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Subject: Not Sure About This...


Author:
Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 12:08:14 09/19/24 Thu

As I've said before on here, I live in a small college town where the university makes up literally half the population of the town. Many of us full time residents support the students in various ways. I know several of the students, listen to their problems and concerns, give care packages etc.

I took one such student to lunch today, one of my favorites who I feel very close to. She's an adorable, sweet, quirky little thing and has a bit of a wild side. She often confides in me things she wouldn't tell anyone else. I listened and occasionally offered advice as she told me all of her problems and concerns. She blew me away when she said "I just feel like I have no....discipline in my life" She sort of leaned in and accentuated the word 'discipline'. as if to say she felt she needed a good spanking. It threw me. Is she asking me to SPANK her? She went on "I just mean, I try to self discipline and try to motivate myself and be my own conscience, but I just can't...discipline myself and I feel I need...guidance and...discipline." I thought to myself, am I really hearing this? What is it she's implying? Of course the lifelong, closeted spanko in me is thinking this sweet, adorable little thing is straight out asking me to spank her. And don't think I've never thought about it.

I'm beating my brains in trying to think if I've ever outed myself. I can't remember ever saying anything like "You need a good spanking" or anything like that. I have certainly thought it, but I don't remember ever even remotely implying anything about spanking. I would turn her over my knees (in a loving way, of course) in a heartbeat.

Do you think she was trying to tell me something?

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Author:
Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 13:16:01 09/19/24 Thu

Have another conversation with her. Let her know you are concerned for her because you feel based on what she said that her life is kind of spinning out of control and that you would like to help in any way you could. Ask her if that makes sense to her. Then ask her what she meant by needing more discipline in her life. Let her tell you. If she doesn't mention spanking steer it to that by raising the need for 'consequences' for discipline to be effected and ask what consequences she thinks would or could work. If you as a spanko get your way, you many need to be less loving and more stern with her if you are actually going to help improve her life, that is, forcing her to do what she wants to do but simply lacks the self-discipline to do.

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Concerning to Aung Nat
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Date Posted: 13:25:00 09/19/24 Thu

You quoted her as saying the following: "but I just can't...discipline myself and I feel I need...guidance and...discipline." Reply along the lines of: "You seem to be saying you need guidance and discipline from someone else. Have you thought this through as to who might be best to help you and the form that might take?" If that dead ends then ask her how her parents gave her guidance and discipline. Hopefully one of these will be effective.

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Dana
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Date Posted: 22:38:56 09/19/24 Thu

It sounds to me like she is asking you to help her by applying the discipline she is unable to provide for herself. As a spanko, my mind immediately equates discipline with spanking but, unless she says the word out loud, I would not jump to that conclusion.

My advice is, next time you talk with her, bring up the subject of discipline. Ask how she is doing and if she was serious about seeking guidance. If that is what she is looking for, she will be happy you are interested, and will be eager to tell you more.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:01:05 09/20/24 Fri

All, thank you very much. It all sounds very reasonable. I'm meeting her for lunch again today. I'll see if she brings the subject again and if she doesn't I'll try to steer the conversation towards what she was talking about yesterday.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 08:15:44 09/20/24 Fri

You can always bring up vaccine injections and see if that will link the conversation to painful but beneficial procedures.

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Laura
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Date Posted: 00:43:47 09/21/24 Sat

Alfred,

I had occasion to explain to my stepdaughter that spankings are like the injections the doctor gives her(sometimes in the butt). She seemed to get it!

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Alfred22 for Laura
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Date Posted: 06:26:57 09/21/24 Sat

I am surprised that she has any experience of im meds being given in the "hip" as doctors and nurses call the bottom. Glad that she seemed to understand the analogy.

I got over my terror of needles thanks to a country doctor who told me not to fear the shot he was going to give me because I would not be able to tell whether I got it on the left or right side. He even bet me a quarter. I took the bet. He swabbed both bare cheeks and pinched me on one side and gave me the needle on the other at the SAME TIME! He claimed that I got it wrong but gave me a quarter anyway!!

He was my favorite MD ever! I have never had a problem with needles again. I could probably still stay cool with the giant gamma globulin 10 cc ones. They apparently are still around when our immune system is our only defense and it needs pumping up.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 07:20:56 09/22/24 Sun

I'm not sure I understand the analogy of an injection.

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Anna to Aunt Nan
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Date Posted: 02:19:53 09/21/24 Sat

Aunt Nan,
I would just come out and say, when we had lunch the other day you said you felt like you needed a good spanking, do they help you focus better on what you are doing. Then wait and see what her answer is. Please let us know how it went.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 07:57:00 09/22/24 Sun

We had a very nice lunch on Friday with some laughs and shared memories from our childhoods etc. I was waiting for her to say something like "Boy, did I get it that time." but she never did. Eventually the discussion turned to the here and now and she confided in me her feelings, her frustrations, her anxieties. "I just feel that I need...discipline in my life. You know...guidance from maybe, you know...a sort of...mother figure." She didn't say the word 'spanking' and I didn't want to jump the gun and say it myself, but I was pretty sure that's where she was going with it. "Do you mean like a...spanking?" was on the tip of my tongue, but I didn't want to expose myself and would have been terribly embarrassed if that was not what she was meaning.

I'm sure we'll get together again and it occurred to me that she may be just as frustrated as I am trying to get this out in the open. I may be way of base here and would hate to ruin a friendship and the confidence of a confused young woman in need of a friend.

As I've never ventured into these waters, exploring my lifelong desires I have no idea how I would even go about this. Of course I've read stories and seen videos, but those are fantasies. How do you go about turning a young lady over your knees and giving her a good, disciplinary spanking to begin to correct her behaviors? How do you know if you've given enough or gone too far? How do you actually do it? What implements, if any should be used? How do you make sure it's a real disciplinary spanking and not just to satisfy sexual urges of either party?
I hope to hear from some experts who have been there.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 08:16:48 09/22/24 Sun

It really sounds like she wants you to give her a spanking. It sounds like a lot of the hints I was giving my professor friend. I'm not an expert, so I don't know.

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Concerning
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Date Posted: 08:44:50 09/22/24 Sun

I agree with Emmie. I think this young friend of yours has hinted about as much as she can and yes she is probably in the same boat as you -- nervous about being explicit and being the first to say "spanking." But I think she has been about as straightforward as she can be. The ball would seem to be in your court. All you have to do is ASK her what she means, what exactly she needs. Why don't you invite her over on the pretext that made some recipe and you are never going to be able to finish it yourself..... I would get this going ASAP. It's not fair to leave her frustrated. And I don't you need a slew of messages telling you how to spank. It's not rocket science unless this whole story is fabricated. Assuming it's not fabricated, a hairbrush spanking on her bare backside 1 swat for each year of her age is a good starting place. Send that text or make that call.

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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 08:42:53 09/22/24 Sun

You passed up an opportunity. When she mentioned she needed guidance like a mother figure would provide, you should have explored that reply. You could have posed the questions: what sort of guidance do you believe a mother figure should provide and what should be done if you failed to follow such guidance. If your at liberty to ignore the guidance, what would be your point in having a mother figure.

