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Date Posted: 17:19:04 02/14/24 Wed
Author: Trish
Subject: Re: Changing tables
In reply to: Jeff 's message, "Re: Changing tables" on 14:31:03 02/12/24 Mon

>>>>>Well known are baby size changing tables, but after
>>>>>the child grows what are you doing for a changing
>>>>>table? Does it include any restraints to deal with
>>>>>squirming children? We had a nice one years ago.
>>>It
>>>>>had a cross bar above the table top holding the
>>>ankles
>>>>>and spread for easy changes.
>>>>
>>>>My husband is a pretty good wood worker, so when we
>>>>remodeled the kids bathroom a few years ago, we
>added
>>>>a proper changing table he designed and build. It
>has
>>>>a little ladder so the kids and climb onto it, and
>>>>integrated sink for when we have to clean up a
>bigger
>>>>mess, a heat lamp to keep the kids warm and straps
>to
>>>>secure the child. It's also big enough that it can
>>fit
>>>>two of our children at the same time. I love it, the
>>>>kids not so much. It's very obvious what it is,
>which
>>>>has lead to some awkward questions when the kids
>have
>>>>friends over and it made it very clear that dd was
>>>>here to stay.
>>>>
>>>>Trish
>>>
>>>What age's are your kids Trish ?
>>
>>We have 12 and 9 year old daughters and a 7 year old
>>son. My husband has another 14 year old son from his
>>first marriage, that lives with us roughly every other
>>week.
>
>Wow that sounds like a very impressive setup. Perhaps
>your husband should take commisions, lol. I imagine
>the bathroom is especially large to fit it and other
>supplies. Must be rather prominent or hard to avoid if
>friends have asked the kids about it. Has it made the
>kids hesitant to invite others over so that the
>changing table wouldn't be discovered? How have the
>friends generally reacted?
>
>Seems the kids would rather be changed elsewhere, as
>they don't have the same fondness for it that you do.
>Had you been doing diaper discipline for many years
>before the changing table was built? What brands of
>diapers do you use and about how often do you feel the
>kids need them?

It does take up a lot of space that's true, but we think it's worth it. During the re-model we finally ripped out the old coal-powered water heater that came with the house, that freed up some space we used for the changing table, but the bathroom is still a bit cramped, especially when I try to get 4 kids ready for bed at the same time.

The kids definitely became more selective with the friends they invite over after we installed the changing table. In the beginning I caught the older ones claiming its only for there younger siblings a few times, but a few painful reminders about our rules about lying quickly took care of that. I would say their friends were curious at first, but it never was a big deal. These days they all just accept that this is how things are done in our house.

We had been doing diaper discipline for a little over a year by the time we added the changing table. For my step-son we use BetterDry for a while now and we recently switched over my older daughter as well. For the younger two we use Seni Kids or Abena Slip Junior, depending on what we can get or whats on sale.

These days they all wear diapers every night. We found that greatly helps with getting them into bed in the evening. Beyond that it varies greatly. My older daughter gets put into diapers right after school until she is done with her homework at the moment, to help her improve her grades. Besides that it's maybe 2 or 3 days each month.

Trish

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