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Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Concerning to Aung Nat [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:25:00 09/19/24 Thu In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Not Sure About This..." on 12:08:14 09/19/24 Thu You quoted her as saying the following: "but I just can't...discipline myself and I feel I need...guidance and...discipline." Reply along the lines of: "You seem to be saying you need guidance and discipline from someone else. Have you thought this through as to who might be best to help you and the form that might take?" If that dead ends then ask her how her parents gave her guidance and discipline. Hopefully one of these will be effective. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Not Sure About This... Author: Dana [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:38:56 09/19/24 Thu It sounds to me like she is asking you to help her by applying the discipline she is unable to provide for herself. As a spanko, my mind immediately equates discipline with spanking but, unless she says the word out loud, I would not jump to that conclusion. My advice is, next time you talk with her, bring up the subject of discipline. Ask how she is doing and if she was serious about seeking guidance. If that is what she is looking for, she will be happy you are interested, and will be eager to tell you more. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]