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Subject: Re: To Debbie and Laura

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Debbie To Emily
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Date Posted: 16:08:13 04/13/25 Sun
In reply to: Emily to Debbie - a different perspective 's message, "Re: To Debbie and Laura" on 02:25:00 04/12/25 Sat

Hi Emily,

I am SO sorry to hear about the struggles you are having with your daughter. Please don't apologize for rambling, and you didn't hurt my feelings. I was only worried that Laura might feel bad, but I can see that wasn't what you meant at all. Your first post makes so much sense knowing the context of the situation with your daughter.

I wish I had some brilliant suggestion for you from a kid's perspective, but I really don't. 😟 I'm motivated to behave because I don't want to disappoint my mom, like you said you were when you were young. I can't imagine deliberately breaking the rules over and over. You said that she just wants to hang out with her friends and that you made her curfew earlier. I'm guessing you already tried grounding her, and not letting her go out at all. Did that make it worse?

I commend you for not wanting to push too far with using embarrassment as part of the punishment. For me, while I certainly don't like it, a bare bottom has always just been a natural consequence of earning a spanking. But if my mom stripped me naked for a spanking, I think I'd just be resentful that she was using my body shyness against me like that.

I'm hoping that this is a phase for her. I feel like middle-school aged kids are kind of difficult in general, with crazy puberty hormones messing with them.

I'm wishing you luck, and crossing my fingers that she grows out of this behavior sooner than later.

Hugs, Debbie

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Re: To Debbie and Laura Emily to Debbie 09:28:55 04/14/25 Mon

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>Hi Emily, > >I am SO sorry to hear about the struggles you are >having with your daughter. Please don't apologize for >rambling, and you didn't hurt my feelings. I was only >worried that Laura might feel bad, but I can see that >wasn't what you meant at all. Your first post makes so >much sense knowing the context of the situation with >your daughter. > >I wish I had some brilliant suggestion for you from a >kid's perspective, but I really don't. 😟 I'm >motivated to behave because I don't want to disappoint >my mom, like you said you were when you were young. I >can't imagine deliberately breaking the rules over and >over. You said that she just wants to hang out with >her friends and that you made her curfew earlier. I'm >guessing you already tried grounding her, and not >letting her go out at all. Did that make it worse? > >I commend you for not wanting to push too far with >using embarrassment as part of the punishment. For >me, while I certainly don't like it, a bare bottom has >always just been a natural consequence of earning a >spanking. But if my mom stripped me naked for a >spanking, I think I'd just be resentful that she was >using my body shyness against me like that. > >I'm hoping that this is a phase for her. I feel like >middle-school aged kids are kind of difficult in >general, with crazy puberty hormones messing with >them. > >I'm wishing you luck, and crossing my fingers that she >grows out of this behavior sooner than later. > >Hugs, Debbie

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