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Subject: Convincing my sister


Author:
Kelsey
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Date Posted: 15:36:47 04/22/25 Tue

Unlike most moms on this forum I did not grow up in a spanking household. Although my parents did grow up with spankings, they unfortunately did not pass on this practice to their own children. My parents decided against spanking me and my two siblings (1 older brother, 1 younger sister) as they believed that society had grown past this form of outdated discipline. So as a result I grew up only dimly aware that spanking was a thing that happened anywhere. Spanking is still rather taboo where I live and not something that gets talked about openly very much so it's very easy to be completely ignorant about it as I was for most of my life until recently.

Thanks to my good neighbor and friend Julie, I have seen the light and I'm now fully on board this strict approach to child rearing. For me bare bottom spanking has been a complete game-changing revelation that very quickly showed me a profoundly different and undeniably more effective way to run a household as a mother and authority figure who commands respect. Before my children misbehaved often and did not take my orders very seriously and would often backtalk to me. Now they connect that type of behavior with very painful consequences and they are so much better behaved. Now when I speak and tell my kids to do something, they usually do it and know better than to backtalk to me. The house is noticeably cleaner now that my kids understand that Mom wants cleaner bedrooms and a cleaner home in general. While their misbehavior doesn't drop all the way down to zero, they are children so of course they still mess up and need to be spanked, but the misbehavior is unquestionably less frequent. After a good sound spanking that turns their bottoms into ripe red tomatoes, their eyes into a fountain of tears, their nose into a snot dispenser, and their mouth into a siren of earsplitting cries, the kids turn into the most wonderful, relaxed, and affectionate versions of themselves for a couple days. When cuddling after a spanking, my kids very clearly understand that all is forgiven and we all instantly feel the resolution of whatever problem brought on the spanking. I look into their eyes and I do not see a face that is resenting me for punishing them. Instead I see genuine contrition and affection for my strict guidance.

It's only been 7 weeks into this new regime and it's safe to say the trial period is over. I'm now a true believer in spanking and will continue spanking for as long as I believe my children need and benefit from it while living in my home. This new regime is unquestionably better than what we had before so there's no way we're ever going back.

Like any true believer I naturally want to spread the good word to other mothers who don't yet understand the virtues of bare bottom spanking. My younger sister Carly is in the same boat I was in as she did not grow up with spanking and is every bit as ignorant about spanking as I used to be. Carly is a mother of three boys (ages 7, 9, 10) and she disciplines her boys with methods very similar to what I previously used (timeouts, taking privileges away, etc) and I'm sure spanking has never crossed her mind as an option. Unsurprisingly Carly is also dealing with a lot of the same struggles and frustrations with her kids that I was facing. My nephews are great kids but they are not as obedient and respectful as I know they could be and I have no doubt that their attitudes would benefit greatly from some spanking. I hoped that I could open my sister's mind to a new and far more effective paradigm for child discipline.

So I recently told Carly for the first time about this new direction I've taken with raising kids and how wonderfully it has transformed my everyday home life. Carly was quite shocked and really taken aback when she learned that her older sister is now a regular spanker and enthusiastic supporter of good old fashioned spankings for kids. After discussing the topic at length, Carly came around from being very doubtful at first to eventually becoming intrigued to find out how her three boys would respond to spankings. I made a pretty compelling case after describing in detail all the ways my kids conduct themselves better and how much easier it makes my everyday life as a mother. It was too good a case for Carly to ignore and she agreed to start thinking about it. When I first started considering spanking my kids, my spanking mentor neighbor Julie offered to let me watch her spank her own kids the next time one of them earned a punishment. This demonstration was crucial towards me understanding what a proper spanking entails and I know my sister needs a similar demonstration. So I gave the same offer to Carly and invited her to come over the next time I need to spank Alice or Jake. Carly declined my offer saying she really doesn't want to embarrass her niece and nephew by watching them get spanked. Instead Carly suggested that she bring her three boys over to my place so I can give each boy a proper spanking in front of Carly and see how it goes.

Needless to say I very readily accepted the request and I am thrilled to be in a position to mentor another mother similar to how Julie mentored me. Hopefully I'm equally as successful with fully converting Carly into becoming a spanking mom as Julie was with me.

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Replies:
Subject Author Date
Re: Convincing my sisterSamantha (mom of 3)16:38:08 04/22/25 Tue
Re: Convincing my sisterJoanne05:59:47 04/23/25 Wed
Re: Convincing my sisterCherie08:20:59 04/23/25 Wed
Re: Convincing my sisterKaylee10:25:58 04/23/25 Wed
Re: Convincing my sisterMarkW12:35:31 04/23/25 Wed
Re: Convincing my sisterSamantha (mom of 3)18:27:54 04/23/25 Wed
Re: Convincing my sisterBecky23:57:56 04/23/25 Wed
Re: Convincing my sisterShannon03:50:37 04/24/25 Thu
Re: Convincing my sisterMaria B.03:55:58 04/26/25 Sat
Re: Convincing my sisterIvana08:02:44 04/26/25 Sat
Re: Convincing my sisterSonya04:48:04 04/27/25 Sun


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