Rather than seek an 'expert' you should explore with others just what would be a sensible and analytical way of proceeding to get answers to your questions. In passing I would suggest at the outset that administering a real spanking is not necessarily inconsistent with satisfying a sexual urge(s). So don't start from that premise. The girl may benefit immensely from your intervention irrespective of your own desires If you would like to discuss off-site, you may contact me at minnnetsurfer@outlook.com

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 08:56:23 09/22/24 Sun

Just saying, but you guys weren't there and only know the details she wrote. It's a lot different when it's real.

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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 09:25:45 09/22/24 Sun

Agreed, and all the more reason to proceed cautiously and prepare oneself for the reality that may be encountered.

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Someone Who Knows
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Date Posted: 10:06:27 09/22/24 Sun

You are doing just fine, but don't let the opportunity pass you by.

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Dana
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Date Posted: 04:12:16 09/23/24 Mon

Any discussion of parental discipline should bring up the idea of spanking. You could approach it in a roundabout way. Corporal punishment is one disciplinary method among many methods. You don't have to present it as your chosen method — you're just throwing it out there as part of covering the bases. You could even laugh it off if it makes you feel too uncomfortable taking it seriously. If she takes it seriously, and treats it as a possibility, you have all the leverage you need.

As far as administering a spanking, I think you have to approach it like a parent, not as a kinky person. Millions of parents have spanked without training. They've done it countless ways and with a large variety of implements. I just read your post about spanking your niece. It's the same as you did with her. Punish with your best intentions, and let the chips fall where they may. If your college student friend is taking discipline seriously, she will accept what you believe is necessary.

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Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 10:58:34 09/22/24 Sun

Hi Aunt Nan,

While I agree you need to be careful I think you have the opening to have lunch, say you've been thinking about her recent thoughts on needing more discipline in her life and you're wondering what she means by that.

One possibility is that she needs, herself, to set specific times to do things and do them then. Set a specific list of things to do in a day and do them. Live a disciplined life, perhaps aided to start by writing down what she was going to do and by when.

Another possibility is if lacking the willpower, motivation, to lead a disciplined life she's thinking of some sort of discipline as in consequences. If so, consequences would then need to be something unwanted, unpleasant, likely imposed by someone else who cared enough to help her and could range all the way from a spanking to time out sitting in a naughty chair. Childish punishments but effective because they are childish.

Then you could say whether she was thinking she needed to have a routine of self discipline, or whether she felt she needed someone to impose consequences of some sort to guide her, you want her to know if she ever wanted your help you'd be honored to help her whatever that might mean, whatever it took.

This, Aunt Nan, puts "S" clearly on the table as a possibility but enough in passing if she chooses to ignore she can. But, I'm betting she might not identify spanking but will say she thinks she needs consequences. In that case you can say, "fine, would you like me to help with that?" I expect she'll say yes.

Your reply should be, "fine, I care a great deal for you and I'd be very glad to help but we'd need to be clear at the outset that I'd be the one to assign consequences although I expect we'd discuss what was needed before I decided. Do you agree?

I'm sure she'll say yes. Then, the next thing you need to say is does she accept that those consequences could include everything from a spanking to sitting in a naughty chair and everything in between?

If she balks at spanking then you say, "why is that? Why wouldn't you agree to be spanked if I thought you needed one?" Regardless of what she gives as a reason you simply say, "Isn't that a reason for .. a reason if needed, it would work well? Remember it's a motivating consequence and from what you say I have to tell you it sounds to me, for you, it might well be THE most motivating consequence available."

Good luck and I hope you'll let us know how it goes,

Mindy

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 02:51:37 09/23/24 Mon

Thank you all for your suggestions and support.

I like the one about inviting her over on some pretense so we have privacy and we are both comfortable with getting down to brass tacks. If she would actually put her cards on the table and say the 'S' word, I would not spank her then and there, but start a plan of action to improve her focus and behavior with the promise of consequences.

I'll keep you posted with further details as they become available.

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Concerning
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Date Posted: 07:58:01 09/23/24 Mon

Twice you have told us of your lunches together where she brings up the issues of discipline/guidance/mother figure -- and you have not told us how you responded. You told was what you did not say, but you did tell us what you did say. So perhaps you could update us on that.

I assume you have her contact info so please get on this asap. And if she doesn't put it on the table then YOU do it. She has hinted about as much as she can. An authentic mother figure would not drop this ball and needs to get on it. You simply ask her what discipline needs are , to clarify what she needs-- she brought this up twice. Now you need to do your job and find out if you can help this young lady

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 03:44:12 09/24/24 Tue

Concerning, I was actually too stunned to say much of anything and was thinking about my cards to play. I basically just nodded and let her talk.

Anthony, no I didn't pass on instructions, but of course I kept them updated on their dd and admitted that I spanked her. It wasn't her first spanking, but the first from me, but I suppose with all the turmoil in the house they didn't take. Once the seas had calmed on the home front I believe they reluctantly continued spanking when necessary and it had the desired effect.

Wondering, with my niece in my f/t charge, it was more out of frustration and reactionary, but considered and ritualistic than a 'grab and go' spanking. If you want to look at it as 'giving instructions' that would be something her mom, my lifelong cousin and friend learned from me.
I think it's quite a different thing with a family member in your temporary charge whose diapers you've changed growing into a troubled teen. I never considered it a spanking in the same sense. This young woman is a virtual stranger, an adult who I have a personal friendly relationship with. This excites me and not something out of frustration as a last resort. I do want to see this young woman improve, but that's not my only goal.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 04:12:28 09/24/24 Tue

I was gifted two large eggplants from a friend and coworker. I thought I'd try my hand at eggplant lasagna.

My fiendish plan is to ask the young lady to come help me prepare it and of course help me eat it. These college kids are starving, not only for good food, but attention and normalcy. This will give us a chance to have a more domestic type environment where I play the role of surrogate mother and will hopefully loosen lips. (and in case you're wondering, no I do not intend to give her alcohol).
The recipe looks like a big job and give me the chance to get her involved and give instructions. Bake time is 35-45 minutes which will give us time to sit and talk with no distractions or interruptions. My hope is that she will feel comfortable enough to lay her cards on the table and say the 'S' word.

If she says it, it's out in the open and I will not pass up the chance to fulfill my lifelong dream. However, today will not be the day. I have little interest in turning this young lady over my knees and reddening her little bottom. If she says she needs a spanking, it will be with a purpose. We will discuss her goals, fears, behavior improvement etc. and if after a certain period of time, I'm thinking 2 weeks, I don't see improvement then she will go over my knees and receive the discipline that she eluded to.

Wish me luck.
Any advice from the experts would be greatly appreciated.

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Date Posted: 05:23:47 09/24/24 Tue

I think that's a great plan. I always cooked with my mom and as you say loose lips. I didn't always want to help my mom in the kitchen, but I guess it was a mother/daughter bonding type thing. And I learned how to cook. While we were in the kitchen I'm sure I said a lot of things I wished I hadn't. It was just like we were working together, getting busy and getting comfortable and in the process things got said which weren't meant to be said. I think probably you and my mom are geniuses.

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Concerning
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Date Posted: 07:46:31 09/24/24 Tue

This seems like an excellent approach. And it's Emmie Sue -approved! :)
Let's hope she likes eggplant. Any timeframe for doing this little get-together?

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 07:56:27 09/24/24 Tue

In about 3-4 hours.

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Dana
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Date Posted: 10:46:59 09/24/24 Tue

I like that you will not spank unless and until discipline is needed. That is what makes it discipline, not just a kink. If you can develop a trust where she knows she is only getting a spanking because she earned it, then punishment will have real meaning that can help guide her to success.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:16:09 09/25/24 Wed

It's a done deal!

