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Subject: Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking

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Date Posted: 08:13:24 03/21/24 Thu
In reply to: Carly 's message, "Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking" on 07:13:19 03/21/24 Thu

Carly,

Welcome to the forum, it’s nice to meet you. I really enjoyed this from you, thanks for sharing this and starting this thread. I always enjoy reading what other moms do for their spanking ritual. I look forward to seeing more from you. As you will see I am long winded on this subject. :)

I believe that there are 3 important parts of a spanking process, my ‘ritual’. Before the spanking starts, the spanking itself and the post spanking’. My process as well as the actual spanking itself has evolved over the years, due to a number of factors, the age and size of the bottom of the one being spanked for one, spanking age appropriate (how hard, the duration.) I don’t have a set pattern while I spank everything else when I spank is done the same exact way.

I will bring them to where I will spank as I scold, then once I am seated I will tell them why I am going to spank even though by this point I know they know why. Then I methodically bare them, not rushing while also scolding them, no yelling but I have raised my voice when needed. While I scold I don't really expect any real answers because I know they are totally focused on the spanking that is coming and not really listening to me all that much, but if I think I need an answer to something I will take hold of their chin, look into their eyes and ask. I used to just pull the pants down, that evolved to bare from the waist down. I would leave a t-shirt unless it was below the waist. Now I spank them completely naked, socks too, it's just easier to control them. Also, there is just something to be said for the sight of a completely naked boy over my lap, so clean and natural and beautiful, I love it.

I have my boys and any other kids that come into my house remove their shoes at the door. The baring is usually at a moderate pace, no rushing, I undo the belt then the zipper and the pants come down, if they are in pjs or shorts they are pulled down to their feet and they step out of them as well, then the shirt/s then finally the underpants. I have a couple ways I lower the underpants, I will usually put my hand inside the back portion and sides of the underpants, hands on their cheeks with my thumbs outside and lower them to the floor as my hand run down their crisp smooth bottom cheeks and I have them step out of them, or to change things up I will put my fingers inside the leg holes grasping the underpants and lowering.

When they feel the under pants come down they would always start with the crocodile tears if not already apologizing over and over making promises (except for Donny starting around when he was 11-12 if he is in his tough guy mood he can be stoic and at times telling me he isn't going to cry, Scott for a while now has not cried until the spanking started, they will be moving their feet, legs, hips and bottom even go up on their toes as a reaction to the underpants going down as their bottom and front are exposed feeling the fresh air so to speak. When they are wearing pjs they don't wear underpants under their pjs so that is one less step. Of course if in swim trunks or its summer and just shorts and usually barefoot it’s less steps and quicker getting them bare.

I don’t mind if they cover their fronts as I scold and bare. I am only interested in getting to and seeing their bottoms over my lap and spanking them. I first started baring them for their spanking this way not to ‘shame’ them but because pant legs were getting kicked up in my face and it was a serious tripping hazard when they got off my lap, that progressed quickly to just removing everything, no long baggy tops working there way down and getting in the way either.

When I am ready to spank I say ok lets go, then help them over my lap and get them adjusted so they are where I want them, my personal preference is to have my legs apart as this gives me a good firm foundation area for them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat and I am looking right down at wonderful bare bottom that is on display. They will usually reach back at this point, if not I will ask them to reach back is I can pin their arm to their back and my elbow/forearm pressing against their upper back helping to control their body and it allows them to squirm, wiggle and kick away, I don't get upset because they do this how vocal they do become, as I view it as a natural reaction that can't be helped and shows me I am getting through to them. I need to see them being animated struggling over my lap, I need to hear the loud toddler bawling, the yelling pleading begging the frantic uncontrollable crying <an important part of my process.

Not having a set pattern when I spank I guess I'm more "freestyle". I raise my right hand high and the first volley is as hard and fast as I can for about 15 spanks, this will cause them to 'Gasp" and stiffen their body out straight as possible, then they let the gasp out and the crying/begging being very animated starts as they try and arch their back on and off shaking their head as my red hand print with the white lines from my fingers start showing and letting me know how hard I just spanked, then without stopping I slow it down to a steady 2 or so spanks per second and not quite as hard but still raising my hand high enough.

