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• Feeling better Now! -- Brown-Chiffon, 00:17:52 06/27/01 Wed
  i used to feel really bad about myself and would subject my self to be treated somewhat badly because i didnt want to be alone. even though i would still love to be a size 10, i'm feeling better and better about myself at a size 20. as for the stockings, well i like Haynes Fitting Pretty!
  

  
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• dealing with the past and present -- Rae, 14:43:18 12/05/01 Wed
  I'm a full figured woman that has been through a lot with men. Men have beat me, raped me, and lied to me. It's only by the grace of God that I've found someone that knows the Word. All things work for the good of them that Loves the Lord. Waiting is so crucial. Sometimes God wants us to go through some things in order to fufill his plan. It's not by our will, but Thy will be done. Let God decide for you. Sometimes I think that God doesn't listen to me. I just keep praying and I don't hear his voice. When I close my eyes to pray I see darkness and not the spiritual realm. Sometimes, God sends his message through a messenger, through a human being that is close to you. God can do that. So, I feel that women don't have to have a man. But God gives us all our needs and wants. God will send that men ladies inspite of our weight and size. We are beautiful and we should hold our heads. Lift up thy heads because God created us in the image of him. So what if advertisements, and television say that being white, blond hair, and blue eyed And especially skinny is beautiful. We are beautiful too.
  

  
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  • Re: dealing with the past and present -- FFBW2001, 01:03:55 12/28/01 Fri

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• Hi -- ButtaCup, 22:11:24 06/29/01 Fri
  hello. this is a nice site. i was just passing thru. i feel complete without a man. but i dont know if i'm one to speak; being newly (and happily) divorced and all. its nice to have a man but even if you dont know who you are, having a man still wont make you complete!
  

  
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  • Re: Hi -- Portia, 08:42:55 10/06/01 Sat
    • Re: Hi -- FFBW2001, 01:17:48 12/28/01 Fri
  • Re: Hi -- Portia, 08:51:20 10/06/01 Sat

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• http://www.keen.co.uk/AdvisorMichael75 -- Michael, 08:42:42 11/10/01 Sat
  http://www.keen.co.uk/AdvisorMichael75
  Tarot Readings,For A Variety Of Problems On Your Mind.
  

  
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  • Re: http://www.keen.co.uk/AdvisorMichael75 -- FFBW2001, 01:23:27 12/28/01 Fri

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• Happy New Year! -- FFBW2001, 01:56:44 01/07/02 Mon
  Happy New Year, Ladies!
  
  How was your holiday? I didn't do much...spent time with the family...ate sweet potatoe pie :-), and gave thanks for seeing a new year!
  
  What did you do this holiday season?
  

  
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• I Have also found God.................. -- Wally, 15:57:37 01/18/02 Fri
  I`m a white brother, married and have finally found God..........it`s great! My wife has been in the word for years and finally I am. It is Really helping our marriage, as we know there is a bigger picture for us to tune into...........anyways I feel reborn and feel grief for some of you. You must hang in there and focus on the creator, and not give up !!! Take care all..............
  

  
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  • Re: I Have also found God.................. -- FFBW, 22:22:19 01/22/02 Tue

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• What if I Were a size 7? -- CoCo, 01:09:03 01/29/02 Tue
  what if i were a size 7 when i married and now am a size 22. if he really loves me, he'll love me regardless. so? what do i say? i'm gonna keep right on eating my chicken! its me; love me or not!
  

  
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• Just the way I am! -- Kim J., 23:57:30 02/10/02 Sun
  I'm big and beautiful. Some men may not feel like it, but I do! I love me. yes, i would like to be smaller, but I'm not. So I love me just the way I am! Nice site!
  

  
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• U Down? Get Up! -- Cheryl daPerl, 00:09:24 04/16/02 Tue
  I'm feeling a lot of negativity here! Because you're a BBW doesn't mean you can't have a man or have to settle for less! In time you will find the right person who will appreciate you for who you are! But until that time comes, stop focusing so much on a man! There is more to life than that! I feel that I have it going on whether I'm with a man or not!
  

