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Subject: What to do with guilt? Author: Chase [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:53:59 09/19/24 Thu was hoping you guys could give me some advice, this seemed like a good place to ask. I grew up in a completely normal family. My sister and I were spanked when we were young but these stopped as we got older. Then we just got grounded. I honestly never really thought much of it. I just turned 19 and am in my 2nd year of college. I graduated Hs a year early. After a year in the dorms, I moved in with some family in town to save money. They’re kind of distant relatives but we’ve always referred to them as aunt and uncle. They have a couple of kids but only one still lives at home. His name is Will and he’s a year younger than me. I k ew when I moved in the they were a little different, like old fashioned, but I didn’t really realize how much. About a month after moving in, I came home one day and Will had gotten into trouble. I heard my aunt talking to him but really didn’t think much of it. Then, I heard her spank him. I couldn’t believe it, I didn’t think anyone anywhere close to our age still got spanked. But he did, and judging by his reaction, it was terrible. The longer I’ve lived here, the more normal I’ve realized it is. I’ve noticed a few times that Will was upset when I got away with something he wouldn’t have or treated differently than he would’ve been. For a long time, I kind of thought it was funny and really didn’t care. But that changed last weekend. We both have a curfew but Will’s is more strictly enforced than mine. Last weekend, we went out and when it was getting close to time to come home, he started telling me it was time to go. But I really didn’t want to leave. I could tell he was getting more urgent but I really thought we had enough time and wasn’t bothered by it. Except we got caught by a train and ended up being REALLY late because we had to go around. Well, he ended up getting a spanking the next morning and I got a lecture. I heard him crying that it wasn’t fair and as I listened the spanking he got, I started feeling guilty. I know he was right. So my question is, what do I do? Do I talk to his parents? Do I volunteer to take what he got? What would you do? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Aunt Nat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:42:23 09/19/24 Thu Talk with your 'aunt' and let her know you feel it was unfair, he was encouraging you to go but you refused and let her know that you deserve the same and actually worse punishment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Chase [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:38:44 09/19/24 Thu What should I say? I've never done anything like this before? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:20:56 09/19/24 Thu I agree with Aunt. What you should say is what you know. You got their son into trouble and feel guilty and so feel that you deserve punishment, even more severe. Tell them you recognize it is their house and so their rules should apply to you too going forward. That should help with your guilt but could result in spankings for you if they agree to spank you for what you just confessed to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Chase [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:54:01 09/19/24 Thu I posted this on another forum and I’m sharing here. This whole thing has been strange. I've been trying to figure out my feelings on it. There's not really anyone to explain it to. When I first moved in and saw how things were, I thought it was so weird. I never dreamed guys our age get spanked. But after watching things between them, I've started to get a little jealous. They're so close with each other and though I can tell he HATES getting spanked, he still seems happy. Even though I don't want to get in trouble, I kind of wish I had that too and feel left out. As scared as I am, I want to relieve this guilt but there's a part of me that want's to experience what he does. Does that make sense? Is it weird? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:08:04 09/19/24 Thu It is what it is and makes sense. Your feelings are your own and you should pursue what you feel you need. One could logically believe that giving your aunt the authority to spank you would bring you closer to all of the family and leave you feeling less left out. You now need to build up the courage to approach your aunt. How old are you and their son and do you know how your aunt spanks? Is is bare bottom, very firm and could you handle such a strict maternal like figure in your life, or perhaps you know you need such a person in your life. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Chase [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:13:44 09/19/24 Thu I’m 19, he’s 18. I’m not exactly sure how she does it but I do think she makes him pull his pants down. I’ve only kind of seen what she uses and it’s like brush or a paddle type thing. I don’t if I can handle the spanking itself. He cries and I can tell it hurts. What if I cry like that, it would be embarrassing. I don’t know if she’d pull my last to down and I can’t imagine my underwear too. I do think I could handle the strong maternal thing [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:25:16 09/19/24 Thu What I read is that you need to experience what her son experiences like you were a member of that family. By the way, 19 is not too old to be spanked if and when needed. As to being embarrassed, maybe that is what you need to behave better yourself, better than the way you did which led to her son being spanked to tears. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Stephan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:12:30 09/19/24 Thu Giving you the benefit of the doubt that this is on the level. If you really feel that guilty, Talk to your "Aunt" and tell her the whole incident was your fault and you feel it isn't fair he was punished and you got off pretty much scot free.. Also tell her you feel since he was punished because of you, you should get the exact same punishment. If she does agree with you, then take your punishment. In the future don't do things he will get in trouble for. Now whether this is real or fantasy, let us know how all this works out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:24:17 09/20/24 Fri Stephan has legitimate doubts about the reality of Chase's story. But it is well-written and we all deserve at least a version of what happened after Chase confessed that he was to blame for what the other kid did. What puzzles me about the story is why Chase would be so inconsiderate as to make the other fellow late. What were you thinking? Were you looking for an excuse to get in trouble with the landlady=Aunt? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:51:19 09/20/24 Fri Yeah Chase, you need a good whoopin. No seriously. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:52:24 09/20/24 Fri Tbh, I can't believe you did that to him and never came forward. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What to do with guilt? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:57:01 09/20/24 Fri Emmie Sue I like your sense of Justice. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]