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Subject: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Ines [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 02:57:11 10/14/24 Mon Well i would like to know what you think about the following situation.. You are 23, and had lived of your own from several years. But unfortunatly you lost your job.. (not because of you, but the company you were in had problems etc..). You found a new job but it remains unstable for now.. To make long story short you had to come back to live at your parents.. Your parents are ok with that but made the things clear that the rules would be the same as when you lived with them during high school and the same your younger sibs still have, including curfew etc.. and yes physical punishments if needed... So what do you think ? Is that normal or weird because you are a grown up adult now ? What would you do ? Any thoughts ? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:09:20 10/14/24 Mon Go for it! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Miss Manners [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:30:02 10/14/24 Mon Probably not 'normal', but reasonable especially if younger siblings have to adhere to those standards. Most parents would just tolerate the disturbing behavior of their grown daughters living at home. I believe they're making the right decision. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Miss Manners [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:31:12 10/14/24 Mon Behave like a grown up and you'll never have to face it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Ines [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:37:07 10/14/24 Mon Yes, no choice, and that's what i'll do ... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:21:09 10/14/24 Mon Hi Ines, It seems you have no choice. When were you last spanked by your parents? Was it a fairly frequent, several times a year, thing so you're likely to get it now rather than a remote possibility? I just answered a question about soap suppositories here. Makes me wonder if you might ask if they'd give you a good soapy enema when you needed to be punished rather than a spanking? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Ines [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:36:20 10/14/24 Mon Never got anything with soap or stuffs like that.. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:45:51 10/14/24 Mon Overriding reality - their house, their rules! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Old Hippie Girl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:22:04 10/14/24 Mon Not weird on this board. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: VoR [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:28:56 10/14/24 Mon Of course it's not normal, and you wouldn't have to ask on a forum like this if it was. You could just ask people you know in your life who have faces and real identities. You could go by what you've seen and heard in your 23 years on earth. I've never known anyone, or of anyone, who gets spanked by their parent at your age, but I'm sure it must happen here and there. Does it matter if it's normal? As in common practice? What matters is what you want or want to agree to. Your parents at least are up front about it, telling you of their bizarre need to treat you like a child. If you're okay with it, then go for it. Otherwise, I would not allow myself to be manipulated by people taking advantage of my misfortune. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:22:19 10/15/24 Tue Please keep us updated. Did you grow up with spanking? Did you ever play spank? When was the last time you got a spanking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Ines [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:00:52 10/15/24 Tue Not sure if i would like to keep the forum updated or share more after the comments i got ... I thought i was in a tolerant forum here, maybe am i not.. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Concerning [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:20:41 10/15/24 Tue Please do continue to update us, OK? Most of us are friendly; ignore the others as they don't contribute to a real conversation in a viable way. We ARE interested in what is going on with you; It's unique and interesting. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Rebecca [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:05:56 10/15/24 Tue What intolerant comments? I thought VoR gave a pretty reasonable assessment. But unlike him,I know one person who was paddled by her parents at your age. She had flunked out of college and got in a lot of trouble. Her parents bailed her out and put her on a "tough love" regime, which included some corporal punishment. It started when she was nineteen/twenty and moved home. I am not sure how long it lasted, but I think at least until she was twenty-two and went back to a four year college and later veterinarian school. But this was in the early seventies, when spanking was MUCH more accepted. Nonetheless this was certainly not advertised. I think she only told me because she knew her mother had told my mom. I have never heard of another case except in forums like this. But I am sure it goes on. I don't know how much. But it is not something that is going to be shouted from the rooftops. It is certainly not considered "normal" by society in general. And I believe you know that. But I think on this forum you are very much welcome, and certainly not far out or "weird". [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: VoR to Ines [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:58:11 10/15/24 Tue You presented a situation and asked if it was normal. Most responses here will be to encourage you to submit to your parents, and ask you to keep them updated because they like hearing about women or girls getting spanked. That's cool in a forum created for this kind of talk. Others will want to steer the conversation to what they are into, like enemas or whatever. Some of us will simply try to answer your question honestly, as in contributing to a real conversation. Bottom line, it's all people showing an interest. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:56:48 10/16/24 Wed Ines, I think you need to distinguish between punishment spanking and fun spanking between consenting adults. I've had very little experience of the former, but plenty of the latter. I can only repeat what the first lady I ever met in a 1-1 situation said to me. After we'd finished, I asked her if she thought we were weird to be doing this. She replied "of course not, it's the others who are weird, they don't know what they're missing!" I've never forgotten that. Of course, with people like Maddie, Emmie Sue or Aunt Nat and their situations, the dividing line between punishment and fun becomes rather fuzzy. Surely, as long as no third party is being hurt, then it can be considered normal by the people concerned. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:19:00 10/16/24 Wed What comments are you talking about??? Everybody has been very nice to you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Do you think it's normal or weird ? Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:23:34 10/15/24 Tue Relax and let go of any desire to conform to what may or may not fall in the middle of a bell-shaped curve. As far as practical advice goes, having an interest in spanking is likely inherited and can strengthen your character. So as I suggested, don't worry about it and check out its benefits. More on those if you are interested in them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]