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>Siobhan! > >It's so wonderful to see you. I really have missed >you. I actually was thinking about you the other day, >I am so happy to see your reply. > >Everything has been very well, but also very busy. I >certainly haven't been a shining example of consistent >posting, and have missed this forum in not being able >to post as much as I would like. But I continue to >keep busy with babysitting, as well as with church and >of course my top priority in spending time with the >family and especially my grandchildren. > >Where I am a grandmother that does not hesitate to >spank her grandchildren when needed, and does do so >with some regularity, it is of course still >comparatively only a small part of the time we spend >together, which I am glad for. > >Oh, that sounds like fun for your girls, but that must >be hard on you. 3 weeks without seeing them. So that's >a camp that encourages the use of spanking? Good for >them. With our church's pro-spanking view, I have >helped chaperone church trips where I have >administered spankings to the children. I haven't been >the only chaperone to do so, of course. > >Even though your girls have been away, it is wonderful >in that it allows you to spend some time with your >younger sister and niece and nephew. How old is >Caoimhe (what a beautiful name!)? As you compared her >to Missy, she's probably in that 3-4 years old range? >Sounds like you might have had some bath time issues >with Caoimhe the other night. Missy is no fan of >baths. And I find the sound application of my hand to >her wet, bare bottom, right out of the tub, >immediately cures her of that. At least until it is >needed again in the near future. > >Oh Siobhan, I am surprised you gave up your hairbrush! >I don't think that is something I could do for 3 >weeks. lol Although I am guessing that there is no >one else that you would put over your knee for it's >use except your two, so that's why you sent it with >your babysitter. It's wonderful you have a babysitter >you can trust to discipline both of yours for an >extended period of time. Did you tell us about this >sitter previously? > >Thank you for your support on how I handled everything >with Kathy and Chloe. Yes, I know they were lying to >get out of being spanked. But with the combination of >knowing I was grateful, that they were ok, they were >also trying to make light of the situation and hoping >I would just let them off. They should have known >better, especially Kathy. But even Chloe. I have been >babysitting (and spanking) her since she was 7 yrs >old, so that just got me more upset. You can be >assured that I gave each of them hard swats before we >started off back towards the house. > >The walk back was certainly awful for them. Their back >legs already smarting and stinging from the swats, but >knowing what was coming, they were bawling and wailing >hard. And as I said in my original post, begging and >pleading the entire way. Where with me, all I could >think about was getting them back to the house, baring >their bottoms and getting each of those little girls >over my lap. > >Siobhan, I do want clarify in regards to spanking the >girls downstairs. It wasn't a purposeful decision >'because' of the serious misbehavior they did this >time, but just because that's what I normally do when >I bring a child from inside to spank. I will take them >to the closest, and most comfortable, place to sit. >The couch in this case, and which would also mean a >public spanking. However, specifically with Kathy's >and Chloe's spankings, I do feel the heightened >embarrassment, as well as the message it sent to the >other children that if they even 'thought' of doing >something like that, spanking them publicly was >something even more worthwhile than usual in this >instance. > >There are times I have 'borrowed' bedrooms at friend's >homes who are not comfortable seeing a spanking. But >at home, the only reason I would be spanking in a >bedroom is because that's where the misbehavior took >place. I have always been a 'there and then' spanker. >Or if I need to bring them inside, like I indicated >above, I take them to the closest and most comfortable >place to sit, which would mean the couch usually, and >almost certainly means a public spanking. > >There have been times children have interfered when I >have tried to bared them. Grabbing their pants/shorts >or underpants/panties before I can take them down, >wailing "Noooooo!!! Not bare!!" Or "Nooot heeere!!! >They'll seee!!. But it has only really happened with >children I have spanked for the first time, children >who have not experienced the consequences of fighting >a spanking with me. I will give them a warning to let >go and stop fighting me. But if they don't listen, >then they quickly find out that I will end up baring >them anyways, as well