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Date Posted: 05:39:09 02/12/23 Sun
Author: Hannah
Subject: Re: Step sister changing step brother?
In reply to: Emily 's message, "Step sister changing step brother?" on 07:42:25 02/11/23 Sat

>I have a 13 year old son that wets the bed ever since
>we lost his father to cancer 4 years ago. He wears
>diapers at night, but I taught him to change himself
>early on and he has done so ever since.
>
>Last year I re-married. My new husband is also a
>widower, we met at a support group, and brought a
>daughter into the marriage. She is 15 now, two and a
>half year older then my son. The two of them got along
>very well right from the start and are very close now.
>Generally I'm very happy about it, but a few weeks ago
>I found out that she has been changing my son into his
>diapers for a few month now and I'm not sure how to
>feel about that. On the one hand its great that they
>are this comfortable with each other, on the other it
>feels a bit weird. I tried to find out how this
>started, but haven't gotten a clear picture yet.
>
>What do you guys think? Should I intervene? Or is this
>something harmless I should let them work on their own?

Hi Emily. I think it's great that your son can change himself, I wish I could say the same about my girls.

I can understand that you find it a little strange that your step-daughter changes your son, but I wouldn't read to much into it. It's great they bonded in that way. A lot of girls start to develop motherly instincts at that age. My older daughter also loves taking care of her little sister.

As Jasmine has already suggested, its also possible that your son is missing something. 13 is a difficult age. They aren't really children anymore, but also not grown ups. My daughter is the same age and some days she is still my little girl that plays with her dolls for hours and want's to sleep in mommies bed because she id afraid of the dark. Other days she talks about boys with her girlfriends and is embarrassed to be seen with me. It's important to meet them where are from moment to moment.

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>>I have a 13 year old son that wets the bed ever since >>we lost his father to cancer 4 years ago. He wears >>diapers at night, but I taught him to change himself >>early on and he has done so ever since. >> >>Last year I re-married. My new husband is also a >>widower, we met at a support group, and brought a >>daughter into the marriage. She is 15 now, two and a >>half year older then my son. The two of them got along >>very well right from the start and are very close now. >>Generally I'm very happy about it, but a few weeks ago >>I found out that she has been changing my son into his >>diapers for a few month now and I'm not sure how to >>feel about that. On the one hand its great that they >>are this comfortable with each other, on the other it >>feels a bit weird. I tried to find out how this >>started, but haven't gotten a clear picture yet. >> >>What do you guys think? Should I intervene? Or is this >>something harmless I should let them work on their >own? > >Hi Emily. I think it's great that your son can change >himself, I wish I could say the same about my girls. > >I can understand that you find it a little strange >that your step-daughter changes your son, but I >wouldn't read to much into it. It's great they bonded >in that way. A lot of girls start to develop motherly >instincts at that age. My older daughter also loves >taking care of her little sister. > >As Jasmine has already suggested, its also possible >that your son is missing something. 13 is a difficult >age. They aren't really children anymore, but also not >grown ups. My daughter is the same age and some days >she is still my little girl that plays with her dolls >for hours and want's to sleep in mommies bed because >she id afraid of the dark. Other days she talks about >boys with her girlfriends and is embarrassed to be >seen with me. It's important to meet them where are >from moment to moment.

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