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Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:54:37 03/23/25 Sun In reply to: Jan to Mork and Mindy 's message, "Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine?" on 15:55:07 03/22/25 Sat Hi Jan, thank you for your reply. Might I suggest as a user name you use Jan plus an initial? So like "JanR" which would separate you from the other Jan here who is spanked by her husband? "Jan2" would also work. Be helpful. Thanks. I'm sure lying on the table after the strap must be very difficult so I'm glad for you that you find it a help with the bottom/brain connection. I'd be interested to know more about the table and the room it's in. Also, are there others in your family who get spanked? I noticed you'd told your uncle about this group and he'd posted. Is either your mom, or dad, aware you are talking to us here? Wondering if they might post someday with their perspective. Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:19:21 03/28/25 Fri Dear Mindy, Sorry for the delay in getting back. Busy this past week. Yes, parents do know and they are ok with it. Yes I have to stay on the table after dad finishes so yeah, it really helps with making the connection between brain and scalded bottom. So, the table I lay on is just an antique table dad has in his private home study. Nothing special about it. When I'm going to get it he actually calls it the spanking table. I'm the only sibling so it's just me getting spanked. I could talk to dad to see if he is interested in posting here. It is nice to have people to talk about this stuff with. As you can imagine, none of my friends know. Jan R [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:09:15 03/28/25 Fri Hello, Jan R, Thanks for the reply. I'm glad your parents know and are okay with your talking here. I think everyone here is glad to have someone to talk to about their spanking experiences. Reading about other's experiences to compare with your own are also helpful. For example with spankings I was sometimes given an enema and as a wife and mother I've done the same. When I read here of others having had, doing the same, it helps me feel less strange. At one time I felt quite weird, but no longer. Same with getting and giving the strap. Learning how it works in your family helps me and I like to think my sharing and thoughts help others. If you'd be okay with your mom and dad commenting here might be nice to hear from them but I can understand if you'd rather keep 243310 as your own place. I take it all your spankings are with the strap, on the table? Are they usually set for a particular time? When it's "time" who makes the announcement? Tells you it's time? Do you go to your dad's study on your own, perhaps have a chance to use the bathroom, and they follow, or do all of you go at the same time? Hope you have a great spank-free weekend. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:00:52 03/28/25 Fri Dear Mindy, I like reading about others experiences as well. Wow, I have never had an enema. I have no clue what that feels like. I asked dad if he was interested in coming here. He said the same thing you do. Keep this space for myself. So, about my spankings. They are pretty ritualized. I will be told to report to dad's study. You can imagine that I am already tearing up and upset. No specific time really. I have been punished in the morning or at night. Dad tells me to report to his study when a final decision has been made. Yes, they are all with the strap and yes, all on the table. I report on my own. Yes, I can use the bathroom before reporting. Once in the room dad will enter sometimes both come in. I am first lestured fully dressed. Once that is done and I have and dad is convinced that I have a full understanding, he will ask if I have anything to ad. Usually not. Then I'm instructed to get ready. Everything comes off, top and bottom. I place my clothing on a chair. Then step nude to the table and get into position. Dad just asks if I'm ready and then he begins. Mom is usually there to witness. Can I ask how you were spanked growing up? JanR [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:40:05 03/29/25 Sat Happy Saturday morning to you, Jan R. I forget if you said where you lived (?) but here, not far from the MSP airport it's not much above freezing, cloudy and headed for rain. I am so ready for spring! Thank you for some background on your spankings. It sounds like when you get in trouble, whatever that might be, your mom and dad talk to you about it right away and if they decide to spank you it would happen then, not later like at bedtime. Have I got that right? Two questions. Are your parents quite calm, matter-of-fact when they talk to you about a problem? Do they express regret, genuine regret, if they decide to spank? Do you get a hug first? (I consider all that one question, lol) The second question is can you tell me something about your dad's strap? Size, weight, where/how he got it, and where he keeps it? Now, my spankings. Well, they too followed a pattern. Not quite a ritual but did play out much the same. The spanker was invariably mom and often it would be just the two of us talking about something I'd done, or left undone, or said. She was always very calm. As we talked it would become increasingly clear a spanking would be needed to set me straight and clear the air. Generally, it would happen then, but might get set down for later. Spankings were always bare and OTK. Her hand and then a brush, or paddle. If more was needed after the OTK I'd get a hug and be told I was going to then get the strap. For that I'd bend over, or lie face down. No corner time before, or after, but often I'd be taken to the bathroom for an enema. Although I might have had the enema first. When it was over I'd get lots of hugs and comforting and mom would say how sorry she was she'd had to spank me and hoped I'd learned from it. I sure wasn't keen on being spanked but I knew I needed it, the direction, and it was good to have the air clear with my parents, be forgiven. When it was over it was over whereas friends who were grounded, or lost privileges, it went on and on. