awkward way of writing can clearly be attributed to young men going through puberty.
To take it to the extreme, they even use several female nicknames and talk to themselves.
Sometimes mix they too, femal and male user name!
If you pay attention to the writing style, you will notice this almost immediately.
When these user names are exhausted, the names will changed and the game starts all over again!
My personal favorites for this intellectual nonsense are:
Christian faith, love and understanding hugs for this spankee, encouragement that she deserves to be spanked, And they must get much more spankings too, etc. etc. etc.
Anyone who believes this storys is true, themselves to blame.

I'm not so sure about around 4% of all messages, you can clearly tell that someone is talking about the past, maybe at now too.
I estimate that these people are clearly 35-50+ years old is.

Then there will also be around 1% who actually enforce maintenance sentences and other special dress or punish for children aged around 2 to 16 at the most, but definitely not 2-3 times a week!!!
If you see, that wrote anywhere, then I am sure, that this human fantasy has a open end.
The other parents waits for certain events, if they wants to spank theire.
That sounds very credible to me. But I can't remember when and where I read it, I belive it wasn't here.
I belive too, that can happen, that she spank theire kids often, than only one times at week, but never every weeks.

no matter

Then there are the parents who are really abusive.
But that will only be around 0.1‰ on parents there write here.
Abusive parents write not so much, what she do, then they do it.
But there are also rare exceptions to the rule.

These values ​​are European values ​​from countries that have officially banned corporal punishment!
But enforcement is rather poor.

I personally also have a very special opinion on the whole thing.
Children and teenagers are missing spankings on the bottom.
That is my personal opinion!
Given the number of stabbings, rapes and murders of " children from children, especially under the age of 14", that happened in UK, Germany, Scandinavia, France, Austria and many country´s more in recent years, politicians should definitely start to rethink of "no punishmends from parents".
Education with good words alone, can I say and see, it is a failure!

But I hopefully clear, "spanking and beating" are still two different things and the latter should continue to be prosecuted!
So when parents beat their children with wooden paddles, canes or heavy whips so badly. that their skin even bruised or bursts, is a line definitely been crossed and should be prosecuted.
But never a normaly, spanking with parents hand.

To come at finish.
Guys you have chatrooms for your fantasy, make rolgames, and don't annoy people with your really bad fantasy stories.
The most of yours (over 90%) is bad autor!
thx

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[> [> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking


Author:
Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 09:08:46 06/09/24 Sun

I have to agree. This "maintenance spanking" discussion sounds more like people feeding a ritual fetish. As a child I was spanked pretty often but rarely ever got one I didn't deserve. Mom never practiced spankings as a "preventative measure" against things we hadn't even done. No reasonable parent would. That would be roughly akin to being arrested for a crime that hasn't been committed yet.
The closest I've ever heard to someone doing this in real life was One of my neighbors when I was growing up. He was a DI in the Army and very strict with his four children. His mother generally dished out spankings if needed during the week and he kept a ledger of his kid's behavior. Whenever they misbehaved, he gave them a demerit. If their mother spanked them they got two demerits. On Sunday after church and Sunday Dinner the kids all had to go to the living room for a family meeting. He would be standing at the front of the room with the ledger and a belt. He would call out their names starting with the youngest. They literally had to stand and say yes sir to him, then he would say how many demerits they had earned during the previous week. If they had earned any he called them over to him, ordered them to strip from the waist down, bend over with feet at shoulder width and grab their ankles. He would give them three licks for each demerit. Then they were ordered to pick up their clothes go sit back on the couch. They had to tell him "Thank you sir" grab their clothes and sit back down. If he called your name and you didn't have any demerits, he would announce that, tell them "Good job" and then they were allowed to sit back down. After all four had had been addressed, they were all allowed to take their clothes, go back to their bedrooms and have time to put their clothing back on and reflect on their behavior for an hour. After the hour was up, he would knock on their doors and they were allowed to carry on with their day. That's the closest I've heard that compared to these "Maintenance Spankings" in this thread. I find it disturbing to think that anyone would actually practice this on their children.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking the Smith Family Comic strip


Author:
Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 19:30:19 06/09/24 Sun

I just remembered. Some of the Smith Family comic strips appeared in "Boy's Life" magazine in the late 60s I remembered seeing in some of them it was a boy getting spankings and some of them were bare bottom.

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Maintenance Spanking the Smith Family Comic strip


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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 01:00:51 06/10/24 Mon

Sorry, I posted this on the wrong thread.

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