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Subject: Re: Kelly UPDATE on spanking my 11 year old son with new hairbrush


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Mary
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Date Posted: 16:41:46 10/29/24 Tue
In reply to: Kelly to Mary 's message, "Re: Kelly UPDATE on spanking my 11 year old son with new hairbrush" on 14:05:16 10/29/24 Tue

Kelly,

You asked two different questions here.

First, since I have been asked so many times and we have seen it on this forum multiple times over the years, "how do mom's control your child and older children during a spanking? What if they fight you? I am my boys mom, they love and respect me and other woman.

First let me say this, if a child gets physical with their mom or dad over a spanking, then that parent has some very major problems in that home.

As they get older, it is up to the one that is going to be spanked as much as possible to do their part in surrendering to their punishment, accepting their punishment (no matter how much they don't want too) no matter how scared they are, they do as much as can be expected considering what is about to happen to them.

I started from day one loving my boys, teaching respect for me and the spanking procedures, I spent time explaining to them what was going to happen and what I expected of them, I have also told other children that have been under my care the same. The punishment if they put up a struggle before their spanking, interfering with being bared. I would/will give another hand spanking an hour after their spanking, they learned quick and were very respectful of a loving mom and one that they knew was the boss. It is a part of the spanking process, it is also a life's lesson, this is a part of life, there are consequences.

This was also how my sister and I were raised and the thought of not cooperating struggling not to be bared or going over her lap with mom never occurred to us, we respected and loved our mom then and do now. My boys and their friends love and respect me and they know how much I love them.

Control, if your son gets to be a big teen boy and you have trouble controlling him over your lap, you can try putting
one of your legs over his, or have as you suggested a aunt, sister or neighbor assist you.

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Re: Kelly UPDATE on spanking my 11 year old son with new hairbrushKelly to Mary17:11:33 10/29/24 Tue


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