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Date Posted: 21:43:59 01/17/05 Mon
Author: Robert
Subject: Re: Need some serious advice
In reply to: Robert 's message, "Need some serious advice" on 17:32:07 01/17/05 Mon

Thanks for your input everyone maybe staying away is simply the best thing but two things kind of concern me though. 1. What about other members of UBF? If I completely stay away than what will happen to some of the younger/newer members of UBF? I don't want to see them suffer in the long run because I decided to just simply duck and run, even if it is the smart thing to do. 2. I guess I stilll want answers, because I'm still hurt over what happpened, and if I stay away the pain is just going to keep gnawing at me, however I might never get an answer either. Also to answer Joe Chung's question. Sam Zun said after the service to everyone that "I told Robert he could leave UBF, but now he comes back by faith." So no I never was giving an option to leave, I was told I was out of UBF, and two I didn't go back by "faith" I just simply want answers.

Thanks,
Robert



>About a year ago I wrote about my experience in UBf
>and How I was expelled, well recently I returned from
>my training in the Army and went to visit some omy old
>friends in UBF and was invited to attend this week's
>Sunday service and I was warmly greeted by everyone
>and pretty much they were were happy to see me and
>wanted me back, in particular Sam Zun who kicked me
>out in the first place. My question and position is
>this. I do not want to be back in that group, but I
>can't help but like I'm slowly getting sucked back in,
>so If I don't want back in. I'm still hurt over what
>happend to me, but what can I say or do That might
>allow me to state my position but not hurt them? Many
>of those people had nothing to do with me getting
>kicked out so I don't want to hurt/offend them? UBF
>can be very persuasive, so does anyone out there have
>any experience of leaving/ being expelled only later
>to have UBF try to bring you back in, especially maybe
>some of your old UBF friends, and what did you do
>about it? Thanks for your help, I going to need it.

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