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>We are fed up with my 9 year olds laziness with his >bedwetting. He has been in pull-ups and he will wet >them while awake before bed, leave wet pull-ups laying >on the floor of his room and bathroom, come sit on the >couch in the morning in a already wet pull-up and then >pee in it again making it leak all over the couch and >he doesn’t even care. Well that all came to a head >over the holiday break. We are now making him wear >actual tape on diapers and he does not get to touch >them. We have gone back to how we did things when he >was a baby. We keep his diapers and changing things in >the living room and that’s where all changes are >done. When we decide it’s time for him to get ready >for bed he has to strip naked and lay on the couch. He >hated this part, he doesn’t like to be seen naked. >We then use a good amount of either diaper cream or >baby oil and generously apply it to his bottom and >genitals which often causes a erection which further >embarrasses him. Once his diaper is on the bathroom is >off limits. He has to come ask for a change but if his >diaper only a little wet he is denied a change. He >also isn’t allowed to wear anything over his diaper. >He was absolutely mortified when family was here for >Christmas and his cousins saw his new routine. He >begged us to not change him in front of them but was >denied. We told him this was all his doing by being so >careless with his pull-ups even after many reminders. >In the morning we decide when he is changed. We often >don’t change him till after breakfast so he is seen >by everyone in his very full and swollen diaper. A few >times he has even had to poop in it. Not sure how long >we will maintain this routine of punishment but it >will continue for a while. Oh yea nothing changes when >we have his sitter here either, she changes his and >applies his baby oil or cream as well. Last time she >was here she asked if it would be ok to bring her >little sister that is my son’s age because her >parents also had plans that evening and we said or >course. He was not happy at all that night.

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