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:06:15 03/29/25 Sat Dear Mindy, If I have, say, gotten in trouble at school I am sent to my room when I arrive home. My parents are already notified. Mom will just say Jan, to your room. Yes ma'am. I already know that I will be getting the strap. Dad arrives home if he isn't working from home, which he often does. IDad enters my room. I'm simply asked if I would like to get it overwith now. It's yes, I do want to get it overwith. Then Ok Jan, report to my study. Mom and dad are always very calm and actually loving. They know I'm upset and like I said before, usually in tears. I get the lecture or we talk about what I did and why. I have had phone issues at school. I'm 16 and a girl. My phone is my life. I'm actually a very good student. I love school. I'm in all AP and have a 4.0 + average. Nonetheless, rules are rules. So, we have the talk, again very calm and loving. Then I get my chance to talk. I rarely try and make excuses. In this house a spanking doesn't happen unless it's very clear that I have messed up. So, after that dad calmly tells me to get ready. It's really embarrassing getting undressed, especially completely. Dad will be clearing off the table getting it ready as I undress. Then the strap is brought out. It's usually freshly oiled. By now I'm probably just down to my panties which I slip down to the ground and step out of. I step to the table and get into position. Jan are you ready. Yes daddy. Then, absolute hell for the next couple of minutes. Dad varies the tempo. I might get two or three right in a row or he might wait a few seconds in between. You can imagine how much hell that is. Sorry for the language but no other way to describe it. I'm sure you know what I mean. When it's over and I am a bawling mess. Dad lays down the strap. My bottom is just scalding and solid red from all the strap licks. Both sides because he spanks from both sides of the table. I'm not allowed to soothe my burning bottom. However, dad rubs my bare back and also assures me how much I'm loved and yes, he is also sorry he had to use the strap. He also reminds me that this whole unpleasant situation was brought on by me. Mom will also stroke my hair and they both comfort me as I calm down. Dad then usually exits to give me some privacy as I get off the table and gather up my clothes. He will come back up to my room to talk more after I have put something back on. Usually just panties and a tee. As far as being fully nude, they believe that my punishment should have an element of embarrassment and shame and boy, being fully naked sure makes you humble. However dad doesn't make a big deal out of it. He doesn't stare or anything like that. Yes, he sees my features but doesn't make a production out of it. BTW, I usually keep my legs together. As bad as that strap is burning I wish to conceal as much as possible exposure wise. So, yes, like you, lots of comforting and support after. With their method, once the punishment is over, the slate is clean. I can't think of a time that I was ever yelled at. I was spanked by hand over daddy's lap up to 11-12. Then the strap. I think the technical name for what dad uses is a Scottish Tawse. It has two tails. Did I mention it is just hell? Google that and what my dad has should come up so you can see what I get it with. JanR [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:35 03/29/25 Sat Hi JanR, thank you for your reply. Interesting and helpful. Were your mother and father spanked growing up? If so, do you know how and to what age they got it? Have you ever been able to talk to either of them about spankings they may have had? Do you have any idea how long correction with the strap will continue? As long as you live at home? You mentioned your dad gave you the strap from both sides. Does that mean the table isn't against a wall but out in the middle of the floor? At least away from a wall? To strap from both sides does he give you 6 or 7 and then walk around to the other side of the table to finish? Thanks! Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:00:37 03/29/25 Sat Hi Mindy, Dad got the strap growing up. Mom, as far as I know wasn't spanked but actually felt that her parents were to soft if you can believe that. I believe dad got it in his room over the edge of the bed. I will get the strap as long as I'm at home. My parents don't believe in age boundaries. Behavior is what counts. Yes the table gets moved out away from the wall. Dad wants to ensure that my whole bottom gets equal treatment. I get about 10 from each side. Yes, he steps from one side to the other. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:39:00 03/31/25 Mon Hi Jan R, thanks for the reply. I'm always interested in two things. Just how other families, couples, spank and how they feel about it. I read the other day a great phrase, "headspace" and that's what I mean when I say how they feel about it. I hope your headspace is that as awful as it is to get the strap you find it helpful in becoming the person you want to be and you appreciate your mom and dad loving you enough to give it to you when you need it. I think spanking, the strap, establishes boundaries and growing up, and sometimes as a wife, I found comfort in knowing I could count on my parents to keep me in a safe place where I could grow and flourish. I also liked that we had a way of settling things and after it was over I was forgiven and it didn't drag on. I got on with my mother, who was the spanker, so much better than friends who were grounded got on with theirs. The room you get strapped in, is it on the main floor, perhaps in a bedroom wing, or upstairs? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jan ... Re: Dance Routine? Author: Jan R to Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:22:40 03/31/25 Mon Hi Mindy, I'll respond to this post first. I like your phrase "headspace". Dad often tells me just before he starts that he loves me and he wants this next few minutes to reinforce what we just talked about, meaning in lecture. Then it's are you ready Jan? I do appreciate my parents and yes, I love them very much. I think I mentioned that it doesn't come to this unless I have really earned it. I haven't mentioned this but my parents, especially dad are very protective of me. You can imagine the trouble I would be in for staying out past curfew and not calling in. I also like that when I have paid my debt, it's over. Clean slate. The room I get it in is dad's home study or office. Upstairs across the hall from my room. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]