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>The old age question of bare bottom or over clothes. >You can count me as another Mom (and now Grandma) that >fully supports the practice of always spanking on the >bare bottom. I definitely feel bare bottom is best, >but there have been times I have spanked on underpants >or panties before. Not by choice. But I do agree with >Helen in that at least in regards to how much it >'hurts', giving a good, hard spanking on a thin pair >of undergarments doesn't give all that much protection. > >There have been a few times I have needed to do so >when I have babysat children where their parents did >not want me to bare their child's bottom. So I spanked >their on underpants or panties, and did so good and >hard, and I can assure you they cried and screamed >just as loudly as children I have spanked bare bottom. > >That said, I will say again, I do feel bare is >certainly best. As it has been said, it is safer. You >can see exactly what you are spanking and reddening. >Whether you are getting towards the end, or even need >to go for a good while yet. > >Also, there is no sound like a spanking being given on >a bare bottom. Where the smacking is still loud on >thin underpants or panties, there is no comparison on >a child receiving a good and sound hand spanking on >their bare bottom. Even though the primary message >being sent is via the pain receptors, 'hearing' their >own spanking, the loud repeated (rapid) hand smacking >their bare bottom sends such a strong message, as >well. Never mind the sound of the spanking and the >message it sends to any other child, as well. I don't >know how many times when I have had to spank, the >other children have shaped up from just hearing the >spanking I administered to their sibling, cousin or >friend. And especially even more so if I spanked in >front of them. > >Which leads into what I agree with Helen is probably >the largest factor in spanking bare bottom, the >embarrassment aspect. Obviously with the little ones, >it is not an issue. But with any child starting >sometimes as early as 8 yrs old, that embarrassment >will start to kick in when they are being bared by >Mommy. And I can tell you, in this home, after mine >turned 8, there were still plenty more years of >spanking with all of my children. And all of them >'hated' every time I took their underpants/panties >down and off. Especially if I spanked them in front of >others, which happened often. > >I've mentioned this before on the forum, but about the >time my son turned 12 is when he started to really beg >and plead for me to stop turning him over my knee when >I would spank him. He hated it before then, as well as >of course always being bared, but it was at that point >where he started to really voice his protest on it. He >would let me know how "childish" it felt. That he >wished he could lay over his bed (or the couch, if I >spanked him in the living room). He wanted to be >spanked "like a man." > >But I let him know, he wasn't a man. He was a naughty >boy when he misbehaved and earned a spanking. And as >always, if he didn't want Mommy to bare his bottom and >turn him over her knee for a spanking, then all he >needed to do was behave. He was in complete control in >that regards. But once he misbehaved and a spanking >was needed, Mommy would decide on how it was done. Of >course he never liked that answer. But Helen is right, >embarrassment is really a strong and effective means >as part of the spanking process. And I will be honest, >one of the many (and main) reasons I continued to turn >my son over my lap for his spankings is 'because' of >how much he hated it. That it reminded him he was very >much still my boy and was not too old to have his >bottom bared by me and turned over Mommy's knee for a >sound spanking if his behavior required it. >Embarrassing? Most certainly, but a strong, and true, >message. > > >Sarah
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