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Subject: Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio?


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Cordelia
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Date Posted: 19:17:11 11/18/24 Mon
In reply to: Helen 's message, "Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio?" on 06:12:50 11/14/24 Thu

I suppose I was a severe but not too frequent spanker. Jack's bottom was always bared for a spanking, and from age of 8 onwards he was spanked with the back of a wooden hairbrush and not my hand.

The advantage of being severe is that there is a chance that a telling off and warning will work - I still smile at the way Jack used to squirm and grab his bottom when I described what would happen the very next time he did that.

I also found that what worked best with Jack was a thorough spanking followed by lots of love and comfort. He wasn't just better behaved the next day, he was happier.

And I remember something a man I used to chat to said: "Make sure that it's your decision there will be a spanking and not his." Sometimes you have to carry through a threat, but a hanging head and "Sorry Mum" went a long way with me. On the other hand, if I got the impression he thought he had been clever by doing something naughty then he was spanked no matter how minor the original offence.

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Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio?Amanda J.16:06:37 11/19/24 Tue


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