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Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 06:11: pm In reply to: Shelly 's message, "I was a holder" on Sunday, June 30, 2024, 11:48: am It would seem that both of you have some very similar experiences as I have had. Being a child of the 50's and 60's, I was on the receiving end many times of most things relating to the encouragement, or forceful purging of the digestive tract. Mom, grandma, and the pediatrician and his nurse, were always encouraging someone to "just give that kid an enema". It wasn't necessary to encourage them any further, but I had to just capitulate. Because I hated being "tortured" by mom and grandma, I began to self-administer at age 6. This didn't preclude those enemas from the others, it just helped me understand that an enema didn't have to be a negative or punitive occurrence. In fact, a nice warm enema eventually became an enjoyable event that effectively addressed my digestive issues and distress. Shelly, you are correct and perceptive regarding us guys as it relates to being commanded by the other gender, although I learned to respect the female perspective, and appreciate the care and loving especially when on the receiving end. My only suggestion would be to be nurturing and gentle with those initial enemas as well as suppositories. My mom wasn't and I always resented that. My sister's enemas were always gentle and done without any force or threats. They always were rewarded with praise and treats for being "big girls". Best wishes to you and your family! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 07:08: pm Hey Bonnie’s Kid, Yes it does seem to be some similar experiences. Would you mind sharing a couple of things? One, the self administering at age 6? Can you go into more detail regarding that since you were so young? And second, if you don’t mind sharing and being open about an enema experience from your mom or grandma? Thanks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 10:50: pm I have posted extensively at Zity Biz, Enemas4TheMind, and other sites in the past. I also use sse4fun for those discussions that may go beyond the healthy aspects of enemas, inasmuch as there is the paraphilic and fetishistic aspect also. I have vivid recollections going back to age 3. We were always in an apartment or duplex next to mom's parents. We moved often so I can confirm ages due to the various venues, circumstances, and my older sister's information. One thing of significance, is that our pediatrician's office was always nearby...hence the frequent house calls. I had stayed home from school complaining of a tummy ache. Mom was at work and grandma would check up on me periodically from next door. I knew I would get an enema later because that was the deal for skipping school. I took the enema bag from it's perch in the shower and filled it. I hung it on a towel bar across from the toilet and inserted the black douche nozzle as I backed up to it while standing. I had taken a bit more than a pint when the floor and apt. began to shake. The bag fell to the floor and water went everywhere. I felt something strange as the enema began getting sucked out of my bum. It made a horrible mess. I scrambled to use towels to clean up and had put the soiled ones in the tub along with the enema bag. Grandma came in and found me with no pants on and trying to mop up the mess. She asked if I was OK due to the earthquake that just hit. I told her that I overflowed the toilet and other things had tumbled in the sink and to the floor. She looked in the tub and saw the messy towels and putrid water. The enema bag was under much of it. I believed she was good with my story as she helped finish the cleanup and told me to put the towels in the washer. She hung the enema bag up in it's usual place in the shower. Later that evening after dinner, I got the perfunctory enema in the tub with my sister and grandma as spectators. Later on, my sister teased me about my enema and made jokes about my earthshaking experience earlier. She didn't seem to buy my story inasmuch as we both often snuck the enema bag into the tub during our baths. The enema/douche bulb also made a good squirt gun although those side holes usually deflected the water in different directions. I learned about fluid dynamics that day, and became far more adept at secretly taking an enema. I still disliked getting them from mom or grandma, but by age 9, I experienced those earthshattering involuntary reactions and outcomes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 11:36: pm Bonnie’s kid, Thank you for sharing. Wow! An earthquake. Amazing you learned enjoyment of an enema at a young age. It wasn’t until I was 12-13 that I begin to really enjoy enemas. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 07:56: pm Hey, Well since I got my first ever enema at the age of twelve and since I cried and begged her to please not make me take it I was robbed of the opportunity to eventually enjoy her enemas. I had an inkling at that age of male female vagina meets penis stuff though probably quite out of whack with reality yet and it hurt my feelings so bad to have to lay on my bed and present my bottom to her finger and rectal tube for a filling with her enema. I thought an enema came in a small box like I saw on the shelf in the drugstore when with mom to get other meds. For some reason I thought they were only for grown up people. When I started holding I was given oral laxatives and put in pull ups so it never occurred to me that there was another way to make a kid poop. I say I didn't like her enemas and yet when it had been several days since my last enema I would get a nervous sort of excitement wondering if tonight will be enema night. My sister and I never discussed enemas but she did come to like her enemas because she stopped fussing about it being her enema night after just a few months. And into her teens she would heartily agree with stepmom when she was told she should probably have an enema tonight. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 09:04: pm Hey Shelly, That is very interesting Curious though, did your stepmom have a system of selecting who would get an enema or was it just random? Also, remind me, did her daughter who helped her, your stepmom, did she as well get enemas? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]