At 5’5 I am a strong woman with good size strong hands, to be honest, I do love the feel of my hand spanking a bare bottom, with my hand I mostly concentrate on the entire bottom, from the top down through the sit spots to the upper thighs, both cheeks and across the center/crown. I don’t spank in a consistent pattern so the recipient has no idea where I will spank because I might be alternating between bouncing wiggling cheeks, or it might be a long series of spanks delivered to just the crown, across the center, I will also spank their cheeks, lets see, the best way I can explain it is vertically and horizontally (across the cheeks as well as lengthwise with my hand, I hope that made sense, also cupping and un-cupping my hand. When I feel it is time I will stop spanking with my hand a go to my hairbrush.

When I am transitioning from my hand to my brush I give my hand a little shake and flex from the long, hard hand spanking I just administered. With my brush it is more of a wrist and forearm action as well but I don’t raise it that high. It is always something to see, the shocked reaction from the one over my lap when my brush comes down on their already red, burning bottom and the frantic, panic sets in and they want the spanking over NOW!!! This with my brush I learned from my good friend Sarah, I will slow it down to 1 spank per second, hitting all over but I will also pick a spot and deliver 4 to 5 rapid fire spanks short strokes then return to my methodical random spanking then pick another spot and 4-5 or so rapid fire spanks and so on.

Then once I am through spanking they will do their best jig and each a little different as I sit, watch and wait for their brains to return then they will come over and cuddle with me crying as I rub their back and head reassuring them I love them and it's over now, you have been punished. One of the reasons I like to wear a t-shirt when I spank, is they are good for cuddling afterwards when the boys rub their tears and snot on it, we also have over the years gone through a lot of boxes of Kleenex, lol. All is forgiven they are contrite, we move on I let them do what they have to do to recover, rest, nap drink fluids, then when they are ready we have a talk about why I had to spank and what they should have done, not done, said...our talks will usually go on to other topics as well, we have some great talks after a spanking, that is of course unless it was a bedtime spanking, then its off to bed after cuddling.

