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>>Oh, I didn't understand you meant asking the bpys to >stop >masturbating openly in front of you, vs them >doing it >privately. I dont think its unreasonable to >ask them to >keep it private if you wish. I'm guessing >they only did it >in private before you put them in >diapers. Obviously their >privacy is now under your >control, which you mention as a >reason for playing >with their bits after a bath. What made >you decide it >was important part of the diaper change >routine as >well? > >Hi Jeff. Well, as you mentioned, Peter and Chase are >no longer entitled to any privacy while they are being >punished. And to us, one of the main points of diaper >discipline is to allow a parent to take away their >child's genital and anal autonomy (e.g. take away >their ability to control when they pee or poop). We >believe that while a boy is being diaper disciplined, >parents should have full control over his penis and >anus, and the boy should have no privacy. This is why >we decided that fondling our boys' bits is an >important part of our routine. And the natural time to >do so is during bathing and diaper changes, as this is >when their private parts are most on display. > > >>You also said raising two teenage boys is a learning >>experience, do you feel the diapers have been a big >reason >for that? > >Yes and no. My wife and I have learned a lot raising >two boys. For example, we naively thought when they >were younger that we could treat them almost like >adults. But we quickly realised our mistake when their >behavoural issues started, no doubt due to our >overly-lax parenting. We take full responsibility, and >are now trying to course-correct before it is too >late. It has been a learning experience, even long >before we started diaper discipline! Although we have >of course learned a lot more about our boys since they >began their punishment. > >>Like has changing or bathing them now felt much >>different than when they were little? > >Of course! They are much bigger and harder to wash of >course! Teenage boys smell bad at the best of times, >even when they are not made to pee and poop >themselves. I never thought I would be scrubbing clean >my 15yo and 13yo sons' anuses every day, for a start. >Emotionally, they are of course much more embarassed >to be changed and bathed by their Mom and Dad than >when they were little! > >>Has there been any other progress with their >attitudes now? >>Have they seemed more willing to be upfront about >anything >bothering them? > >Yes, we have seen some great progress with Chase. He >seems remorseful and wants to be better behaved in the >future. Of course, only time will tell whether he is >better behaved now out of choice, or because he is >forced to be because of his diaper situation (makes it >too embarassing to sneak out at night!). But he has >been a lot more open with us - his fears, what upsets >him, his school life, etc. We have been a little less >successful with Peter. He is still quite closed off, >and he is still resentful that we are making him wear >and use diapers 24/7. But we hope to see some >improvement soon. > >>Do they seem more eager to do activities >>around the house (or outside) such as sports. > >Around the house, yes! I often find the boys playing >ping-pong together in the garage, which is something >they had not done together since they were very small >(too addicted to their smartphones!). They are finding >ways to entertain themselves in healthy ways without >technology, which is amazing to see. Chase has gotten >back into practicing the guitar big-time since being >diapered, we hear him playing from his room almost >every day. He told us during one of our one-on-one >chats that he wrote a song about his experience being >made to wear diapers again at 13 years old. He is too >embarassed to play it for us yet, but we told him we >look forward to hearing it, and that we are proud of >him for being so open. Peter has taken up drawing. He >has been practicing how to draw diapers for some >self-portraits he is working towards. Both boys are >involved in sports at school. It is tricky with their >diapers, but they manage! > >>Has either felt ready to meet up with friends at all? > >Peter has not invited friends over yet, although we >have allowed him to stay back after school to talk >with his friends (we have made it clear that if he >goes to a friend's house, his clothes must come off >and he must stay naked except for his diaper). > >Chase had friends over to our house for the first time >last week. Two boys from his class that he has known >since he was little (I think I mentioned them to you >before). He was anxious all week before they came, and >almost begged us to cancel their visit. He was visibly >shaking as he opened the front door for them and their >Moms, standing naked in his diaper in front of them >for the first time. But both boys greeted him with a >hug instead of laughing or being disgusted, which is >what he was worried about. They played basketball in >the back yard for a few hours, before coming inside >for food. Chase had to pee and poop while they were >playing, so he ended up being changed in front of his >two friends. He found it very embarassing, but the two >boys were curious more than anything, asking me lots >of questions about diapers and diaper punishment. Even >still, Chase was quite upset that his two best friends >had seen his naked private parts on full display (and >in such a vulnerable position!). He was on the verge >of tears, and it seemed nothing would cheer him up. >That was, until his friends came up with a remarkable >idea. They decided to pull down their pants in >solidarity with Chase, so that he could see their >naked penises and butts in return. I thought it was so >empathetic and brave for boys their age to do that for >Chase. It cheered Chase right up, and the boys began >laughing about how different their private parts >looked from each other's, comparing length and color >and size. They also agreed that Chase's butt was the >roundest and firmest, while Paul's was the flattest. >It made me emotional to see Chase playing and laughing >with his friends for the first time since he was >diapered, and to see him so comfortable with his own >naked body in front of his friends. Chase's friends >removed their pants and underwear for the rest of the >play-date, and ended up in the living room playing >their Nintendos completely naked from the waist down. >When they had to leave, he was begging for me to let >them come back soon. So we have organised another >play-date for next week!

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