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Subject: Re: How parents decide to use and practice spanking


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Becky
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Date Posted: 20:22:56 04/22/25 Tue
In reply to: Trish 's message, "Re: How parents decide to use and practice spanking" on 14:32:46 04/22/25 Tue

Trish,

You and your husband clearly did right by your girls. You said that each of the girls averaged only about three spankings a year, so clearly, the girls were well behaved. The occasional crisp paddling (after the age of nine) likely contributed to their good character. I have no doubt that your twenty year old is a sweet and cheerful your lady, and your seventeen year old is a good high school student. Young adults who were spanked as children tend to have a happy and positive outlook on life. They were raised with love and healthy discipline and it became the solid foundation from which they move into the world with confidence and assurance. Both of your girls know that they have parents who love them, and that makes all the difference.

Although it is assumed that you and your husband gave panties-down spankings, I don’t believe you specifically stated whether that was the case or not. Certainly, a thin pair of little-girl panties isn’t going to stop the sting of Mom or Dad’s hand, and the paddle will work pretty much the same regardless of whether the panties are up or down, but maybe you could clarify where the girl’s panties were during the spankings. Were the girls spanked on the seat of their thin cotton panties or did they get it bare?

I’m not surprised that, as the girls got older, you found that they needed more restraint when being paddled and that the one-knee method offered you the ability to keep them more firmly held down. I’m sure the girls didn’t like when you switched from two knees to one as the one-knee position definitely raises their blessed rear ends higher and makes them more prominent for the paddle. It also places their heads much closer to the floor. Little Missy is less able to see what is going on behind her. She can’t prepare for what is about to happen, only respond to it afterwards. Not knowing what is coming is worse than knowing. Only Mom or Dad can anticipate how loudly the girl is going to shriek after the next paddle lick, and there is comfort when the anticipated result and the true result are aligned.

At our house, it is rare for one child to get in trouble without at least one of his or her siblings being there too. It is far more common for two, or all three of the kids to get spanked together than just one. Was that the case in your house too?

I didn’t get the sense that your girls did cornertime before or after being spanked, but I believe cornertime adds a lot to a spanking. The painful part of spankings generally only takes a few minutes, but the emotional and psychological aspects can be extended over a much longer period of time, making the spanking a true event. It’s all about getting to the heart of the child, and while part of that is done by affecting their behinds, most of it is done by affecting their minds.

Did your girls share a bedroom growing up? If so, did it ever result in bedtime shenanigans and bedtime spankings?

Best,

Becky

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Re: How parents decide to use and practice spankingTrish13:07:51 04/25/25 Fri


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