The bonding over cooking was a stroke of brilliance, if I do say so myself. Instructing this adorable young lady in the art of cooking and both of us getting our (clean) hands in it and creating something beautiful. My guess is her height in the culinary arts is slapping together a ham sandwich with mayonnaise. I got this idea from Emmie Sue. The ground beef and other ingredients in a skillet, I pulled a wooden spoon from the drawer and held it in front of her. The look on her face was priceless and it was that moment I knew exactly what she was hinting at. I instructed her on stirring the meat holding the spoon firmly in my hand. She did a passable job as well.

In the oven for 35-40 minutes we cleaned up our mess and had time to talk. We both sincerely expressed what this experience meant to us and that we felt bonded, although I don't think that word was used. A few laughs, a few childhood memories, moved into the current and she picked up her previous conversation where she had left off, interjecting this experience. I let her do most of the talking and asked a few questions to lead her to spill it.

"Well, you know...like...a parent would do."
"What would a parent do?"
"Well, like...discipline."
"And how would they do that?"
"Like......spanking."

Boom! She said it. At that point our creation was done. We sat down to dinner and after dinner I took the lead and flat out asked her if she was implying that I was the mother figure and if I felt her behavior warranted it, I would turn her over my knees and give her a damn good spanking. Her head went up and down, but I wanted to hear it from her and after a couple of attempts she layed her cards on the table.

We layed out a plan of what she wishes to accomplish, her goals, expectations and behavior modification and she is to send me an email, not a text, not a Tik Tok, an email as sort of a daily diary every night. We will meet again on Tuesday October 8 and if I determine she deserves a spanking it will be bare bottom, over my knees with hand and hairbrush.

Done,

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Date Posted: 06:50:24 09/25/24 Wed

Great Aunt Nat. Well played. I'm glad I helped lol.

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Date Posted: 06:53:19 09/25/24 Wed

This was a complete success for both of you - way to go!

When you say she laid her cards on the table --- can you share more of how this conversation went and what she had to say? Do you know if she was raised with spanking and if so until what age?

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Date Posted: 08:17:43 09/25/24 Wed

Further to concerning inquiry, how did you arrive at spanking her bare bottom with hand and brush in future? Was that part of the discussion, or is that something you have resolved to do on your own knowing she would be receptive.

It already seems that you will be taking your new role seriously by administering a sound spanking if warranted and concluded that the brush will well be needed to make sure the spankings is as harsh as circumstances dictate.

You must now be elated!!!!!!!!!!

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Date Posted: 06:09:35 09/27/24 Fri

If I could be so lucky, giving or getting.
Congratulations!

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 04:16:34 09/29/24 Sun

If the first 4 emails are any indication, this young lady will be bare bottom over my knees in 9 days. I have to give her props for her honesty.

Questions; How do I do this? I'm starting to get cold feet, but I'm committed to this. Basically my intentions are to have a long discussion with her about her behavior, performance etc. Then turn her over my knees for a very long and hard hand spanking. Then use my hairbrush. Do I...
Sit in a chair or couch?
Do I tell her to pull down (or off) her pants and underwear or do I do that?
Do we have our discussion with her pants on or off?
I am determined that the hand spanking will be a very long affair that would be enough for the message to sink in, do I...
Go immediately to the hairbrush or give her corner time in between?
How many swats and how hard with the hairbrush?
Do I put her in the corner after or do I cuddle and sooth her? Should I be so stern as to send her home or do I cuddle and mother her afterwards?

I hope some of the experts will have some advice for me. I'm very nervous about this and I don't want to hurt her, but isn't that the whole point of a punishment spanking?

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Date Posted: 06:16:02 09/29/24 Sun

My premise in answering your questions is that you want your protégée to leave feeling that she has accomplished her psychological goal and therefore welcomes a continuation of the process. Hence:

Position: couch with a pillow into which she can scream.
Clothes: You remove pants and panty, the latter being removed when she is over your lap.
Corner or not: Take a temporal break after the hand spanking is finished but keep her over your lap.
Aftermath: Cuddle and mother her, with a further discussion of how she can improve.

You did not answer an earlier question about the state of the groundwork for this process - does she expect a bare bottom spanking by hand and hairbrush? If that is not clear to her when she arrives, keeping the process as affectionate as possible (acknowledging your point that a punishment spanking is meant to hurt) is particularly important.

Bottom line (pun not intended) - if the process is too severe and cold, neither of you will achieve your respective objectives.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:22:25 09/29/24 Sun

Very good advice. Thank you.

We discussed the bare bottom punishment. Well, I told her I will paddle her bare bottom and said "Do you understand? Do you agree?" so she knows whats on the table.

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Date Posted: 14:35:11 09/29/24 Sun

To supplement my response:
Discussion of her deficiencies should occur when she remains dressed. Pants should come down only after she understands the basis for your decision to spank her.
Number of swats: play it by ear while being cognizant of keeping the pain (including duration) at a level that will not cause her to decide a return session is intolerable.
In the aftermath, stress “Rome was not built in a day” and she should not be discouraged at the need for regular sessions. Tell her that you are confident that her behavior will improve and that ultimately her behavior will reach a level of which you and she can be proud. At some point, probably not at the first session, suggest that she will only need a tune up from time to time once her behavior is at an acceptable level.
Set up the next session after she has calmed down from the discipline. Ask her if a two week interval is best in her opinion or if weekly sessions are appropriate.
Do have a fun activity (e.g., baking in your kitchen followed by a meal) from time to time.

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Concerning
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Date Posted: 07:05:36 09/29/24 Sun

Aunt Nat, I would like to repeat a question I asked you a few days ago which you may have missed: "When you say she laid her cards on the table --- can you share more of how this conversation went and what she had to say? Do you know if she was raised with spanking and if so until what age?" And if she was not raised with spankings, where did she get this idea?

Knowing more about your detailed discussion during and after your lasagna bake may help in answering your new questions.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 07:12:42 09/29/24 Sun

You're asking a lot. I didn't record the conversation. When you're in the moment you don't always remember all of the details of your conversations. She did mentioned being spanked and indicated it wasn't weekly, but occasionally. She didn't go into how often or how old. Where do any of us get the idea from?

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Date Posted: 07:24:14 09/29/24 Sun

I may be wrong but I would have thought that a discussion of if and how she was spanked growing up and until what age would no be a very normal line of questioning for at least shedding some light on and helping to understand her current needs and expectations. She's the one you quoted as saying "you know, like parents do...."

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Carol
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Date Posted: 09:36:49 11/13/24 Wed

If I were you, I would administer her first spanking with my hand over whatever she was wearing. If she wants you to use an implement or to bare her, she'll let you know.

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Pat
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Date Posted: 05:42:35 09/29/24 Sun

it depends on her age, I think, and she has to pull down pants and her underwear herself

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Carol
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Date Posted: 09:51:08 11/13/24 Wed

When she first mentioned that she felt she still needed discipline, I would have sat up straight, waved my finger at her, and in a half-comical/half-serious tone, said "Well, young lady, in that case I have half a mind to put you over my knee!"

