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Bonnie's Kid
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Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 06:11: pm
It would seem that both of you have some very similar experiences as I have had. Being a child of the 50's and 60's, I was on the receiving end many times of most things relating to the encouragement, or forceful purging of the digestive tract. Mom, grandma, and the pediatrician and his nurse, were always encouraging someone to "just give that kid an enema".
It wasn't necessary to encourage them any further, but I had to just capitulate. Because I hated being "tortured" by mom and grandma, I began to self-administer at age 6. This didn't preclude those enemas from the others, it just helped me understand that an enema didn't have to be a negative or punitive occurrence. In fact, a nice warm enema eventually became an enjoyable event that effectively addressed my digestive issues and distress.
Shelly, you are correct and perceptive regarding us guys as it relates to being commanded by the other gender, although I learned to respect the female perspective, and appreciate the care and loving especially when on the receiving end.
My only suggestion would be to be nurturing and gentle with those initial enemas as well as suppositories. My mom wasn't and I always resented that. My sister's enemas were always gentle and done without any force or threats. They always were rewarded with praise and treats for being "big girls".
Best wishes to you and your family!
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