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Date Posted: 2021-11-11 01:37:15
Author: tiptoe
Subject: Having to convince others?

Sometimes a bit of nudging is needed to get your child to try going barefoot, and sometimes you need to defend a barefoot lifestyle against those who think it's unsafe, gross or unhealthy.

As a parent, convincing your child to go barefoot: Often that's not even necessary. If parents don't get their children used to putting on socks and shoes when getting dressed, it's just normal for them to go without.
If wearing something on their feet is normal for them and you want to change that, you can point out how pleasant the ground is, that it's practical not to bother with shoes. Best find the most pleasant barefoot surfaces together, walk barefoot with them and expand the barefoot comfort zone little by little every day.
To encourage their children to go barefoot in more situations, depending on the nature of the child, parents could point out they're tough and brave to go barefoot even outside in the city, on hikes, when it's colder ... And/or that their little bare feet are just pretty, cute and adorable. Yes it's tough and cute at the same time, a barefoot boy or girl is dressed perfectly for just about any situation, from wild outdoor fun to a festive party and anything inbetween. For those kids concerned about their appearance, parents could point out they look cool barefoot and it's a wonderful part of their personal style.

As a child, convincing your parents that you want to go barefoot: For you it's just fun, easy and a wonderful feeling, but there's more to it. Practical arguments should convince practically thinking parents: Less shoe shopping, no more dirty socks that clutter up the place and have to be washed and sorted, less waiting time for the child to be ready when going out. Cleaning your feet when needed and not showing off your dirty feet to parents will be better for parents very concerned about cleanliness. That should also help if they are concerned about germs.
Health arguments will convince just about anyone: which parents don't want their kids to grow up healthy? In a nutshell, going barefoot will give you better muscles, better circulation (no more cold feet), tougher skin (no more injuries), no smelly feet, no blisters, no deformations, no ingrown nails and none of the problems caused by ill-fitting shoes.
If your parents are afraid you will get injured, you will have to point out you watch your step. Just watch out for the trail and lift your feet.

Sometimes a need of convincing doesn't just come up in the family. Other family members, neighbours, teachers, even city authorities might accuse parents of being negligible by letting their children go barefoot. Then again the best argument is that the children are healthy, happy and doing what they like, it does not harm them or anyone so it shouldn't be anybody else's worry. What better argument is there than fine kids who obviously aren't missing anything substantial in their life?

Have any of you ever had the need to defend your (or your children's) choice to go barefoot to anyone else?

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