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>Carly, > >Welcome to the forum, it’s nice to meet you. I >really enjoyed this from you, thanks for sharing this >and starting this thread. I always enjoy reading what >other moms do for their spanking ritual. I look >forward to seeing more from you. As you will see I am >long winded on this subject. :) > >I believe that there are 3 important parts of a >spanking process, my ‘ritual’. Before the spanking >starts, the spanking itself and the post spanking’. >My process as well as the actual spanking itself has >evolved over the years, due to a number of factors, >the age and size of the bottom of the one being >spanked for one, spanking age appropriate (how hard, >the duration.) I don’t have a set pattern while I >spank everything else when I spank is done the same >exact way. > >I will bring them to where I will spank as I scold, >then once I am seated I will tell them why I am going >to spank even though by this point I know they know >why. Then I methodically bare them, not rushing while >also scolding them, no yelling but I have raised my >voice when needed. While I scold I don't really expect >any real answers because I know they are totally >focused on the spanking that is coming and not really >listening to me all that much, but if I think I need >an answer to something I will take hold of their chin, >look into their eyes and ask. I used to just pull the >pants down, that evolved to bare from the waist down. >I would leave a t-shirt unless it was below the waist. >Now I spank them completely naked, socks too, it's >just easier to control them. Also, there is just >something to be said for the sight of a completely >naked boy over my lap, so clean and natural and >beautiful, I love it. > >I have my boys and any other kids that come into my >house remove their shoes at the door. The baring is >usually at a moderate pace, no rushing, I undo the >belt then the zipper and the pants come down, if they >are in pjs or shorts they are pulled down to their >feet and they step out of them as well, then the >shirt/s then finally the underpants. I have a couple >ways I lower the underpants, I will usually put my >hand inside the back portion and sides of the >underpants, hands on their cheeks with my thumbs >outside and lower them to the floor as my hand run >down their crisp smooth bottom cheeks and I have them >step out of them, or to change things up I will put my >fingers inside the leg holes grasping the underpants >and lowering. > >When they feel the under pants come down they would >always start with the crocodile tears if not already >apologizing over and over making promises (except for >Donny starting around when he was 11-12 if he is in >his tough guy mood he can be stoic and at times >telling me he isn't going to cry, Scott for a while >now has not cried until the spanking started, they >will be moving their feet, legs, hips and bottom even >go up on their toes as a reaction to the underpants >going down as their bottom and front are exposed >feeling the fresh air so to speak. When they are >wearing pjs they don't wear underpants under their pjs >so that is one less step. Of course if in swim trunks >or its summer and just shorts and usually barefoot >it’s less steps and quicker getting them bare. > >I don’t mind if they cover their fronts as I scold >and bare. I am only interested in getting to and >seeing their bottoms over my lap and spanking them. I >first started baring them for their spanking this way >not to ‘shame’ them but because pant legs were >getting kicked up in my face and it was a serious >tripping hazard when they got off my lap, that >progressed quickly to just removing everything, no >long baggy tops working there way down and getting in >the way either. > >When I am ready to spank I say ok lets go, then help >them over my lap and get them adjusted so they are >where I want them, my personal preference is to have >my legs apart as this gives me a good firm foundation >area for them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay >flat and I am looking right down at wonderful bare >bottom that is on display. They will usually reach >back at this point, if not I will ask them to reach >back is I can pin their arm to their back and my >elbow/forearm pressing against their upper back >helping to control their body and it allows them to >squirm, wiggle and kick away, I don't get upset >because they do this how vocal they do become, as I >view it as a natural reaction that can't be helped and >shows me I am getting through to them. I need to see >them being animated struggling over my lap, I need to >hear the loud toddler bawling, the yelling pleading >begging the frantic uncontrollable crying <an >important part of my process. > >Not having a set pattern when I spank I guess I'm more >"freestyle". I raise my right hand high and the first >volley is as hard and fast as I can for about 15 >spanks, this will cause them to 'Gasp" and stiffen >their body out straight as possible, then they let the >gasp out and the crying/begging being very animated >starts as they try and arch their back on and off >shaking their head as my red hand print with the white >lines from my fingers start showing and letting me >know how hard I just spanked, then without stopping I >slow it down to a steady 2 or so spanks per second and >not quite as hard but still raising my hand high >enough. > >At 5’5 I am a strong woman with good size strong >hands, to be honest, I do love the feel of my hand >spanking a bare bottom, with my hand I mostly >concentrate on the entire bottom, from the top down >through the sit spots to the upper thighs, both cheeks >and across the center/crown. I don’t spank in a >consistent pattern so the recipient has no idea where >I will spank because I might be alternating between >bouncing wiggling cheeks, or it might be a long series >of spanks delivered to just the crown, across the >center, I will also spank their cheeks, lets see, the >best way I can explain it is vertically and >horizontally (across the cheeks as well as lengthwise >with my hand, I hope that made sense, also cupping and >un-cupping my hand. When I feel it is time I will stop >spanking with my hand a go to my hairbrush. > >When I am transitioning from my hand to my brush I >give my hand a little shake and flex from the long, >hard hand spanking I just administered. With my brush >it is more of a wrist and forearm action as well but I >don’t raise it that high. It is always something to >see, the shocked reaction from the one over my lap >when my brush comes down on their already red, burning >bottom and the frantic, panic sets in and they want >the spanking over NOW!!! This with my brush I learned >from my good friend Sarah, I will slow it down to 1 >spank per second, hitting all over but I will also >pick a spot and deliver 4 to 5 rapid fire spanks short >strokes then return to my methodical random spanking >then pick another spot and 4-5 or so rapid fire spanks >and so on. > >Then once I am through spanking they will do their >best jig and each a little different as I sit, watch >and wait for their brains to return then they will >come over and cuddle with me crying as I rub their >back and head reassuring them I love them and it's >over now, you have been punished. One of the reasons I >like to wear a t-shirt when I spank, is they are good >for cuddling afterwards when the boys rub their tears >and snot on it, we also have over the years gone >through a lot of boxes of Kleenex, lol. All is >forgiven they are contrite, we move on I let them do >what they have to do to recover, rest, nap drink >fluids, then when they are ready we have a talk about >why I had to spank and what they should have done, not >done, said...our talks will usually go on to other >topics as well, we have some great talks after a >spanking, that is of course unless it was a bedtime >spanking, then its off to bed after cuddling.
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