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Subject: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a Parent


Author:
MarkW
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Date Posted: 13:15:41 01/07/25 Tue

It was Helen's interesting observations on the relevance of embarrassment as a key factor when spanking older children as discipline that suggested this thread to me. Being spanked on your bare bottom by an Aunt is not something a teenager forgets, as was the case for Helen's boy.

Psychology and spanking go together hand in hand (or hand to bottom). When it comes to a good sound spanking from a parent, preparation ritual and embarrassment have their place. Most of you mothers, I have noticed, take their time with the baring process, for instance.

1. Some examples of psychology at play that have been used by strict, but loving, parents:

2. Bare bottomed corner time either before and/or after a sound spanking. I recall that Lois uses both, for example.

3. A boy or girl being sent to Mom's bedroom to fetch her hairbrush or paddle knowing his or her bare bottom will soon be dancing to its tune once put bare bottomed across her knee.

4. A hairbrush/paddle left on the child's bedside table as a reminder, after a bare bottomed hiding with it from Mom or Dad.

5. A paddle mounted on the son's bedroom wall. The first thing he sees on waking up in the morning.

6. A bare bottomed spanking bent over the knee as family members or friends look on.

Being made to apologise to the guests after a witnessed bare bottom spanking over the parental knee.

7. Being sent to your bedroom to await your spanking, often told to take your trousers and undies down in readiness for the promised tanning.

8. My own mother would always insist I look her in the eye as she took my trousers and briefs down before patting her thigh for me to bend over. Very pink faced as a teenage when she did this.

9. Spanking 'aftercare' such as a bottom rub still bent over Mom's knee, with or without soothing lotion.

I know I am only scratching the surface with this brief foray into the psychological elements of a spanking from Mom or Dad, but it does interest me. Thoughts on the examples I have provided? Any psychological aspects of parental spanking you utilise and care to share?

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Replies:
Subject Author Date
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentMary13:26:55 01/07/25 Tue
Drawstring PJs and the drama of baring the bottomStephanie14:05:32 01/07/25 Tue
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentKaren07:35:12 01/08/25 Wed
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentNancy10:07:30 01/08/25 Wed
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentSarah22:50:59 01/08/25 Wed
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentLois03:53:50 01/09/25 Thu
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentPaige06:54:49 01/09/25 Thu
Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a ParentLaura (Matt's mom)09:10:34 01/10/25 Fri


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