She would then be free to treat it as a jest on your part, or to take you seriously, whichever she preferred.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 03:31:43 09/30/24 Mon

I've been wanting to try Tim Walz's Turkey Tater Tot dish and since we had so much fun with our lasagna I invited her over to help me with this. https://www.washingtonpost.com/recipes/tim-walzs-tater-tot-hotdish/

It's not about spanking or discipline or anything else, I guess it is about mentoring, but spanking aside I felt proud to teach her how to explore new culinary delights and to be self sufficient. She has also expressed having fun exploring new things and learning how to eat healthier and more flavorfully. Of course this isn't the healthiest dish, but cooking together is truly a bonding experience. If she wishes to talk she can talk, but I'm not going to push it. The main goal is bonding. I feel this will also help us both for when the time comes to turn her over my knees (and judging from her nightly emails that time is just a week away) it will be done with love and not just laying across a stranger's knees and getting your butt beat. That goes for both of us.

I'm a genius, if I do say so myself. No, but seriously, I cherish the times when my son and/or daughter (sometimes my niece) cooked and sat down to dinner together. I didn't realize at the time what everyone was actually gaining from it, but it has become clearer to me recently.

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Date Posted: 04:38:54 09/30/24 Mon

Aunt Nat, as one who has had quite a lot of spanking experience, may I be allowed to enter my two pennyworh into this discussion? Firstly, what you have in mind to do to this young lady has little to do with punishment, maybe a little to do with mentoring, but mostly to do with sexual pleasure, however you dress it up. You have absolutely no RIGHT to spank her, it is your CHOICE, and presumably hers too. You admit to being very interested in spanking, obviously as you are on this site, you are just looking for the right opportunity.

If you do go ahead, may I advise you build up slowly, especially if you intend to make it last some time. That's what I always prefer. You don't want to scare her with extreme pain before she's got used to the idea. Give her a number of firm smacks over her clothes to start with, enough so she feels it but can stand it. Then suggest that this is hurting your hand, so it would be better if her jeans be lowered or skirt raised. I think the question of underwear removal should be her decision initially. By all means suggest it, but don't force her. That can come in subsequent sessions. Build it up gradually and you'll be able go go on much longer, hopefully to your mutual satisfaction. Possibly introduce a hairbrush or something similar, but you need to have the option of increasing the severity in following sessions. Don't blow everything the first time.

Definitely give her plenty of hugs and aftercare. You must convince her it is being done for her benefit, even though you both know that's only partly true. I hope to meet my "Miss Norway" again in a couple of weeks, and that's how I will go about it. I will tell her she needs to be "punished", but that is just the excuse we both want. At the venue I have in mind, there is a large array of implements to play with, so it should be fun.

May I wish you the best of luck, and admit to being just a touch envious.

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Date Posted: 05:47:36 09/30/24 Mon

I think this is such a great idea.

I want to reply to what SJ said. In your first statement I don't think you're right that Aunt Nat is only doing this for sexual pleasure. She surely didn't when she spanked her niece. I think it's part of it with this college girl, but the girl is the one who brought it up. From what I've read Aunt Nat truly cares about her and wants her to improve. She sure is putting an awful lot of unnecessary work into it when I'm sure the college girl would be satisfied just getting spanked by her.
So, second, I guess that's kind of what Shelby is doing with me. After the play and real spankings in various forms of dress she's given me I'm sort of prepared for the real thing (but not really). But I think you gave Aunt Nat really good advice. Even know I would like to read about her getting her panties pulled down and paddled till she can't sit for a week.

Aunt Nat, I cooked with my mom all the time and learned a lot. Sometimes I would rather have played games or watched tv, but we still had fun and talked and bonded. I did with my dad too, but he made these weird things like throwing whatever was in the fridge in a pot. It usually turned out disgusting and I refused to eat it, but he thought it was the best thing he ever tasted. I did learn to appreciate liver and onions though. Most people my age never did that with their parents and now they don't even know how to cook outside of ramen.

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Date Posted: 06:35:34 09/30/24 Mon

SJ: I have read your posts for years and have considerable respect for you. However, in this case I believe that your suggestions do not properly account for the facts. The young woman initiated the discussion about her need for discipline and then acknowledged that she wants that discipline to take the form of spankings. Aunt Nat then made clear that the spankings would be by paddle on a bare bottom. So the tentative approach that you suggest is misplaced and might even disappoint the woman. I have already expressed my view that the punishment should not be so severe as to discourage the young woman from continuing the process but that view in no way contradicts the need for a paddled bare bottom on Oct 8.

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SJ
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Date Posted: 08:44:40 09/30/24 Mon

Ok, Emmie Sue, maybe not only for sexual pleasure, but I don't believe, if a prolonged spanking is given, be it hard or more gentle, that is no turn-on at all, its impossible. What anyone involved in spanking has is a bottom fetish. I am unable to watch a ladies tennis match without hoping their skirts ride up to reveal their shorts underneath. Viewing Strictly Come Dancing (Dancing with the Stars over your way) and not hope we see what the girls are wearing under their revealing costumes, is difficult. The buttocks are a true erogenous zone and should be worshipped (or do I mean horsewhipped lol?!)

Gantard, thanks for your kind words. Although Aunt Nat has described what she intended to do, she did also ask for advice. For all we know, she did enjoy spanking her niece, that's a different discussion. I still maintain that a gradual approach will reap longer lasting benefits. One thing should always be remembered. Whatever is the relationship between consenting adults, the sub must ALWAYS be in at least partial control, or it could turn into an abusive one without realising it. It should only be severe if the spankee explicitly requests it.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 19:58:34 09/30/24 Mon

Wonderful night. As for the casserole, I wonder how it would be with ground beef.

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Date Posted: 14:06:57 10/02/24 Wed

I infer from your cheery, pithy description of the cooking night that you achieved your objective of increasing the bond with her. Were the talks limited to social chit chat or did she initiate more substantive communication? Did she evidence any nervousness about the scheduled session on Oct 8?

One comment: you have not stated what behavioral objectives the two of you have established. The best objectives will be pass/fail because she will more readily understand and accept the need for discipline if there is a clear failure of some objective. For example, her desire to eat more healthily suggests a desire to be fit, which comes from exercise as well as diet. A program of exercise can easily have clear pass/fail criteria (e.g., jogging or walking 180 minutes per week). Perhaps I am preaching to the choir, in which case my apologies.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:12:45 10/03/24 Thu

We talked about whatever she wanted to. We did not talk about her upcoming appointment on October 8.

I'm not real sure what you're asking in the second part and some things just don't need to be detailed on here.

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Date Posted: 10:11:33 10/03/24 Thu

On Sept. 29 you posted a large number of questions seeking input/advice about exactly how to best carry out the spanking. I am cutting and pasting them below. What decisions have you come to? How do you now answer each question as to what you intend to do?

"Questions; How do I do this? I'm starting to get cold feet, but I'm committed to this. Basically my intentions are to have a long discussion with her about her behavior, performance etc. Then turn her over my knees for a very long and hard hand spanking. Then use my hairbrush. Do I...
Sit in a chair or couch?
Do I tell her to pull down (or off) her pants and underwear or do I do that?
Do we have our discussion with her pants on or off?
I am determined that the hand spanking will be a very long affair that would be enough for the message to sink in, do I...
Go immediately to the hairbrush or give her corner time in between?
How many swats and how hard with the hairbrush?
Do I put her in the corner after or do I cuddle and sooth her? Should I be so stern as to send her home or do I cuddle and mother her afterwards?"

