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Subject: Need a spanking Author: Robyn [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:25:09 04/14/26 Tue 28 year old female here who was spanked when I was younger. Been married for 3 years and husband not interesting in spanking. So here I am, wishing to go over someone’s knee and no one to do it. I’m scared to bring it up with friends not knowing what they might think. I’ve even thought of going to a professional spanker, we have a couple of them with in an hour from here. I’m at a loss to find what I need right now. HELPPPPPPP [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Kev [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:32:40 04/14/26 Tue Hello Robyn. This happens often. I'm sure that you are not in San Diego Cty. I mentor select women from time to time. So what I suggest is that you join Fetlife. You need to be careful on Fetlife, tho. Lots of women get hurt on Fetlife. If you join Fetlife, and you want me to help screen your contacts, just let me know. I have lots of experience with Fetlife. Met a couple of women in RL on Fetlife. Slept with one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: James to Robyn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:07:22 04/14/26 Tue Feel free to email me, if you like...in cases like this, I think the solution is your husband, but how you're going about it isn't working. That can be fixed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:49:18 04/14/26 Tue There are plenty of Spankers available in most areas for 20 something year old ladies. You just have to look at the right sites and be extremely careful. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:20 04/15/26 Wed I'm in Alabama. Feel free to email me and we can talk about what exactly you are seeking. dbdsupvic@hotmail.com [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: James to CTA and Robyn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:29:04 04/15/26 Wed Agreed. Not doing that is a good way to torch your marriage. No serious Mentor will want any part of that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:26:21 04/15/26 Wed Robyn, I want to underscore the "be careful part". I am a mentor and consensual disciplinarian out West. My suggestion is whomever you find, make sure hubby is on-board. Personally, I would not work with a married female unless I had written acceptance by her husband. Even then... Also, I suggest the person or couple you choose is also willing to help you resolve the issues that are prompting you to seek discipline. If you want that help, of course. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Brenda (to Robyn) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:06:51 04/18/26 Sat It sounds like you have broached the subject with your husband, and he has said he's not interested in spanking you. Is that correct? I suggest that you ask him how he would feel about you being spanked by someone else. If I were in your shoes, I'd like to know: Would he be uncomfortable with that, period? Or would he be comfortable with it under certain circumstances? For example, woman v. man spanker, older v. younger spanker, clothed v. bare bottom spanking, disciplinary only spanking, etc. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:26:16 04/18/26 Sat I think Robyn made this post and went Bye-bye. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Robyn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:37:54 04/18/26 Sat No, I’m right here, I’ve just been busy and haven’t had much time to myself this week. One of the reasons I need a stress reliever. I have been trying to get him to help me out, shaking my butt at him, giving him a few swats,and asking for it. He’s old fashioned and doesn’t want to hurt me. He can’t understand how spankings hurt but don’t hurt. All I can do is keep trying. Thanks to everyone for responding to my post. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Need a spanking Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:34:05 04/18/26 Sat We,, I was wrong. Good luck on being too bratty to ignore. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]