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Subject: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: JD Winchester [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 13:32:54 11/16/24 Sat On one of the private forums I continually reference, there was a high school girl named Kelli who played volleyball and basketball. Kelli shared some of her experiences with us, including two paddlings. The first paddling - which as I recall was her first EVER - was given by her male coach in his office. The thing was, there was a new male coach/teacher who had just recently been hired, and since Kelli was scheduled for a paddling anyway, her coach decided to take advantage of the opportunity to teach the new guy the proper way to paddle. As she described it, it was kind of like a very clinical demonstration, except that she was the focus of attention (I can just imagine the new guy actually taking copious notes…they probably looked like henscratch, haha!). Her coach gave her specific instructions beginning with “spread your feet slightly apart,” "bend over the desk," “reach your hands as far forward as you can,” “keep your eyes looking forward,” and "stick your butt out a little more." He then gently placed the paddle across the lower part of her buttocks, demonstrating to the new guy, “THIS is where you want the paddle to strike.” She said it was embarrassing to say the least, but Kelli was a good girl who respected authority and took responsibility for her own actions...so she complied as instructed. And then she got 3 hard licks that caused her to yelp loudly. I personally made the mistake of criticizing her coach for subjecting her to this use for a demonstration…like she was some kind of guinea pig. Apparently, that was the WRONG thing to say…I guess I misread her. She FIERCELY defended her coach, saying how MUCH she respected him and that she had MUCH rather school administrators know HOW to administer a paddling properly, rather than handing them a piece of wood and hoping for the best, that they don’t injure a student because they didn't know what they were doing. She felt she was contributing to a greater cause, in that regard. I apologized to her. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Beverly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:49:27 11/17/24 Sun I played volleyball and the coach could not paddled she ran us from one side of the gym to the other she did not care it you passed out I passed out one day my parents took me to the emergency room I had been ran to exhaustion they had to give me Iv to rehydrate me . My parents told the pastor who ran the Christian school the coach got fired and punishment has to be not playing in the game I would have preferred her to send me to the office for swats [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Cliff (to Beverly) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:20:26 11/17/24 Sun When I played football in school the coaches could paddle us, but usually they didn't. Instead we would have to get on all fours and bear crawl or make us run stands (bleachers). When they wanted to punish us as a team, it was usually running bleachers. Like you said, I would have prefered swats. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Beverly for Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:49:23 11/17/24 Sun Our punishment went over the line of abuse several other girls got sick the emergency room doctor that saw me and several other girls report that we ran way to long especially after a hard practice even though she was not prosecuted I was 13 last year on the middle school team . The new coach worked us hard she benched us to punish sitting out a game or part of a game got our attention . The high school coach still ran but not in excess the next year the school banned running on advice of thier attorney . I have three daughters the youngest 11 a 13 and 15 they all play sports the younger one volleyball the older two softball . For boys and girls sports teach teamwork and sportsmanship and leadership . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Connie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:34:24 01/23/26 Fri I am 26 now but it happened to me I was also scheduled to get licks with the paddle by the cheer coach she had a new assistant coach I was the center of attention to I got the five licks in the coaches office in the field house a athletic building for the sports teams to practice indoors including cheerleading yes she focused on me for the reason she positioned me bent over hands on knees and said this is how you position the young ladies then she gave me five taps the a hard lick on my lowest bottom and told her to hit here hard you want the paddler to be accurate and knowing how hard a lick to give as not to bruise or strike a wrong area Later I got paddled by her she did it correctly I loved being a cheerleader . Females coached girls athletic teams including cheerleading the main problem was both were male [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:47:45 01/23/26 Fri Just because one person liked the idea of being made a model for teaching how to paddle a student, it doesn't make it a good practice. If this coach needed to teach it, he could have explained it to the new guy without a live model, or asked the student beforehand if she wanted to participate in the demonstration. Then there's the problem of male coaches paddling a girl. Was it really a "clinical" demonstration, or were they enjoying themselves a bit too much? We don't know, do we? I remember a school I went to where a male coach paddled 3 girls in the girl's dressing room just before school let out that day. One girl was hysterical and looked traumatized by it. The coach got fired because, even in the old days, there were some schools that had higher standards of regulation with the use of corporal punishment. I wouldn't feel the least bit guilty explaining this to "Kelli". [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Connie for Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:21:10 01/24/26 Sat I agree I was 12 and a middle school cheerleader when that paddling happened it was after a hard practice we were wearing our cheer blouses and cheer panties for practice it was on Matt’s so a male coaching us would be embarrassing even in high school level and I also cheered in high school . We lived in a farming community in Alabama my name was called after practice by the coach for swats in the locker room after practice her office was in the locker room two other girls were going to get the paddle after me . I did cry loud after my paddling but that was normal for me I was a cry baby but it wasn’t traumatic it would be traumatic if the coaches were male . For the record I grew up on a farm my husband and I farm and have three daughters. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach Author: Brett to Connie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:55:50 01/26/26 Mon Connie, I am glad you were not paddled by a male. But getting it by anyone is not a fun experience. The schools I went to that paddled, standard practice was men punishing boys and women punishing girls. On the surface at least, no one I knew questioned it as possibly a sexual act, even though we know today that some men like spanking boys, and some women like spanking girls. We can't be sure what was in their heads at the time. I know when I was paddled, either at school or at home, I never questioned whether it was sexual or anything like that. All I knew was that I hated it, and it was still very embarrassing no matter what. You said that the coach who paddled you showed her assistant how to swat the lowest part of your bottom to be safe and not to bruise. In my experience, that was standard practice, but it often did leave very colorful marks that were visible for several days. Having to sit on those spots was also not comfortable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:13:19 01/26/26 Mon I play soccer and one time a loud 5 years ago my soccer coach gave me a spanking after practice because she said I was sassing her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:24:09 01/26/26 Mon Loran, were you spanked or paddled? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Her Coach – Allow Me to Demonstrate with Kelli Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:40:18 01/27/26 Tue She spanked me over her lap with her hand. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Paddled by Coach Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:42:55 01/31/26 Sat Loran, were your shorts taken down when your coach spanked you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:00:07 02/01/26 Sun Yes Sir. She pulled them both down and put me over her knees. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:00:12 02/01/26 Sun What did you say to provoke her? Where did the spanking take place? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:55:24 02/01/26 Sun It was in the girls bathroom. It was after practice and my mom wasn’t there yet to pick me up. She said I wasn’t practicing hard enough. That she told me several times to pick up my energy and focus because I was the best on the team. She gave me the spanking and no one knew not even my mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:39:08 02/01/26 Sun Loran, was it more embarrassing to be spanked bare bottom like a child? Would you have preferred the paddle over shorts? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:09:10 02/02/26 Mon Yah if I had to get a spanking. I didn’t want to be spanked and especially on my bare butt. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:13:39 02/02/26 Mon Loran, did you cry? Did you apologize to your coach? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:36:06 02/02/26 Mon I totally apologized and begged her not to tell my mom! I didn’t really cry but I had tears. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: ALGuy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:08:50 02/03/26 Tue Loran, how do your parents spank at home? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Paddled by Coach Author: Loran [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:11:07 02/04/26 Wed Mom uses a hairbrush and my daddy uses his belt. Mom spanks me more than my daddy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]