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 09:37:30 10/06/24 Sun

Unfortunately I haven't gotten much feedback from the experts.

I believe I'm going to sit in a chair rather than the couch.
I believe I will pull her pants down, but as someone suggested I will leave her underpants on for this first spanking.
I believe I will have the discussion with her with her pants around her ankles.
I believe I will spank her in several segments with corner time in between and finally a few good swats with the brush. I'm not sure how many swats I should give her. I hope for some input on that.
I think after the hairbrush I will cuddle and sooth her and will keep her around a little while for bonding.

I'm nervous as hell about this and almost want to back out, but I feel I've made a commitment and for her and my best interest need to do this. I've read with great interest Emmie Sue's most recent spanking and will use that as a guide. I hope to get more advice before doomsday.

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Date Posted: 11:47:41 10/06/24 Sun

Aunt Nat, it sounds like you have thought this out carefully and I understand your nervousness and caution. You do what you feel is best. I only take issue with dividing it up into several segments as I believe an authentic spanking is one good segment; first with hand then with brush; you could perhaps do her age in hand swats and then half her age in brush swats. Remember she kept saying to you "like parents do..." It would help to know her experience in that regard so you could use it as your guide. Please keep us informed! All the best to you.

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Date Posted: 06:09:03 10/07/24 Mon

20 + or - hand slaps? That's hardly a spanking.

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Date Posted: 15:42:51 10/06/24 Sun

Your expressed reluctance to detail some things leaves your audience wondering.
what will she be spanked for tonight? The severity of the spankings should reflect the offense(s) she is being spanked for. Using Emmy Sue as a guide as you state, she was spanked harshly but deserved it based on the mess she made and her seemingly indifference to it. So, what about your girl, guide yourself accordingly.

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Concerning
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Date Posted: 14:22:37 10/07/24 Mon

You have become a little too quiet.

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Date Posted: 05:35:46 10/08/24 Tue

You didn't back out did you Aunt Nat?

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:42:34 10/08/24 Tue

No I haven't backed out. I do have cold feet, however.
Tonight is the night. She has earned a spanking and a good one. I guess I'll just wing it.

I would like to know what Shelby (or anyone who has actually given disciplinary spankings) has experienced and how she separates play spankings from punishment spankings and how she feels about actually doing it. I'm sure the play spankings aren't hard to do, but being a disciplinarian is a whole nother headspace. I am excited, but also very apprehensive.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:44:26 10/08/24 Tue

I will pick her up at 3:30 and take it from there.

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Concerning
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Date Posted: 07:29:42 10/08/24 Tue

Do you mind telling us what timezone you are in?

A disciplinary spanking should be given with a FIRM demeanor, generally pleasant but not too nice as this is not a social event. My view on this first time is a spanking this stings like crazy but does not go on too long. I trust you have not agreed to any safe words. She needs to be able to trust you to set her bottom on fire but not go on and on. I hope this makes sense.

Don't over think all this. She is counting on you to discipline her with the right attitude. If she senses nervousness on your part that might take the experience down a notch for her. So just "fake it til you make it.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:01:55 10/08/24 Tue

Having raised children I believe I'm a professional at keeping a demeanor. Those times when your kids do something naughty but hilarious and you want to laugh out loud, but keep a straight face, lol.

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Date Posted: 07:45:41 10/08/24 Tue

I suggest you make it totally clear that you will honor any safeword or hard limits agreement. You might want to read about Emmie Sue's experience with her Professor friend after she said that for a disciplinary spanking there are no safewords!

It does totally change a relationship once the other person has administered a really firm spanking. I would suggest that you offer her the opportunity to stick around, be comforted, and even have supper together. The only warmth should not be just in her bottom.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:15:17 10/08/24 Tue

We have not discussed a safe word and I don't believe for discipline there should be one. I wont overdo it but she is certainly going to be a sorry girl. Hopefully the emails over the next two weeks will be much improved. The 12 or 14 I've received shows she is not taking this seriously. I do appreciate her honesty though.

I have grown very fond of this girl and see a great deal of potential. There will be much comforting, understanding and bonding on my part, you don't have to worry about that.

My intentions are to have a long discussion, with the evidence, inform her of her spanking, pull down her pants myself and have another long discussion while she stands in front of me in her underwear. She needs to know that this is serious business. My intention is to start out slow for a prolonged period of time then give her a good hand spanking. I will definitely accentuate it with the hairbrush, but I'm not sure how many or how hard. I know not everyone cries, but that is my goal.

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Date Posted: 08:22:00 10/08/24 Tue

This sounds at least to me like an excellent approach. Will certainly be looking forward to your follow-up post here once it is done. So are you not willing mention your timezone? I understand; it's just that you said 3:30 but that could four hours from now or 7 depending on the area you are in.

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Date Posted: 08:23:44 10/08/24 Tue

Let's not kid ourselves, all punishment spankings between adults are really fun spankings. As I've mentioned before, no-one has a right to spank another, only a mutual choice. It's the degree of "fun-ness" that dictates how severe it is. If you are into it, you'll always find reasons to give a spanking or receive one. Indeed, I hope to meet Miss Norway again later next week, and have already warned her her bottom will be on the receiving end of a sound "punishment", but haven't thought up the reasons yet!

One thing to consider Aunt Nat, what if the young lady genuinely resists your attempt to spank her? She has every right to. Will you go ahead anyway, or bow to her wishes? OTOH, if it goes ahead, I can't wait to read about it.

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Date Posted: 09:15:11 10/08/24 Tue

I understand what you're saying. I think I will know, I hope I will know when the young lady realizes that this is serious and meant to improve her behavior and she is truly sorry. I won't go past that point. And I think I can tell pretty well when someone is faking it to get out of the consequences.
This was basically her idea and she has agreed to it. If she puts up a fight and resist I will go no further, but if that's the case, the deal is off. I'll take her home and she's on her own at that point. I doubt I will completely turn her away, but it will show me that she is not taking this seriously and thinks it a big joke. I have the feeling that she embellished some of her emails to ensure a spanking. I HOPE that's the case. Knowing that, I will also take that into consideration.

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Date Posted: 09:41:48 10/08/24 Tue

Well said, you sound very fair. It's good you won't go OTT. Good luck, I hope you both get what you want out of it.

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Date Posted: 08:32:45 10/08/24 Tue

Best wishes, you should carefully explain what wasn't serious about her emails and her attitude. She may not even be aware of a flippant attitude.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 09:17:43 10/08/24 Tue

I've added one new twist. When I get her to my house, I'm going to go over a few points and let her know that I'm serious and give her a spanking over her jeans to start things off and then get a little comfy and then go into our discussion.

Thoughts?

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 14:38:23 10/08/24 Tue

I missed the opportunity to provide thoughts in advance of the event. I do think a sample would be helpful so it you provided a realistic sample, that would be or have been useful to her. I do hope it went well, whatever her decision was about whether to go through with it.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 03:37:50 10/09/24 Wed

A most incredible, life changing experience, I think for both of us. A whirlwind of emotions. I feel, I hope her nightly emails will be much improved.
I'll update when I can.

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Date Posted: 05:26:46 10/09/24 Wed

I can't wait to read about it!

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Date Posted: 10:28:11 10/09/24 Wed

Well done (I'm sure like her bottom)!

