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>Sarah, > >You raise a salient point about the sound of an older >teen being spanked bare bottom by hand sending a >powerful message of deterrence to other children >within hearing distance. I experienced that feeling >myself as a young teen. Along with other cousins I >could hear my older cousin getting spanked by his >mother. The sound of the actual spanking and the >attendant crying and yelling was so loud that we all >cringed. My first thought was that I am glad it is not >me. The next thought was do I sound like that when >spanked? > >As far as the embarrassment factor for the teen being >spanked is concerned, it is transitory. As many have >written here, when the spanking is over there is a >spanking dance with all modesty gone. Any >embarrassment about being bared and spanked over the >knee has been spanked right out of him. But there is >the embarrassment of confronting the cousins who heard >the spanking. And everyone remembers it for a long >time. > > > > >>The old age question of bare bottom or over clothes. >>You can count me as another Mom (and now Grandma) that >>fully supports the practice of always spanking on the >>bare bottom. I definitely feel bare bottom is best, >>but there have been times I have spanked on underpants >>or panties before. Not by choice. But I do agree with >>Helen in that at least in regards to how much it >>'hurts', giving a good, hard spanking on a thin pair >>of undergarments doesn't give all that much >protection. >> >>There have been a few times I have needed to do so >>when I have babysat children where their parents did >>not want me to bare their child's bottom. So I spanked >>their on underpants or panties, and did so good and >>hard, and I can assure you they cried and screamed >>just as loudly as children I have spanked bare bottom. >> >>That said, I will say again, I do feel bare is >>certainly best. As it has been said, it is safer. You >>can see exactly what you are spanking and reddening. >>Whether you are getting towards the end, or even need >>to go for a good while yet. >> >>Also, there is no sound like a spanking being given on >>a bare bottom. Where the smacking is still loud on >>thin underpants or panties, there is no comparison on >>a child receiving a good and sound hand spanking on >>their bare bottom. Even though the primary message >>being sent is via the pain receptors, 'hearing' their >>own spanking, the loud repeated (rapid) hand smacking >>their bare bottom sends such a strong message, as >>well. Never mind the sound of the spanking and the >>message it sends to any other child, as well. I don't >>know how many times when I have had to spank, the >>other children have shaped up from just hearing the >>spanking I administered to their sibling, cousin or >>friend. And especially even more so if I spanked in >>front of them. >> >>Which leads into what I agree with Helen is probably >>the largest factor in spanking bare bottom, the >>embarrassment aspect. Obviously with the little ones, >>it is not an issue. But with any child starting >>sometimes as early as 8 yrs old, that embarrassment >>will start to kick in when they are being bared by >>Mommy. And I can tell you, in this home, after mine >>turned 8, there were still plenty more years of >>spanking with all of my children. And all of them >>'hated' every time I took their underpants/panties >>down and off. Especially if I spanked them in front of >>others, which happened often. >> >>I've mentioned this before on the forum, but about the >>time my son turned 12 is when he started to really beg >>and plead for me to stop turning him over my knee when >>I would spank him. He hated it before then, as well as >>of course always being bared, but it was at that point >>where he started to really voice his protest on it. He >>would let me know how "childish" it felt. That he >>wished he could lay over his bed (or the couch, if I >>spanked him in the living room). He wanted to be >>spanked "like a man." >> >>But I let him know, he wasn't a man. He was a naughty >>boy when he misbehaved and earned a spanking. And as >>always, if he didn't want Mommy to bare his bottom and >>turn him over her knee for a spanking, then all he >>needed to do was behave. He was in complete control in >>that regards. But once he misbehaved and a spanking >>was needed, Mommy would decide on how it was done. Of >>course he never liked that answer. But Helen is right, >>embarrassment is really a strong and effective means >>as part of the spanking process. And I will be honest, >>one of the many (and main) reasons I continued to turn >>my son over my lap for his spankings is 'because' of >>how much he hated it. That it reminded him he was very >>much still my boy and was not too old to have his >>bottom bared by me and turned over Mommy's knee for a >>sound spanking if his behavior required it. >>Embarrassing? Most certainly, but a strong, and true, >>message. >> >> >>Sarah
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