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>Mark, > >I have used some of what you posted. Back when Tomas >my oldest was 11 years old he became modest. He was >embarrassed to have me bare him, then put him in the >corner, I do bare bottom corner time before I spank. I >would hear and still do "please mum not bare" from him >and my youngest would copy him, he would go along with >his big brother and ask the same thing, he was not >embarrassed yet at the time though (he is now), his >reason was it hurts too much, he wanted me to spank >him over his trousers or jammies, “mummy a bare bum >spanking hurts a million times too much.” That is >the other reason why my oldest doesn't want to be >spanked bare. > >I have almost laughed when they have said this to me, >I tell them yes, a bare bottom spanking hurts an awful >lot, they are supposed to, that's the point. They >still ask and complain that I bare them for their >corner time and spanking, they also ask not to be >spanked over my lap, I tell them this is how I will >continue to spank them, it is up to them to behave and >not need me to spank them. > >Also for me baring them, taking them over my lap and >spanking their bare bottom shows them that 'mum is in >charge and I will bare them.' > > > >>It was Helen's interesting observations on the >>relevance of embarrassment as a key factor when >>spanking older children as discipline that suggested >>this thread to me. Being spanked on your bare bottom >>by an Aunt is not something a teenager forgets, as was >>the case for Helen's boy. >> >>Psychology and spanking go together hand in hand (or >>hand to bottom). When it comes to a good sound >>spanking from a parent, preparation ritual and >>embarrassment have their place. Most of you mothers, I >>have noticed, take their time with the baring process, >>for instance. >> >>1. Some examples of psychology at play that have been >>used by strict, but loving, parents: >> >>2. Bare bottomed corner time either before and/or >>after a sound spanking. I recall that Lois uses both, >>for example. >> >>3. A boy or girl being sent to Mom's bedroom to fetch >>her hairbrush or paddle knowing his or her bare bottom >>will soon be dancing to its tune once put bare >>bottomed across her knee. >> >>4. A hairbrush/paddle left on the child's bedside >>table as a reminder, after a bare bottomed hiding with >>it from Mom or Dad. >> >>5. A paddle mounted on the son's bedroom wall. The >>first thing he sees on waking up in the morning. >> >>6. A bare bottomed spanking bent over the knee as >>family members or friends look on. >> >>Being made to apologise to the guests after a >>witnessed bare bottom spanking over the parental knee. >> >>7. Being sent to your bedroom to await your spanking, >>often told to take your trousers and undies down in >>readiness for the promised tanning. >> >>8. My own mother would always insist I look her in the >>eye as she took my trousers and briefs down before >>patting her thigh for me to bend over. Very pink >>faced as a teenage when she did this. >> >>9. Spanking 'aftercare' such as a bottom rub still >>bent over Mom's knee, with or without soothing >lotion. >> >>I know I am only scratching the surface with this >>brief foray into the psychological elements of a >>spanking from Mom or Dad, but it does interest me. >>Thoughts on the examples I have provided? Any >>psychological aspects of parental spanking you utilise >>and care to share?
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