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>Hello Helen, > >Welcome to this wonderful forum! > >It sounds like you have done an amazing job of upping >the ante so to speak in how you spank. As your boys >get older, I am certain you have done the right thing. > It will pay off. Spankings in the early and mid teen >years are so important, and I am one that believes >that the option should at least still be on the table >for older teens. Perhaps they are spanked less then, >but I believe the option should still exist. > >How I spank my two boys has evolved over the last >couple of years as well. I had been just pulling down >their clothing and spanking with my hand, but as they >hit their teen years and I learned so much from this >forum, I now completely remove all of their clothing >and then guide the boy to be spanked over my lap. I >start out spanking with my hand, then switch to a good >firm hairbrush that has really brought their spankings >up a couple of notches. They hate the brush, as they >should. > >Mary stated perfectly the advantages to starting with >the hand. I fully agree with her that there is a >special bond when it comes to being over the lap and >bare hand applied to the bare bottom. It is a very >bonding experience between parent and child/teen, >while producing a solid sting. It is an amazing >combination. Then switching to the hairbrush really >intensifies the spanking. > >You are very much doing what is right for your boys! >Every family and situation is different, but I would >not be concerned about the fact of puberty and your >boys being undressed for spankings. They have the >option of avoiding spankings through their choices and >behaviors. They don’t have anything that you >haven’t seen before. > >I like that you cuddle afterwards. I do as well. >That is so important. > >At what point do your boys redress following >spankings? > >Hope to hear more from you! > >Amanda J. > > > >>Hello, >> >>My name is Helen, mom to two boys, I am pleased to >>meet you. >>I have found your forums thinking about how severity >>of the spankings impacts their frequencies. >> >>The mixture of me being rather strict, and my boys not >>listening to me results in frequent spankings. Once >>the ordeal is done, I cannot help but notice how well >>behaved my sons are, even though I had spanked them >>for the previous misbehaviour, and not the future one. >> >>My sons never cease to surprise me, often in a good >>way, but not always, and I answer their needs to the >>best of my ability, whether I reward or discipline >>them. I find it quite peculiar that a spanking >>severity has a significant impact on when the next >>spanking is needed. >> >>Not so long ago my oldest was going through a phase, >>he had to challenge me on everything, earning 2-3 >>spankings a week. As much as I still had him in >>control, I felt that my voice was losing its meaning. >>At times my prideful son had to say his piece even if >>it warranted a spanking. >> >>We worked on that, changing every aspect of his >>punishments. Well, I used to only expose his bottom >>once he was over my lap, but now his briefs come all >>the way down even before the lecture. The spanking >>itself is significantly longer, the spanking area >>extends to his upper thighs, and my worn out slipper >>is replaced with a rubber paddle that is slightly >>bigger than my palm. >> >>I was a bit unsure when I tried a new approach. I have >>never seen my son's face, nor his bottom, so red. It >>was hard to continue once his bottom got all marked >>up, and he was squirming all over my lap begging me to >>stop... But I had to know if a spanking this severe >>was needed to tame this boy of mine. I could barely >>hear the final swats I administered as my son was >>screaming so loudly, but once it was over and I >>cuddled with him I felt a sense of satisfaction. I was >>dying to know how would that impact him? >> >>I am happy to announce that after few sessions we are >>back to 2-3 spankings a month. I feel that my voice >>matters again, and the hierarchy of our house has been >>restored. Especially since I use the same approach >>with my second son as well.. >> >>I loved so many wonderful posts and I thought I could >>share my experiences. In all honestly I have some >>second thoughts. Usually when I tap the paddle against >>my palm and I feel its raw sting, or when my sons >>complain that they are too old to be seen nude and >>that they cannot sit properly for days after. >> >>I keep negativity away by staying true and fair to the >>house rules. Spankings are earned after all, and can >>be avoided with minimal effort. >> >>Pleased to meet you, >>Helen
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