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>Hello, > >My name is Helen, mom to two boys, I am pleased to >meet you. >I have found your forums thinking about how severity >of the spankings impacts their frequencies. > >The mixture of me being rather strict, and my boys not >listening to me results in frequent spankings. Once >the ordeal is done, I cannot help but notice how well >behaved my sons are, even though I had spanked them >for the previous misbehaviour, and not the future one. > >My sons never cease to surprise me, often in a good >way, but not always, and I answer their needs to the >best of my ability, whether I reward or discipline >them. I find it quite peculiar that a spanking >severity has a significant impact on when the next >spanking is needed. > >Not so long ago my oldest was going through a phase, >he had to challenge me on everything, earning 2-3 >spankings a week. As much as I still had him in >control, I felt that my voice was losing its meaning. >At times my prideful son had to say his piece even if >it warranted a spanking. > >We worked on that, changing every aspect of his >punishments. Well, I used to only expose his bottom >once he was over my lap, but now his briefs come all >the way down even before the lecture. The spanking >itself is significantly longer, the spanking area >extends to his upper thighs, and my worn out slipper >is replaced with a rubber paddle that is slightly >bigger than my palm. > >I was a bit unsure when I tried a new approach. I have >never seen my son's face, nor his bottom, so red. It >was hard to continue once his bottom got all marked >up, and he was squirming all over my lap begging me to >stop... But I had to know if a spanking this severe >was needed to tame this boy of mine. I could barely >hear the final swats I administered as my son was >screaming so loudly, but once it was over and I >cuddled with him I felt a sense of satisfaction. I was >dying to know how would that impact him? > >I am happy to announce that after few sessions we are >back to 2-3 spankings a month. I feel that my voice >matters again, and the hierarchy of our house has been >restored. Especially since I use the same approach >with my second son as well.. > >I loved so many wonderful posts and I thought I could >share my experiences. In all honestly I have some >second thoughts. Usually when I tap the paddle against >my palm and I feel its raw sting, or when my sons >complain that they are too old to be seen nude and >that they cannot sit properly for days after. > >I keep negativity away by staying true and fair to the >house rules. Spankings are earned after all, and can >be avoided with minimal effort. > >Pleased to meet you, >Helen
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