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Subject: Re: When people spank for real

Author:
Cliff

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Date Posted: 11:31:37 09/06/24 Fri
In reply to: Emmie Sue 's message, "When people spank for real" on 05:16:45 09/06/24 Fri

When you say "get off on it" are you meaning sexually satisifying? Depending upon who I am disciplining, it can be sexually stimulating, but I have never get off on it.

With some, it is not sexually stimulating at all, but can very well be emotionally satisifying. It depends on the reason for the spanking, the relationship with the spankee, and if it is good in some way for her. I only spank ladies.

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VoR
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Date Posted: 14:30:40 09/06/24 Fri

With parents, teachers, and other authority figures, unless there is something wrong with them, they give a real punishment spanking only to discipline real misbehavior, and they do not enjoy it. That is the traditional use of spanking. Both spanker and spankee sincerely want to avoid this painful scenario.

For someone who has no real authority, but defines themselves as a disciplinarian, and seeks out a relationship where they get to spank someone, it follows that they enjoy the scene.

Why do they enjoy it? Not everyone admits that they "get off on it". You might have to know the person really well before understanding why and what they feel.

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