as spanking them longer and >harder. It's a mistake they only make once. > >But do the children protest when I bare their bottoms? >Oh yes, all the time. Where they aren't required to >stand with their hands at their sides, I do have them >stand still (no bouncing around) and I do bare them >fully from the waist down before turning them over my >lap. It's very difficult for them as I also give a >pre-spanking lecture/scolding before taking them over >my lap, making it clear to them why I am spanking >them, as they stand bare-bottomed in front of me. And >my procedure does not change whether I spank in >private or with witnesses, so it's especially >embarrassing for them when they are spanked in front >of others. > >Both Kathy and Chloe were most certainly mortified at >first with their spankings in the living room, but >once Chloe's spanking started the last thing on her >mind was who was watching. If anything, it was the >most difficult for my granddaughter. Having to wait >bare-bottomed in the living room with everyone there. >Along with having to watch Chloe's spanking and >knowing that's exactly what she will be receiving, as >well. But that's really why I also saved her for last >as she was my granddaughter and I knew she definitely >knew better and I was the most disappointed with her. > >Siobhan, I have always felt that part of giving good, >sound spankings is making sure they hurt a great deal. >Spankings are punishment and punishment should be >hated and wanted to be avoided at all costs. I agree >with what others have said in here that spankings >should be unbearable for the child, and each time I >administer one I do my best to make sure it is. > >My Mom told after I became a mother myself, that when >we (my sisters and I) got to that point where we made >it clear we couldn't take anymore, she then knew the >real spanking, and teaching, could start. I >(eventually) agreed with her wholeheartedly and it's >the same mindset I adopted when I spank. > >You asked about seated corner time. I only use corner >time post spanking, and it's something I adopted about >15 years ago in using a toddler chair. I like corner >time in itself because it allows the child to reflect >on what they had done, why Mommy/Grandma had to spank >them, and what they can do to avoid earning one in the >future. With the toddler chair, yes, it can hurt quite >a bit to sit down, which is part of it. It's also >quite embarrassing for a teenager to sit in a toddler >chair, reminding them of the little boy (or girl) they >acted like. Much like having to be turned over Mommy's >knee. > >However it's something I don't always use. I will >bypass it if it's close to bedtime and of course if I >have to spank away from home. > >Siobhan, I am sorry that I abbreviated after Kathy's >and Chloe's spanking. It was just getting a bit late >and I wanted to get the post out before going to bed. >But oh yes, I most certainly spent time with the girls >afterwards. I think it is actually the most important >part (and my most favorite). I did help them that >evening with their baths. They usually take showers at >their age, but with their well spanked (blistered) >bottoms, they wanted Mommy's/Grandma's loving >attention, and I wanted to give it. > >Their blisters weren't serious, but they had small >crops of them here and there between their bottom >cheeks and thighs, so I was careful while bathing >them. They did do some more crying and sobbing at >first, apologizing over and over on what they did. I >made it clear to them that they no longer were in >trouble and all was forgiven. After awhile, we began >to talk and even sang some songs. :) > >One of Kathy's favorites as a little girl was Itsy >Bitsy Spider, I would act it out for her when putting >her down for bed. Trying to do it any other time now >she would just go "Graammaa!" But that night in the >tub, she just clapped her hands, smiled widely and >followed along. > >After their baths, I took them to their room and put >them to bed. It was only 7:30pm, but they weren't >complaining. Besides, I thought it was best for them >to have an early night for the day they had. We did >talk for awhile and then I tucked them in and kissed >them goodnight, letting them know I love them. I >checked on them not even 30 minutes later, and sure >enough, their covers were thrown off and they were >sleeping on their tummies. I figured they would be for >at least 2, maybe 3 nights and ended up doing so for >the rest of the nights of the vacation. I spanked them >on Wednesday and we left mid-Sunday morning. But I >always find it so adorable, bare bottoms pointed >straight up in the air after I have had to spank, >especially close to bed. > >Siobhan, thank you. I feel like the luckiest wife, >Mommy and Grandma in the world with my family. :) > > >Sarah
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