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 12:15:27 10/09/24 Wed

Great pun, Cassie!

I didn't get it at first. Then I appreciated the double meaning!

There really is something special about the bond that is created when someone has spanked you firmly for something you agree is wrong and should not be done.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 21:52:52 10/10/24 Thu

Aunt Nat we are all happy for you and for your friend. I hope your relationship becomes important to her and greatly benefits her. You were very conscientious and loving.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 04:04:11 10/10/24 Thu

Tuesday morning and afternoon was a whirlwind of emotions for me. That little voice kept saying "You can't do this." while I kept cheering myself on "You CAN do this". I set up the house, put a chair in the living room, took a deep breath, told myself to be strong and went to pick her up. I could tell she was visibly nervous, although feeling like I had electricity charging through my body I sucked it up and showed that I was stern and comforting. We got the nervous chit chat out of the way and before we got too settled in I told her that to let her know that this is not a game and this is serious business we were going to start off with a good spanking.

I could see she was trying to hold back a smile and was still not clear that we were not playing. My nerves had settled and I was in boss mode. I turned her over my knees and got down to business spanking her over her jeans. It was a steady pace, not too slow and not too rapid. I think by the third or fourth spank she began to realize that this was a real spanking and let out an 'ow', but other than that took the spanking pretty stoically. I didn't tear into her, but enough to make her bottom warm when we sat down. I retrospect it was very cute the way she rubbed her bottom and the look in her face that she had just had a reality check.

We sat down at the kitchen table with our laptops and discussed her nightly emails, her successes and failures. It was a long conversation and if I do say so myself my nervousness and insecurities had evaporated and I felt fully in charge. We discussed that the time had come for her well deserved consequences. She seemed a little more reluctant as we moved towards the living room with my hairbrush in hand.

I undid her jeans and tugged them down below her knees. Standing in front of me in her underwear (and in case you're curious, pink briefs with red and blue flowers) her impish smile had disappeared and I believe it had settled in the seriousness of the situation. I must admit while lecturing her I soaked in the visual in front of me and had conflicting emotions. I helped her across my knees and couldn't help but rub her little bottom while lecturing. That little voice in my head was saying "Nat, what are you doing?"

I started with a long series of slow, accentuated slaps covering her bottom and just under the hem of her undies. She whimpered, yelped and jolted with each slap and over the maybe couple of minutes and I'm sure she was beginning to realize that her actions have consequences. I rubbed her bottom and back and continued to lecture and then I gave her a spanking in earnest. It wasn't easy to keep a grip on her with her kicking, squirming and trying to throw her hands back. From reading the spanking Shelby gave Emmie Sue, I smacked her bare back legs when she tried to reach back. I didn't time it, but I'm guessing it was a couple of minutes. She was crying, but I wouldn't say full out bawling.

By this time I was feeling in complete control and that I was the arm of justice. I had to keep in mind not to overdo it and remember the goal. I again lectured her and comforted her and to finalize the deal I gave her a dozen or so good swats with the hairbrush.

About halfway she was fully bawling and truly sorry for her behavior. We stood and embraced and she bawled into my shoulder as I comforted her. I sat on the couch with her sitting in my lap as she had a good cry until she (we) could come to our senses. We moved back to the kitchen table. She asked if she could keep her pants off, but I told her to pull them up. Her jeans weren't tight, but I could tell tugging them over her bottom was uncomfortable. She reluctantly sat down across from me and we discussed her goals for the next two weeks. I had already cooked meatballs earlier in the day, but she helped me prepare meatball sandwiches and seasoned Brussels sprouts and she prepared the table.

The bonding I felt from this whole experience with this girl was amazing. I'm sure she felt it too and when I dropped her off she hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. If last night's email is any indication I think we've made a lot of progress. I hope this keeps up and I hope she's being honest, although to be honest I wouldn't mind doing this again in two weeks. Two mornings later I'm still trying to put this all together in my mind. It still seems like a dream to me.

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Observer (smile)
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Date Posted: 06:13:17 10/10/24 Thu

In the end, you will go to bed together. Like these two here:

https://www.deviantart.com/agelmarjargad/art/The-New-Page-1-1048047048

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:13:50 10/16/24 Wed

In your fantasies.

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Observer
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Date Posted: 04:50:29 10/18/24 Fri

Either the whole story is made up, which is my main guess, or you're a closet lesbian. Then things will end in bed with the two of you. Inevitably.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:59:19 10/18/24 Fri

But, you're not real.

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Date Posted: 07:36:02 10/20/24 Sun

You couldn't think of a more witty reply? That somehow contradicts your otherwise polished texts.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 04:03:15 10/21/24 Mon

Why you being a dick?

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Observer
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Date Posted: 10:40:21 10/21/24 Mon

Was it an oversight that you answered as Emmie Sue? You should be careful not to mix up your aliases, it spoils the impression.
Which AI program do you use to create the text?

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 18:56:20 10/21/24 Mon

Fuck you asshole. I am Emmie Sue. Just wondering why you're being a dick. I guess it's because you ARE a dick.

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Date Posted: 02:58:23 10/22/24 Tue

I think you are both. And you are not even female. Oh yes: I am slowly losing interest in this. I will now let "Aunt Nat" publish her fantasies in peace.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 05:55:22 10/22/24 Tue

Dude, whatever.

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Old Hippie Girl
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Date Posted: 15:25:22 10/22/24 Tue

Women written by men has plagued literature and beyond throughout human history. It has recently been a big topic on TikTok:https://mashable.com/article/written-by-a-woman-men-writing-women-meme?test_uuid=01iI2GpryXngy77uIpA3Y4B&test_variant=a

But the search for truthiness on this board is a rabbit hole which, though I have my opinions about many of the accounts on the board, I personally choose to leave it alone.

women men

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Thea
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Date Posted: 16:44:16 10/22/24 Tue

I'm curious as to your opinions.

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Old Hippie Girl (to Thea)
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Date Posted: 10:11:56 10/25/24 Fri

I believe the majority of posts here are written by men. The moderator is a man. And I think Observer might be right. But I can not prove the fake women and fake posts, just suspicions. It only creates acrimony to go on a McCarthy witch hunt. And if these posts are entertaining, and realistic enough to satisfy, I suppose no real harm is done.

shhh

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 10:41:33 10/25/24 Fri

You don't know if the moderator os a man or not, I don't think they've ever verified that, but if they are, so what? Without the moderator we wouldn't have this group, which btw is well moderated. Have you ever read the skibity bullshit in those other groups?

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Observer
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Date Posted: 07:00:44 10/27/24 Sun

Interestingly, neither Auntie nor Emmie denies that they are the same person, nor that they are not aliases for a man, nor that the moderator is a man. So the author (and moderator?) at least has some decency.

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Gantard
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Date Posted: 09:21:59 10/27/24 Sun

An observation of interest only to you. How boring your pot shots have become.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 20:49:18 10/27/24 Sun

Brava! for Ms. Thea.

Don't mess with our Emmie Sue. We have followed her for too long for her to be anything but her wonderful, albeit feisty, real self!

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Thea
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Date Posted: 20:41:39 10/27/24 Sun

I would be impressed if Nat and Emmie Sue were the same person. They have completely different speech patterns. Emmie Sue also has a long history of posting here, with a realistic pace and no serious inconsistencies in her posts. There aren't any red flags in her posts that would make her seem obviously fake.

