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Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen Author: Erin [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 03:53:13 06/23/24 Sun In reply to: Veronica 's message, "Re: were you spanked as a teen" on 02:34:48 06/22/24 Sat To this day, my mom will tell anyone who will listen that children are happier when limitations are established and enforced. I didn't agree as a child and hated it when she would go on to say that all her kids benefited from spankings. Even if she didn't say that I was still being spanked as a teenager, I would blush every time the subject came up. Like you, I was always interested in spankings that other kids got. There was a family that I babysat for who would spank their son and daughter if they misbehaved for me. I didn't get to see it, but the mother gave a very vivid description of how she disciplined. I didn't have permission to spank them myself, but I sure wanted to. Veronica, I'm older than you and have two daughters who are 10 and 7. They don't need it very often, but we do use spanking when they misbehave. It probably won't continue too much longer, as I really think my mom stayed with the spanking tool too long. Time will tell though and we'll see if my two grow to appreciate how they were raised. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen Author: Veronica [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:09:55 06/23/24 Sun Hi Erin, luckily my mom did not tell others publicly about my spankings, at least not in front of me. My grandmy knew though and talked about it most times when she visited us.. 'How did Veronica behave lately? Did you have to spank her again?...' She was very much pro-spanking and the few times she spanked me were worse than those from mom. She kept telling me that my mom was raised more strictly and it did her good. Your babysitting experiences sound exciting. It must have been soo embarrassing for the children knowing that their mom told you all about their spankings. It's a pity that you never saw or got a chance to discipline them yourself. I'm really not sure if I would spank my children but your approach sounds very reasonable and def not excessive. May I ask, since you are also here and had similar experiences... do you still have spanking in your life as an adult, I mean getting it? This is something lingering on my mind since I know some couples do that. Or are you the one giving them these days? Thanks for sharing it all. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen Author: Erin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:06 06/23/24 Sun I certainly haven't had a real spanking since that last one from my mom at 15. Just a few playful swats from my husband, usually on my birthday or maybe when I'm acting a little feisty. We're definitely not into any kind of domestic discipline though! Rob was spanked growing up too, but he was quite surprised to learn that I got it into my high school years. We both think that was too old, but that our two girls haven't outgrown it yet. Spanking is mostly my job, but he sometimes takes his turn and I appreciate that. It reminds me so much of discipline I got from my own dad at their age! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: were you spanked as a teen Author: Veronica [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:40:59 06/23/24 Sun Thanks Erin. I haven't had a real spanking since the last one from my mom at 15 either. I don't have a boyfriend but it's just something that came to mind. Great that your husband supports you. I'm glad my dad didn't spank me, it would have been even more embarrassing! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]