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>Amanda, > >This is really a great idea. Even with some of the >consistent posters, ages for the children have changed >and it's good to get an update. I know I forget ages >with some of them if they are not updated >periodically. lol > >With myself, I am a married mother of four. All of my >children are grown now (one son 32 and three daughters >37, 33 & 25). I'm also a proud grandmother of six. >Three boys-19 months, 3 & 6 (almost 7) and three >girls-12, 5 & 3. The 12 yr old girl and 6 yr old boy >are my oldest's, the baby boy and 5 yr old girl are my >middle daughter's and the two 3 yr old's are twins and >are of course my son's. No children yet for my baby. >But she is getting married this coming June. :) > >Much like everyone else here, I am a strong advocate >of spanking. I raised my children with spankings and >as I do a lot of babysitting with my grandchildren, I >am also a grandmother that will not hesitate to redden >their bottom when needed, as well. Of course the 19 >month old is still young for spankings, but I have >spanked all of my other grandchildren, and with a >couple of them, (6 yr old and 12 yr old) quite a >number of times. > >Currently I am babysitting four of my grandchildren >after school. Kathy (12 yr old), AJ (6 yr old) and >Ricky and Izzy (Isabelle) (3 yr old twins). My oldest >works in the day so I need to watch Kathy and AJ for a >couple of hours after school. > >And both Jason (my son) and Paula (his wife) bought a >house and are working hard in getting it ready to move >in. So they have been using most available hours to >work on the house while I babysit the twins. Of course >Grandma is happy to help out. :) > >But as expected, my lap has been pretty busy with the >grandkids, especially with Ricky and Izzy these last >few weeks. They usually earn a couple spankings a >week, each. With Kathy and AJ, they normally earn >about 1 spanking a week on average, sometimes less for >Kathy. > >How I spank is very similar to most here. I always >spank over my lap on the child's bare bottom, no >matter their age. I think everyone can agree here that >there is no better way to send the message than >directly to the child's bare buttocks. It certainly >hurts more. Never mind letting the child know that >Mommy (or Grandma) is going to take down (off) their >pants, and they have no say in the matter. There is no >question on who is in charge. > >I am another Mom that starts with a good, sound hand >spanking and then finishes with my hairbrush. Or my >wooden spanking spoon with the younger children. For >the real young children, like my 3 yr old twin >grandchildren, only my hand is needed. But I have >always had the belief (and practice) that good, sound >and thorough spankings is what is needed any time you >have to take them over your lap. Of course a "good and >sound spanking" is adjusted to the age of the child >you are spanking, but it should still hurt a lot and >be hated no matter who you are spanking. There should >frantic and desperation as well as a face full of >tears and snot, no matter the age of the child being >spanked. All of the above are the sights and sounds of >a proper spanking being administered. > >I do also spank as a babysitter. Besides with my >grandchildren, I did most of my babysitting in the >summer months and needed to spank quite consistently >because of it with having 3 charges. But you may have >seen me talk about Andy and Derek. I have babysat Andy >since he was 8 yrs old, and have spanked him since >then. But really did not start spanking him >consistently until he was 9 when his mother started >traveling for work and he would stay with me for a >week or two at a time. In the years I have watched >Andy, he has become like another son to me, and he has >looked the same as like another Mom(my). In the years >I have watched him, I have had to give him quite a >number of spankings. > >With Derek, I have never technically babysat him, but >he has been over here often as he and Andy are best >friends and have always been attached at the hip, you >could say. Similar to Andy, I have grown close to >Derek and have come to view and treat him like another >son, as well. Including in regards to discipline >(spankings). Both boys are 17 now (Andy turns 18 next >month) and still earn relatively consistent trips over >my lap. > >Much like many of the moms here, I have been the only >spanker in our home for most of the years. There was a >brief time my husband did try to 'do his part' not >long after we got married (I am remarried) and he >wanted to show his support in regards to spanking. > >But it was clear he just was not up to giving them and >we both came to the agreement that I should handle >them. And I had no issues in regards to that. My >viewpoint has always been I would prefer to be the >'bad guy' or 'bad Mom' and make sure the children >received the proper spankings they needed. Than try to >have both of us spank and the children sometimes not >receive the spanking that was deserved. Also, I was >usually home first and more often with the kids, >anyways. Besides, the important thing was my husband >presented a united front, there was no running to >Daddy to get out of a spanking. And since then, I have >always been the one to handle all the spankings and I >have been just fine with that. And honestly, have >preferred it that way. > > >Sarah
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