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Subject: Re: Cooking Tonight


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Date Posted: 14:06:57 10/02/24 Wed
In reply to: Aunt Nat 's message, "Re: Cooking Tonight" on 19:58:34 09/30/24 Mon
 I infer from your cheery, pithy description of the cooking night that you achieved your objective of increasing the bond with her. Were the talks limited to social chit chat or did she initiate more substantive communication? Did she evidence any nervousness about the scheduled session on Oct 8?

One comment: you have not stated what behavioral objectives the two of you have established. The best objectives will be pass/fail because she will more readily understand and accept the need for discipline if there is a clear failure of some objective. For example, her desire to eat more healthily suggests a desire to be fit, which comes from exercise as well as diet. A program of exercise can easily have clear pass/fail criteria (e.g., jogging or walking 180 minutes per week). Perhaps I am preaching to the choir, in which case my apologies.
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