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>>Kelly, >> >>You asked two different questions here. >> >>First, since I have been asked so many times and we >>have seen it on this forum multiple times over the >>years, "how do mom's control your child and older >>children during a spanking? What if they fight you? I >>am my boys mom, they love and respect me and other >>woman. >> >>First let me say this, if a child gets physical with >>their mom or dad over a spanking, then that parent has >>some very major problems in that home. >> >>As they get older, it is up to the one that is going >>to be spanked as much as possible to do their part in >>surrendering to their punishment, accepting their >>punishment (no matter how much they don't want too) no >>matter how scared they are, they do as much as can be >>expected considering what is about to happen to them. >> >>I started from day one loving my boys, teaching >>respect for me and the spanking procedures, I spent >>time explaining to them what was going to happen and >>what I expected of them, I have also told other >>children that have been under my care the same. The >>punishment if they put up a struggle before their >>spanking, interfering with being bared. I would/will >>give another hand spanking an hour after their >>spanking, they learned quick and were very respectful >>of a loving mom and one that they knew was the boss. >>It is a part of the spanking process, it is also a >>life's lesson, this is a part of life, there are >>consequences. >> >>This was also how my sister and I were raised and the >>thought of not cooperating struggling not to be bared >>or going over her lap with mom never occurred to us, >>we respected and loved our mom then and do now. My >>boys and their friends love and respect me and they >>know how much I love them. >> >>Control, if your son gets to be a big teen boy and you >>have trouble controlling him over your lap, you can >>try putting >>one of your legs over his, or have as you suggested a >>aunt, sister or neighbor assist you. > >Thank you Mary for this information. I am not saying >my son would do this but just in case the thought >always enters my mind. Thanks.
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