  
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• All2GodEntertainment.com -- Proverbial Thought, 14:54:49 09/28/02 Sat
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• I am looking for a Christian wife -- Rev. Jack Howell, 19:58:25 10/18/02 Fri
  I am a Bishop in the PENTECOSTAL FAITH ASSEMBLIES, If interested please send a photo and a email explaing why you would make a good christian wife for me
  
  Rev. Jack Howell
  Bishop, Pentecostal Faith Assemblies
  

  
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  • Re: I am looking for a Christian wife -- FFBW, 21:53:15 10/22/02 Tue

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• Me To -- millie, 13:28:20 07/25/01 Wed
  I have learn how to wait on Jesus. If he send me some one that is fine and if he donot that is still fine. I have been single for 15 years. Have met those I would call friends and that is all. I am waiting for God to send that christian man. I will not settle for nothing less, because I am a woman of God. And I do not want to be unequal yoked. So I waiting.
  

  
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  • um....maybee the problem is.... -- JAke, 17:26:07 09/07/02 Sat
    • Re: um....maybee the problem is.... -- FFBW, 22:06:56 10/22/02 Tue

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• Married Women -- R. Scott, 19:10:08 01/02/03 Thu
  I would like to speak to the married women out there. I am a single woman with no children (age 42). I would have married if the right man had come along (not to say that he is not on the way). I have met many "Christians" in my Christian walk and I have had some negative experiences, I hate to say, with Married Christian women.
  
  I have experienced being slighted by these women simply because of my marital status. One woman had the audacity to come to work and tell me that her husband said that I would not stand a chance at finding a husband at my age (at the time I was in my early 30's!). Every time I saw this woman, she had something negative to say about my marital status.
  
  I have also had negative experiences with a married woman who would continuously make plans to do things (go shopping, out to eat etc.) but cancel those plans at the last minute stating that her first obligation was to her husband and family (not that anyone expected otherwise from her....just a lil common courtesy not to waste my time. It's called manners).
  
  The above is just an example of things I have encountered with married women and in speaking to other single women, I have learned that they too have come across such ludicrous behavior. Oh! I could I forget to mention the married women, when given a surprise birthday luncheon stated in conversation, "watch single women, they will take your husband."
  
  I am writing this to bring attention to a problem in what should be a peaceful, Christian relationship among God's people is anything but. Married women and single women have much to work on in how they relate to each other. Under it all, I surmise? A false sense of worth (being married makes me special and gives me status in society). Under that? Putting single women down make married women feel better about their choice (or does it?). No where in the Bible does it say that you are worthy because you are married. In fact, Paul spoke out and told the people that it is better to be single if you can handle it, because it gives you more time for the the things of God.
  
  If you are married, and you are acting in a manner that has just been described above, you need to press closer to God, because your heart is not right. Not all women find your husband of interest or would think of compromising their relationship with God for a piece of flesh that you think belongs to you (actually he belongs to God and can be removed from your life at any time). My God, I have one dear married friend who lives in one city while her husband lives in another and she often makes comments about their marriage as though it is "normal". What happened? She did not want to be single and take on the harshness that other women dish out, so she settled for the man's last name even if he is not around. All about status and acceptance. I thank God for his acceptance and pray that some of you women will grow from this message.
  

  
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• check this out -- templar, 18:03:02 12/24/03 Wed
  Look I am 6'2 325 lite skined and canot find a good full fig sista. who wants to be treated right so talk to me okla
  

  
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• THE DO"NTS -- templar, 18:46:33 12/24/03 Wed
  THE three donots my crew and i follow and goes for you foxy bbbw.
  1 do'nt give up
  2 do'nt give out
  3 and do'nt give in
  

  
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• PAIN -- ASHLEY MEDLEY, 18:51:15 12/01/05 Thu
  HI MY NAME IS ASHLEY AND I JUST MADE 19 BUT I DON'T WANT TO BE ALIVE BECAUSE I M IN SOME PAIN AND THINK THAT I NEED AND OLDER WOMEN TO TALK ABOUT MY FEELING SO THAT I CAN STOP CUTING MYSELF AND WANTING TO DIE SO MANY BAD THING HAVE HAPPEND TO THAT I NEVER TALK ABOUT AND SO NOW I M ASKING FOR SOME HELP GOD BLESS YOU
  