Your "gotcha" moment where you claimed they were the same person, just because Emmie Sue called you out in a conversation you were having with Nat, only made YOU look foolish. It's a public forum. Other people responding is normal. And Emmie Sue is particularly likely to do it when she thinks people are being rude.

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Concerned
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Date Posted: 12:45:45 10/10/24 Thu

Are you taking questions?

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 19:54:30 10/10/24 Thu

Doesn't mean I'll answer them.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 06:24:56 10/15/24 Tue

Has she been behaving? Is she going to get another spanking?

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 08:16:08 10/16/24 Wed

Much improvement since last Tuesday, a little backslide this week and Saturday's email (which came a day late) earned some form of correction.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 08:29:33 10/18/24 Fri

Sounds like a lot of progress.

My mother always pointed out that Rome wasn't built in one day. I was never sure how she knew this.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 03:23:58 10/24/24 Thu

Soooo....what happened?

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:24:56 10/25/24 Fri

Yes, she was deserving. It was bare bottom.

I understand the skepticism, but if you don't believe it you don't have to. I'll just keep on mentoring the girl, but as far as that goes, I'm out. Nice knowing you.

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Date Posted: 06:47:50 10/25/24 Fri

It is a shame that you let a detractor like Observer get to you. Observer shows no awareness of other credible contributors such as Confused, Rental Mom, and Whitney, each of whom described acting as a mentor to college women. You are following a fine tradition on this site. I am hereby filing a motion for reconsideration with you.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 10:36:24 10/25/24 Fri

I get it Aunt Nat, I'm reluctant to post on here anymore because of people like that.

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VoR
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Date Posted: 18:01:23 10/25/24 Fri

I'm curious if anyone has found a "safe" public place on the net to talk about anything where opinions or sense of reality may differ. If one wants to share their experiences or fantasies or whatever, as a man, woman, martian or posing as a martian, then they must either ignore or play with the trolls. Why even respond to them? On the other hand, if it really bothers you, maybe someone can suggest a moderated forum somewhere that would suit you better.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 05:54:48 11/06/24 Wed

Yesterday being election day, we postponed our session until next Tuesday. She's have an extra week to redeem herself after her disastrous last weekend. If she turns it around I may deduct some points for her behavior Wednesday through Sunday. It wasn't good.

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Gantard
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Date Posted: 07:00:13 11/06/24 Wed

Good to see that you are posting again but not much context for your post. You mentioned in the last post about her discipline that it was a bare bottom spanking. You also refer to her disastrous last weekend. Are you willing to elaborate (e.g., how did you move her to baring her bottom after the initial session was over her panties)?

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 04:25:40 11/07/24 Thu

I think that was a good decision. I was in line for 2 hours to vote. It was a very stressful couple of days.

I hope she turns it around and only gets a light spanking.
Who am I kidding? No I don't. I hope she is very, very naughty and can't sit down for a week.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 05:26:36 11/12/24 Tue

Is it tonight??! Is she gonna GET IT?!!

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 05:45:39 11/13/24 Wed

The extra week unfortunately didn't turn things around. I gave her a spanking over her jeans to start things off. After a long discussion I gave her a hand and hairbrush spanking over her panties. Put her nose to the wall with her panties down to let her little bottom cool off, then the same on her bare bottom. She was a very, very sorry little girl and I'm certain her behavior will be much improved when she reports in two weeks.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 13:33:57 11/14/24 Thu

Thanks for the update Aunt Nat but I wish you would gice more details.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 06:25:19 11/24/24 Sun

Aunt Nat, are you gonna roast her butt like the turkey and make it as red as the cranberry sauce?

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:50:44 12/05/24 Thu

I'll put it this way, I'm sure she didn't have a fun drive home the next day.

Last night I was surprised that the doorbell rang and she was at the door looking mournful. She confessed that she was disrespectful to her mother and aunt and was in general uncooperative. We had a long talk and it seemed that the guilt was eating her up. I asked her how this should be dealt with. She said she felt she should be punished. I asked her how and she replied a spanking.
I did give her a spanking on her bare bottom. I knew she was remorseful as she started crying almost immediately and I wasn't spanking her as hard as usual. And yes, like the turkey I roasted her little bottom and sent her to the corner for about ten minutes. I know this sounds a little deviant, but I quite enjoyed watching her little fiery red bottom in the corner. We hugged and cuddled deeply. She asked if we could do something "momlike". I needed to make cookies for the seniors home I volunteer at and I believe she had a lot of fun helping me.

This doesn't change the fact that she has an appointment with me on Tuesday. I do however see much improvement and the fact that she was eaten up with guilt and came forward tells me a lot.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 07:36:03 12/05/24 Thu

Seems to be going very well. You may discover that it isn't always true that the harder a spanking is, the better it works. A happy medium spanking might well be something that would enhance your mom-image with her, especially if you say it is less intense and more loving on purpose.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 12:02:44 12/05/24 Thu

That's so sweet. Funny, because me and the kid I was babysitting made cookies last night, part of the mess we made.

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 05:00:58 12/18/24 Wed

Last night would have been our regular meeting as the semester and finals are over and she would be going home so we didn't have an appointment. So once again I was surprised to find her at the front door. Again she kind of blushed and shrugged and asked if we could do something 'momlike'. She brought presents and asked if I'd help with the wrapping. Honestly, I've wrapped enough already, but thought it might be fun with her.

It was early and I had nothing decided on for dinner so I took her out for Mexican and we took a spin around the local retailer. That's 'momlike', right? She really is terrible at wrapping so I taught her a few of the tricks. Then we cleaned up.

I asked her if she felt she needed a reminder to behave while back at home. I'll be honest, I was really looking forward to turning her little bottom over my knees. I was going to leave her pants on, but she was already undoing her jeans. I gave her a spanking and a few swats with the hairbrush and when I let her up she almost crushed me hugging. I rubbed her little bottom and it was hot to the touch. She wanted me to direct her to do some work. I couldn't really think of much, but I 'ordered' her to put the dishes away and clean up the counters and without thinking I said "Just leave your pants down." As soon as that came out of my mouth I realized how weird that sounded and I tried to rationalize that her hot little red bottom would be uncomfortable in jeans. It didn't seem to bother her at all. I know this makes me sound like a pervert, but I rather enjoyed watching the whole scene.

We had some snuggle time and talked and she went on her way.

I keep wondering what the hell has happened to me? How did these last three months even happen? I think of all the dangers of allowing my fantasies to become reality. Is any of this even real or am I dreaming?

Well that should be it from me for the year. Merry Christmas to all and Happy New Year.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 05:37:33 12/18/24 Wed

I think she has a crush.

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New Reader to Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 20:28:34 12/18/24 Wed

Hi, Aunt Nat.

I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school and I have a thing about spankings--I guess like your college girl friend does, Aunt Nat, which I think my mom is well aware of. She's never said anything directly but I am positive she knows.

I was really afraid frankly that she would stop spanking me at 15 or so, because as much as I have hated the pain of my spankings for years, I have always had love/hate feelings about my spankings. Like I always get excited when she tells me she is going to spank me, butterflies in my stomach, week knees and light headedness--like that--and afterwards when I cry out a hard spanking with her hand and her hairbrush, I always have wonderful feelings of release that come over me and if I've been tense and up tight and cranky for days before one of her spankings, I always feel wonderful for days or even longer afterwards.

