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Subject: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio?

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Helen
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Date Posted: 06:12:50 11/14/24 Thu

Hello,

My name is Helen, mom to two boys, I am pleased to meet you.
I have found your forums thinking about how severity of the spankings impacts their frequencies.

The mixture of me being rather strict, and my boys not listening to me results in frequent spankings. Once the ordeal is done, I cannot help but notice how well behaved my sons are, even though I had spanked them for the previous misbehaviour, and not the future one.

My sons never cease to surprise me, often in a good way, but not always, and I answer their needs to the best of my ability, whether I reward or discipline them. I find it quite peculiar that a spanking severity has a significant impact on when the next spanking is needed.

Not so long ago my oldest was going through a phase, he had to challenge me on everything, earning 2-3 spankings a week. As much as I still had him in control, I felt that my voice was losing its meaning. At times my prideful son had to say his piece even if it warranted a spanking.

We worked on that, changing every aspect of his punishments. Well, I used to only expose his bottom once he was over my lap, but now his briefs come all the way down even before the lecture. The spanking itself is significantly longer, the spanking area extends to his upper thighs, and my worn out slipper is replaced with a rubber paddle that is slightly bigger than my palm.

I was a bit unsure when I tried a new approach. I have never seen my son's face, nor his bottom, so red. It was hard to continue once his bottom got all marked up, and he was squirming all over my lap begging me to stop... But I had to know if a spanking this severe was needed to tame this boy of mine. I could barely hear the final swats I administered as my son was screaming so loudly, but once it was over and I cuddled with him I felt a sense of satisfaction. I was dying to know how would that impact him?

I am happy to announce that after few sessions we are back to 2-3 spankings a month. I feel that my voice matters again, and the hierarchy of our house has been restored. Especially since I use the same approach with my second son as well..

I loved so many wonderful posts and I thought I could share my experiences. In all honestly I have some second thoughts. Usually when I tap the paddle against my palm and I feel its raw sting, or when my sons complain that they are too old to be seen nude and that they cannot sit properly for days after.

I keep negativity away by staying true and fair to the house rules. Spankings are earned after all, and can be avoided with minimal effort.

Pleased to meet you,
Helen

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Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? Mary 07:00:56 11/14/24 Thu

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? -- Helen, 14:51:45 11/14/24 Thu

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? -- Mamá to Helen, 08:45:34 11/15/24 Fri

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? -- Mary, 09:06:07 11/15/24 Fri

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? Laura (Matt's mom) 07:30:16 11/14/24 Thu

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? -- Helen, 14:54:16 11/14/24 Thu

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? Ivana 09:21:57 11/14/24 Thu

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? Cordelia 19:17:11 11/18/24 Mon

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? Amanda J. 16:06:37 11/19/24 Tue

Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio? Cherie 17:20:38 11/19/24 Tue

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>Hello, > >My name is Helen, mom to two boys, I am pleased to >meet you. >I have found your forums thinking about how severity >of the spankings impacts their frequencies. > >The mixture of me being rather strict, and my boys not >listening to me results in frequent spankings. Once >the ordeal is done, I cannot help but notice how well >behaved my sons are, even though I had spanked them >for the previous misbehaviour, and not the future one. > >My sons never cease to surprise me, often in a good >way, but not always, and I answer their needs to the >best of my ability, whether I reward or discipline >them. I find it quite peculiar that a spanking >severity has a significant impact on when the next >spanking is needed. > >Not so long ago my oldest was going through a phase, >he had to challenge me on everything, earning 2-3 >spankings a week. As much as I still had him in >control, I felt that my voice was losing its meaning. >At times my prideful son had to say his piece even if >it warranted a spanking. > >We worked on that, changing every aspect of his >punishments. Well, I used to only expose his bottom >once he was over my lap, but now his briefs come all >the way down even before the lecture. The spanking >itself is significantly longer, the spanking area >extends to his upper thighs, and my worn out slipper >is replaced with a rubber paddle that is slightly >bigger than my palm. > >I was a bit unsure when I tried a new approach. I have >never seen my son's face, nor his bottom, so red. It >was hard to continue once his bottom got all marked >up, and he was squirming all over my lap begging me to >stop... But I had to know if a spanking this severe >was needed to tame this boy of mine. I could barely >hear the final swats I administered as my son was >screaming so loudly, but once it was over and I >cuddled with him I felt a sense of satisfaction. I was >dying to know how would that impact him? > >I am happy to announce that after few sessions we are >back to 2-3 spankings a month. I feel that my voice >matters again, and the hierarchy of our house has been >restored. Especially since I use the same approach >with my second son as well.. > >I loved so many wonderful posts and I thought I could >share my experiences. In all honestly I have some >second thoughts. Usually when I tap the paddle against >my palm and I feel its raw sting, or when my sons >complain that they are too old to be seen nude and >that they cannot sit properly for days after. > >I keep negativity away by staying true and fair to the >house rules. Spankings are earned after all, and can >be avoided with minimal effort. > >Pleased to meet you, >Helen
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