  
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• Am i unforgiving -- Vonita Miller (unknown), 12:16:50 02/15/07 Thu
  Well i got pregant by a sorry ass man and i didn't want the baby because i felt that i wasn't ready be a mother i felt i couldn't offer him anything because i didn't have any i had just move in my apartment and had little beat up car that broke down on me every other month so i told the father that i was pregant and that i need help paying for the termination he just told me he will call me back ever did so i call him and call but he aviod my calls so i try to get the money my self donig all kinds of doubles on my job so i could get it done but the farther i waited the far i became pregant and harder it was for me to get it done in maryland i spoke with a lot of doctor who wanted to help but not a lot so i said that i was going to do it myself by drinking popping pills taking laxatives to overdosing on inslin and even straving myself i would punch myself in the stomach trying to get rid of this baby this monster that i was carryin i ask god to please take him because i don't want him but my son heart beat was stronger than ever kicking in my stomach alive and well i hated my son because i done all those things to him and he still was coming in this world so i was angry with god be cause i told him i couldn't do it but he didn't listen to me i felt as all ways for one i walk on my tippy toes i am fat which i like but i had a mess up shape i am big at the top and little at the bottom big wide feet and my face please i would be typing for ever but believe it or not i am happy with me i just wish i had some hips a big butt like a black woman i feel like i am shape like a big fat nasty white woman and on top of that i have a son i felt like i couldn't keep a man than and now i have a baby no man want a ugly fat out of shape girl with a kid and no money that why i ask if i am forgiving for feeling the way i did or is god still mad with me .
  

  
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• This is nice -- Alberta (Encourage yourself), 11:08:29 03/04/08 Tue
  I THINK THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL SITE FOR WOMEN OF STATURE. WE ARE GOD'S CREATION AND IF YOU JUST BELIEVE THIS ALL THINGS WILL WORK FOR THE GOOD OF THEM THAT LOVE THE LORD. I'M A LOCAL GOSPEL VOCALIST JUST LOOKING FOR A OPPORTUNITY TO MINISTER THROUGH SONG TO THE WOMAN OF GOD THAT HAS BEATING THE ODDS IN THERE LIFE. I'M NOT SURE WHAT MY PURPOSE IS IN LIFE BUT I KNOW WHEN GOD IS GIVING ME A OPPORTUNITY TO SPREAD HIS WORD THROUGH SONG. MAYBE YOU MIGHT KNOW OF SOMEONE THAT IS LOOKING FOR NEW GOSPEL TALENT PLEASE KEEP ME IN MIND UNTIL THEN BE BLESSED WE WILL TAKE ON NEW CHALLENGES AND WILL NOT TURN DOWN NO OPPORTUNITY TO MAGNIFY THE LORD.
  

  
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• affiliation -- pastor Simion Nyandwaro Nyameri (po box 155 ogembo- kenya), 09:14:05 10/30/09 Fri
  Dear brethren in christ,
  We greet you in the name of our almighty father for his great tender care of us whereby he has given us this short opportunity to air our best greetings to you and God's name be praised.
  We are very happy when we visited your website on the internet.Infact here in Kenya we are an Independent christian fellowship with no affilliation to any church.
  Now brethen for we are applying for church membership and affilliation also in your churches.
  We are praying God to open your ways for you to come here in Kenya, to ordain, teach and establish the work of God here in Kenya.
  Infact we are applealing to you to consider our application.We are praying God to have more pastors from your country who will come to teach and preach the word of God.We shall be very happy when we shall be numbered with you.Hope is from the power of God.
  I would like to hear from you soon.Phil 4:21-22, Col 3: 23.
  God bless you our brethrens in christ.
  Yours faithfully,
  Simion Nyandwaro
  

  
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