And, on my 15th birthday, after dinner and when everyone went home after my party, and when my brother and sister were downstairs in the basement playroom and Dad was in the living room watching TV, I was up on the third floor in my room changing out of the party dress and stockings and high heels I had been wearing and mom knocked and came in and playfully said, "Hey, Baby Girl, I haven't given you your birthday spanking."

And we both laughed and you know it had been almost two months since my last real spanking from her and I had really decided she wasn't going to give me a birthday spanking that year, so I was really happy she had not forgotten or decided not to spank me that year. And I was in just my bra and panties and she sat in the big chair in my room and patted her lap, smiling, and I went over and got over her lap, and to my surprise and secret delight, she pulled my panties down to bare my bottom.

Then she gave me a typical birthday spanking on my bare bottom--counting off one for each year first, and they were pretty good zingers, you know? Harder than my usual Birthday Spankings, and enough so I was going "OWWTCH OWWWTCH! OWWWWW OWWWW!" at the end.

And she then continued, smacking me each time, with more very hard zingers but kind of laughing as she did it, you know? "And ONE to grow on...and TWO to behave yourself this year...and THREE because you looked so pretty tonight...and FOUR because I love you so much...and FIVE because your father said I should be sure to make you cry...and TEN MORE GOOD ONES...to last you until your next spanking!" And on she went with ten more and I couldn't help it, I did burst out crying on about the third or fourth of that last ten.

And then she pulled me up and hugged me and cuddled me with the tears running down my face, and she laughed again and said, "Good! I can tell your father I made you have a good cry! He'll like that." And I said to her, I didn't mean to, it just came out in rush, "Oh, Mom, I was afraid you wouldn't give me a birthday spanking this year. I was afraid you'd think I was too old to spank."

And my mother said, "Oh, no, Sweetie. I think even though you are a big girl now, you'll still need spankings from me now that you are in high school." And then she said, "Maybe you'll even need more spankings than I have been giving you, just so you can handle all the stress of this year and of the next three years while you finish high school."

And see? That's why I so much appreciated reading your notes about you and the college girl you are mentoring now, and I can really appreciate how she feels and how much your lovine care with her and being a "mother" for her while she is away in college as you have been, and especially now the spankings you are giving her and that she really feels she needs--I think all of that is just wonderful and I think she is just so lucky to have found you for a friend and a home-away "mother" now.

You know I think that you are right that she is being very honest with you, even though she knows it will lead to more spankings, but you know what? She might also be including some things in those emails to be sure you spank her on her next visit. I think, like me, she really feels she needs those spankings from you--so you are very lucky, too.

I hope you don't mind my saying things like that in this note. I love your reports on how it is going with her.
The name I will use if I write her again will be Rebecca--which is the name of my best friend at home. But for now, thank you for your lovely reports. New Reader

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 06:37:27 12/19/24 Thu

Does your mom still spank you?

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Zoey
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Date Posted: 05:34:58 12/19/24 Thu

This girl is so lucky to have found you and vice versa.

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Rebecca (New Reader) to Emmie Sue and Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 12:25:17 12/19/24 Thu

Yes, Emmie Sue, my mother still spanks me now even though I am 17 and a senior in high school. She did follow up on that promise on my 15th birthday to spank me more often now that I was in high school. It has varied a little from time to time, but basically she has been spanking me a couple of evenings a week at my bedtime and usually once on either Saturday or Sunday.

For my spankings I have to strip and go over her lap naked and she gives me a long spanking with her hand first, and then a short break while still over her lap to get my breath and quiet down quite a bit, and then she uses the hairbrush on me and that really gets me bawling almost hysterically--so I am always bawling hard and well-spanked when she finishes.

Aunt Nat, in the last note from you, you told us about the night before your college girl when home for the holidays, and you seemed to say--if I read that right--that you spanked her bare bottom with your hand first and then you spanked her with your hair brush, and then, after that, you were stern with her and ordered her to go in and clean up the supper dishes and to leave her panties off while she did that. And you mentioned that you quite enjoyed that sight, which I think all spanking parents would understand completely.

But then, you seemed to say that after she did that you spanked her again, I assume with your hand and hairbrush--which must have really lit her on fire before she went back to college that night. Did I read that right? Did you give her a double spanking that night?

If so, she certainly was spanked very soundly that night and I bet she will be thinking about that spanking the whole time she is home for the holidays, and I bet she'll be secretly hoping you will spank her double like that in the future, since I feel sure she really feels she needs lots of spankings from you. You said she did give you hugs and kisses when she left that night so she was clearly not upset by the double spanking if I am right that you spanked her with hand and hairbrush twice. You have said she is very pretty so she must have looked adorable to you cleaning away the dishes with her bare red bottom on display.

I just love the way you have been so careful with her and have brought her along so nicely to where she is spanked often, which I think it is obvious by now she was clearly hoping for, or she wouldn't be coming back again and again.

You should consider asking her if she'd like to spend a weekend with you, and you could supervise her homework that weekend and both of you could go out to a few fun places and have a lovely time together, like I do with my mother on some weekends. And I bet if she visited for a weekend you'd end up spanking her at bedtime on both Friday and Saturday nights, and then after she is spanked you and she could cuddle up together in bed, which would be so warm and loving for both of you.

I do that with my mother after some of my bedtime spankings, but she only stays in bed with me until I fall asleep and then she goes back and gets in bed with my father. But while she is in bed beside me she gives me wonderful and loving strokes very lightly all over my spanked bottom and thighs while I am falling asleep, and sometimes she'll stroke my breasts, too, as I am drifting off to sleep. Rebecca

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 03:53:09 12/20/24 Fri

No, Rebecca I only spanked her once and it really wasn't that bad, just enough to warm her bottom for a while. I wouldn't say I was necessarily stern with her. Maybe her parents never taught her the practical things in life like vacuuming and putting away the dishes, that's a guess, so I just had her put away the dishes that were already in the rack. I admit I did very much enjoy watching her sort of waddle with her jeans and panties around her ankles and her adorable little red bottom as she put the dishes away. We snuggled and she hugged me, but no kisses.

Your suggestion of having her spend the weekend sometime sounds very appealing, moreso to teach her how to be self sufficient and learn the right way to do the practical things in life, perhaps give her a spanking if needed. The rest of your statement is a little off putting.

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Rebecca to Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 18:52:04 12/21/24 Sat

Sorry if you found some of my post off-putting. No offense was meant. It just seemed to me that I could see that on your friend's part, and on yours, a very warm and loving kind of relationship was forming, and cuddling up together for a bit, the way my mother and I do after she spanks me and the way she comforts me after spankings, might well be something your friend would like to do with you. And I do apologize if you found that idea a bit off-putting. Anyway, I do think you are giving her the motherly care she definitely seems to value and appreciate. Rebecca

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Aunt Nat
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Date Posted: 06:25:51 12/31/24 Tue

It's Tuesday, our regular meeting day, although being NYE we would most likely not have a session today anyway.

To be honest, I do miss her. She is keeping up with regular emails. At first they were very encouraging, but most recent ones, not so. I'm sure when she gets back we will have some things to discuss. I'm keeping my hairbrush warm.

Happy New Year everyone.

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Emmie Sue
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Date Posted: 04:49:22 01/01/25 Wed

Thanks for the update.
How are you keeping the hairbrush warm?

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