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Subject: My older male friend Author: Emmie Sue [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:44:51 06/26/25 Thu I was hanging out with my older male friend. We were slam dancing in the living room and playing around and I decided it would be a good time to make my move. I was acting naughty trying to get him to turn me over his knees and I was being pretty forward about it and he was catching on and said "Okay, you can stop that now." I thought "Oh great, I'm just about there. If I act a little bit naughtier he'll spank me." So I said real naughtily "Oh yeah. And what if I don't?" His reply really shocked me. He said very calmly "Then I'll have to ask you to leave." That kind of burst my bubble. I know he wants to, I KNOW it, but he wont play. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Thea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:36:12 06/26/25 Thu Interesting that you say you're behaving but you're also still pushing boundaries trying to force people to spank you without an existing, negotiated discipline relationship. Do you realize your mindset about this shows a lack of respect for consent? That sort of attitude would get you banned from the spanking scene meetups near me. Most people don't like a pushy bottom. Shelby should be taking the bathbrush to you to emphasize the seriousness of your misbehavior. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:04:37 07/10/25 Thu >Shelby should be taking the bathbrush to you to emphasize the seriousness of your misbehavior.< Or...maybe not. Ouch. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Older Male [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:14:10 06/26/25 Thu I'm not sure how much older your older male friend is. I'm in my early 60's and I've been in this situation a few times. It sounds like he greatly enjoys your company and takes pride in passing on to interested young people his experience and wisdom. I don't know if you've discussed your interest in spanking with him, but he may, um...give it some thought and may possibly have fantasies about spanking, or making love to this intelligent, attractive, spirited young lady, but knows it's best to keep that line drawn. It might annoy him that you are trying to get him into something he knows he shouldn't do. My advice is to let it go and just gain from wisdom he's amassed over the years and feel fortunate that he has chosen you to pass it on to. I think Thea is on the right track about the hated bathbrush emphasizing the seriousness of your behavior. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:50:46 06/26/25 Thu How do you know he wants to spank you? I don't think it's something most people even think about. If he's a spanko, then it sounds like you at least gave him reason to keep talking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:56:49 06/26/25 Thu Ask him in future similar situations, “what are you gonna do about it, spank me?” That should do the trick. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:47:30 07/01/25 Tue Emmie-Sue, you may just have to come out with it. Sometimes a direct approach works. Not quite the same, but some years ago I met a lady through business and we became quite friendly. We met for lunch one day and a couple of drinks loosened our tongues. We asked each other what other interests we had. I told her I had one I couldn't possibly tell her about. In the end I blurted out that I liked spanking, fearing that was the end of our friendship. She immediately replied "ooh, would you do that to me?" And I did, on a number of occasions, the gamble paid off. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Ross [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:38:22 07/01/25 Tue Not everyone into the spanking fetish likes the "being naughty to earn a spanking" game. I would say he's deduced that you want a spanking, but also dislikes your deliberately being bratty, and has correctly decided that spanking you is not the way to get you to behave. You would get better results directly asking for it, while not irritating him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Eukonidor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:48:53 07/01/25 Tue Maybe try... "I haven't had my birthday spanking yet" [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My older male friend Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:06:43 07/10/25 Thu I think the best advice on here is just not. I don't know what his reasons are, but it's not worth losing a good friend for something stupid. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]