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Subject: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Sunday, June 30, 2024, 11:48: am Hi AV, My first enemas were traumatic but they didn't compare to my experience when I started school and started holding in my poop. After mom was called to school to bring me clean underwear for about the third time I was taken to the Dr. 2nd Grade, 7 years old, I got an x-ray and a finger up my butt and a lecture about holding in my poop. The Dr. told mom he sees several kids my age a month that start holding in their poop when starting school and then told her to get mag citrate and pullups and wrote down for her my dosage. I missed so many days of school that year staying home in pullups and runny poops that mom was told the last month if I missed another day of school I would have to do 2nd grade over again. There is nothing about an enema for a 7 year old that can compare to the humiliation of being put back in pullups and forced oral laxatives that give you hours and hours of cramps and other hints that you are going to poop, like it or not. I didn't like having to poop and I really hated that mom could via the laxatives, make me poop. In a way I'm glad that if step mom was firm about kids not getting backed up or holding that she used enemas on us instead of laxatives. I will never force one of my boys to take an oral laxative. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, June 30, 2024, 12:15: pm Hi AV, So yeah, my little brother was still having accidents because he clearly was fighting the signals his rectum was giving him when we moved in with stepmom. I don't know how his enemas were given for sure except that for the three youngest kids in the house, under 10, stepmom took a folding chair in with the enema supplies. So, I assume they were getting their enemas over her lap. Knowing nothing about enemas at the time I at first wondered what the chair was for because she never brought a chair in for my enemas. She stood by my bed while giving me my enemas. But I figured out that she must be sitting and they are laying on her lap. The subjects bedroom door was always locked for everyone's enema. She was firm that except for my little brother, there was to be no observers. However, after you were put on your toilet chair there was no assumption of privacy. You shared that bedroom and although we didn't go in someone's bedroom that wasn't also yours we could often get a peek when a partner came and went. That was the only satisfaction I got other than watching stepmom go in someone's bedroom with the bag. Wanted to be her so bad for so long to give someone an enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 01, 2024, 06:47: am How is your little brother today? Do you and him talk about those days and enemas? I wonder seriously what kind of mental trauma he has when he reflects? That step sister in there helping her mom hold him or even help with the enema had to have some effects on him. Hope he is doing well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, June 30, 2024, 03:09: pm Shelly, Well that day of giving an enema to someone will soon come with your six year old son. I would agree with you about the chair. Your stepmom probably sit and your brother was placed over her lap and her daughter helped hold him. Will you be using a bag or a bulb? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2024, 04:30: am Shelly, How are you doing? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, July 09, 2024, 06:43: am Hi AV, So my brother as myself never spoke the word enema, or talked about our treatments. Like Krissi said, the word enema gave me goose bumps. Even though with seven kids in the house and the word enema tossed about frequently, I just cringed when the word enema was spoken. You never heard it come out of my mouth. I assume my brother is a lot like you. He probably has hurt feelings about his enemas. But he endured them as we all did. Does he crave enemas or do enemas? Have no idea. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, July 09, 2024, 06:54: am Shelly, Yes, i am sure your brother was just like me. I hated mom’s enemas. I hated being forced onto the toilet and doing something I did not want to do. I have been reflecting on your initial enema with your son. I think the lock and loaded knee you plan to use on him and the “awe and shock” method of him not knowing what to expect plus you having total control over him as he is clamped in as Krissi says over you knee is going to give him a nice cleaning out as I am sure he will be hysterical through the whole process. When do you expect to start? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, July 09, 2024, 07:21: am Shelly, I guess I should ask you how are you feeling about giving an enema to your son? I know you posted you always wished that was you going into those rooms to give that enema. Well, you’re a parent now and have decided 6 years old will be the starting age and one of your boys has arrived at that age. Do you have butterflies in your stomach knowing that day will soon be here? Do you have what is called the “enema itch” and you are about to scratch it by giving your son his enema? Have you started playing in your mind how you plan to do it, what day of the week, how you will respond as your son responds reaching back or kicking as he is clamped in? Do you plan to let him know that this will be his life as he receives weekly enemas? Do you plan to allow him to use the toilet or have a potty chair for him to sit on as you watch him fight that inner battle of that enema and you walk out victorious as he walks out defeated? There is a lot to think about and it will soon become all reality. I am sure like myself, he will be ready to take a nap afterwards. It may be better like mom with me latter in life and you start now while he is young, giving his enemas after his evening bath while he is already in the bathroom and already nude, no fighting there, just placing him in the lock and loaded position would be all that is left. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 13, 2024, 06:18: pm Hi AV, So I'm super nervous about giving him his first enema. I'll give him his first enema just a couple of days before school starts this fall. I think starting my boys young like Krissi does instead of when I was introduced to enemas when I was almost a teenager and having periods and understood a little about male female sexual activity and how it messed with my mind. I don't want them to always associate an enema with being humiliated and forced to poop for someone but a healthy way of taking care of your colon. Oddly, but just like Krissi, I'd rather be giving enemas to females because that is what enemas always meant to me. A female forcing me on the toilet to poop for her. I would sit on the toilet chair with my enema in me going over and over again in my head that she inserts the nozzle in me and then stands there putting my enema in me and her talking to me during my enema, coaching me, having me turn so she can get all of it up in me. I would relive every second of the enema she just gave me while I'm sitting there trying to get it back out. I had so much fun giving my roommate enemas. For a year and a half I got to give her enemas. She gave me some too but she got so she liked her enema as part of our foreplay. It's not like we were two rabbits screwing every other night, maybe twice a month or a little more but once I got that first enema in her we became sexual and it was so hot for me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 13, 2024, 08:11: pm Hey Shelly, So glad to see your post. Wow! I am sure you are nervous. But it is good you plan to teach him the health benefits. I hope he does well for you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, July 14, 2024, 06:13: am Shelly, I hope you come and journal your experiences with your son. Krissi looked at writing as a form of therapy for her. It helped. I also look at writing about my experiences, emotions, feelings because you never know how it may be helping someone. I know you mentioned Krissi’s writings helped you. They helped me as well. I enjoyed reading and even being there for any form of emotional support. So please think about sharing your experiences with your son and sons, you never know who is a silent reader. Take care. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 20, 2024, 09:15: pm Hey AV, Krissi was so much help to me. And I never got to thank her. I thought that I was a freak because I grew up liking or craving something that as a child I dreaded so much. I didn't understand why I wanted to go back in time and relive that very first enema step mom gave me. It was so traumatic and awful and degrading, and yet I want to go back and get it again. I rarely ever do an enema because I just can't get that same thrill out of it unless I have to submit to someone. Hubby would be no help. Getting an enema from a male does nothing for me. Enemas for my boys will quickly just become another of those tasks that moms have to do to take care of their kids. I had an awful experience of being broken from holding in my poop at that young age they are approaching and I'm going to make sure they don't get any ideas about holding. The first time I catch one of them standing stiff with legs crossed and face turning red it's off to the bathroom for an enema. And a little talk about I recognized what he was just doing and it won't be tolerated. So far neither of them has ever acted like they are holding back. Quite the opposite, they tend to both be a little constipated. The older one has had over a dozen suppositories in his short life. The youngest, about five or six. His last one was almost a year ago. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, July 21, 2024, 04:04: am Hey Shelly, I was exited to see a post from you. Yes, Krissi helped me as well. And honestly I believe I helped her in return. Just being there and sorta like a pen pal writing and commenting on her post asking questions or leaving a thought. She told me once she was a silent reader of my post. She told me she could relate so well to me because I was held by my brothers and she was held by her mom and sometimes her brother. I hope you decide to journal your journey with your boys to help you. As for as reaction, how are your boys reacting to the suppositories when given? Moving from a suppository to an enema will be easy. Your boy will expect a suppository but will get a surprise. Don’t just look at giving your boys an enema as another task but also as healinh for you. You plan to give your boys a wonderful experience you didn’t get as a child and hopefully though time your boys learn the benefits and enjoyment of an enema. As you know from reading my posts, I look at writing about my enema childhood as therapy for me. My mom sent me to the bathroom as well if I was caught holding and she prepared an enema. As I got older, she gave the enemas after the evening bath to basically help since I was already in the bathroom and nude. Over the knee was all that was left with that bulb up my bottom. Hope all goes well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 08:04: am Hey AV, Well they don't particularly like suppositories. They both will ask to let them go try and poop. I do, but ultimately they can't and they get the suppository. They say the suppositories hurt their insides. Of course when you are constipated and you force peristalsis with a stimulant you are going to get cramps and they don't like that. Wait until they feel their insides cramping from an enema working it's way up their colon. They aren't going to like that either. They hate being made to brush their teeth every morning. You would think it was torture. It's a male thing isn't it? Being bossed around by a female. Wait until the bossy female puts them on the toilet every weekend for a forced poop. Little boys in our society learn very early by all the exposure they get through tv and just life experiences that the male is the boss and the female is their subordinate. Well they are going to submit to a bossy female all their childhood. I'm sounding like Krissi I know. I miss you Krissi. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 08:28: am Shelly, Krissi, is that really you? Are you playing games with me? lol. Well, with what you have said about how they respond to the suppository and teeth brushing, I’ll expect to read about fussing. But you’ve been trained by the best, Krissi prepared you for your moment and this time. Look at it as continuing the legacy. Hopefully through time, Krissi will make an appearance. Your son coming up will be in a shock. Suppository is pushed in and it’s over, but with an enema it’s all that warm water that has to go in. Do you plan to use plain water or add some mild soap. I remember Krissi’s sister used plain water but Krissi used goat milk soap to coat the intestines but had to give 2 rinse enemas. You will discover what works best for you and your boys to get that result you want. They don’t know this is just the beginning of a long childhood journey. Great hearing from you. Can’t wait to read how things go. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 09:38: am Hey AV, I keep hoping if I mention her that she will join us. I wonder how her family's kids are doing with their enemas. No, I have never given a child an enema yet and I'm super nervous. I got such a thrill when I made my roommate accept an enema from me and then giving her more of them for over a year but giving my boys enemas gives me shivers. Just not knowing how I'm going to react to how they react. I have just the generic Walgreen's enema\douche\hot water bottle red bag. It only holds about a quart and a half but I learned a trick to get it super full and under pressure so the enema starts hard and fast. You fill it as full as you can. Hold it up and open clamp and prime the tube, expelling all the air. Then lay the bag on the floor and hold the nozzle in a bowl of water, open the clamp and WOW!, it will siphon and put at least another half quart in the bag and pressurize it so when you have the nozzle in the butt and open the clamp there is a lot of quick water pressure filling your rectum and rushing up the beginnings of your colon. You can control the amount of that first gush by having the bag below the level of your butt. According to what I've read a six year old's colon if empty could easily take two quarts so that is the plan. No soap. One enema. Caveat, when you pressurize the cheapo Walgreen red bags you will eventually spring a leak around the black plastic where the tube connector is screwed in and it's off to Walgreen's again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 09:58: am Hey AV, I do have a story for you. Although not nearly as good as Krissi's stories. I had to go to Walgreen's for a new cheapo bag about a year ago. Had both my boys in tow. I needed pull-ups for the four year old because he still would occasionally wet the bed and diapers for the youngest. That's all I had a check out. There was a barely old enough to legally work check out girl trying to get a granny checked out with all her coupons and questions about sale prices on the items she had. There were two teen or tween girls and there mom behind us. I had the enema box prominently displayed on the counter for all to see. I was able to catch a look at the girls looking at my enema bag box. Gave me a thrill. Wanted so bad to follow those girls home and use the enema bag on them. They for sure figured my boys were in for an enema when we got home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 02:20: pm Shelly, Sounds like a plan. You will adjust as needed after the first enema given. Oh, i’m sure like so many others, I have always wished I was the enema patrol officer that could give any child an enema at any given time. I am sure you would have enjoyed introducing those girls to a nice enema. I remember visiting a school once and was in a class, 11-12 year olds, with a teacher and her class. The students were having discussion. Two of the students were brothers and they got in this argument and one of them did a mic drop on the other. He said something to this nature, “At least I did not cry like a baby when I was getting an enema from the doctor this weekend. You were full of crap.” That other boy’s face turned red and he tried to defend himself spitting and sputtering stuff out but the news was already out. I looked at him and just imagined that hose in his cute little 11 year old bottom and him being held by those nurses I’m sure and him crying his eyes out as he was filled up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 06:11: pm It would seem that both of you have some very similar experiences as I have had. Being a child of the 50's and 60's, I was on the receiving end many times of most things relating to the encouragement, or forceful purging of the digestive tract. Mom, grandma, and the pediatrician and his nurse, were always encouraging someone to "just give that kid an enema". It wasn't necessary to encourage them any further, but I had to just capitulate. Because I hated being "tortured" by mom and grandma, I began to self-administer at age 6. This didn't preclude those enemas from the others, it just helped me understand that an enema didn't have to be a negative or punitive occurrence. In fact, a nice warm enema eventually became an enjoyable event that effectively addressed my digestive issues and distress. Shelly, you are correct and perceptive regarding us guys as it relates to being commanded by the other gender, although I learned to respect the female perspective, and appreciate the care and loving especially when on the receiving end. My only suggestion would be to be nurturing and gentle with those initial enemas as well as suppositories. My mom wasn't and I always resented that. My sister's enemas were always gentle and done without any force or threats. They always were rewarded with praise and treats for being "big girls". Best wishes to you and your family! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 07:08: pm Hey Bonnie’s Kid, Yes it does seem to be some similar experiences. Would you mind sharing a couple of things? One, the self administering at age 6? Can you go into more detail regarding that since you were so young? And second, if you don’t mind sharing and being open about an enema experience from your mom or grandma? Thanks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 10:50: pm I have posted extensively at Zity Biz, Enemas4TheMind, and other sites in the past. I also use sse4fun for those discussions that may go beyond the healthy aspects of enemas, inasmuch as there is the paraphilic and fetishistic aspect also. I have vivid recollections going back to age 3. We were always in an apartment or duplex next to mom's parents. We moved often so I can confirm ages due to the various venues, circumstances, and my older sister's information. One thing of significance, is that our pediatrician's office was always nearby...hence the frequent house calls. I had stayed home from school complaining of a tummy ache. Mom was at work and grandma would check up on me periodically from next door. I knew I would get an enema later because that was the deal for skipping school. I took the enema bag from it's perch in the shower and filled it. I hung it on a towel bar across from the toilet and inserted the black douche nozzle as I backed up to it while standing. I had taken a bit more than a pint when the floor and apt. began to shake. The bag fell to the floor and water went everywhere. I felt something strange as the enema began getting sucked out of my bum. It made a horrible mess. I scrambled to use towels to clean up and had put the soiled ones in the tub along with the enema bag. Grandma came in and found me with no pants on and trying to mop up the mess. She asked if I was OK due to the earthquake that just hit. I told her that I overflowed the toilet and other things had tumbled in the sink and to the floor. She looked in the tub and saw the messy towels and putrid water. The enema bag was under much of it. I believed she was good with my story as she helped finish the cleanup and told me to put the towels in the washer. She hung the enema bag up in it's usual place in the shower. Later that evening after dinner, I got the perfunctory enema in the tub with my sister and grandma as spectators. Later on, my sister teased me about my enema and made jokes about my earthshaking experience earlier. She didn't seem to buy my story inasmuch as we both often snuck the enema bag into the tub during our baths. The enema/douche bulb also made a good squirt gun although those side holes usually deflected the water in different directions. I learned about fluid dynamics that day, and became far more adept at secretly taking an enema. I still disliked getting them from mom or grandma, but by age 9, I experienced those earthshattering involuntary reactions and outcomes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, July 27, 2024, 11:36: pm Bonnie’s kid, Thank you for sharing. Wow! An earthquake. Amazing you learned enjoyment of an enema at a young age. It wasn’t until I was 12-13 that I begin to really enjoy enemas. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 07:56: pm Hey, Well since I got my first ever enema at the age of twelve and since I cried and begged her to please not make me take it I was robbed of the opportunity to eventually enjoy her enemas. I had an inkling at that age of male female vagina meets penis stuff though probably quite out of whack with reality yet and it hurt my feelings so bad to have to lay on my bed and present my bottom to her finger and rectal tube for a filling with her enema. I thought an enema came in a small box like I saw on the shelf in the drugstore when with mom to get other meds. For some reason I thought they were only for grown up people. When I started holding I was given oral laxatives and put in pull ups so it never occurred to me that there was another way to make a kid poop. I say I didn't like her enemas and yet when it had been several days since my last enema I would get a nervous sort of excitement wondering if tonight will be enema night. My sister and I never discussed enemas but she did come to like her enemas because she stopped fussing about it being her enema night after just a few months. And into her teens she would heartily agree with stepmom when she was told she should probably have an enema tonight. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 09:04: pm Hey Shelly, That is very interesting Curious though, did your stepmom have a system of selecting who would get an enema or was it just random? Also, remind me, did her daughter who helped her, your stepmom, did she as well get enemas? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 09:50: pm Hey AV, Her theory was that all children need a cleaning out twice a month. Yes all seven of us got enemas about every 10 to 14 days, random selection. However all girls got an enema the first night on their period and maybe the next night too if they are fussing or irritable. If you were sick enough that you weren't eating or staying in bed you got an enema. There were no rectal temps. She would just feel your fore head and say "yep you are warm". I think I told you but she gave all enemas. In your bedroom with door locked. Never any audiences allowed until you are sitting on your toilet chair. Then she would shut the door behind her but everyone shared a bedroom with one or two others of same sex and there was no expectation of privacy. My sister got off on seeing me on the toilet chair because she knew I didn't like my enemas. You are allowed to cover with a blanket or what ever but you are making noise and you are there for about an hour. It upset me the most that it took so long to get my enema back out. That was torture for me. And then when you were done you were to let her know before you wiped. She would come and see how much you had returned and agree or not agree that you are done. You then wipe and get up and she takes the pan to empty and you are good until your next enema whenever she decides that will be. My sister would be sure and slowly open and close our door so others could see me sitting there. But I have to admit I enjoyed getting to look in on others too. But just the girls. It didn't do much for me to know that the boys all got enemas too. I was the only girl that fussed about my enemas and they didn't much care if I saw them sitting or not. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 11:33: pm Hey Shelly, Thanks for answering. The giving of the enema to your boys is going to be interesting to see what happens, how they react and respond, thankfully you plan to be gentle in initiating the enema. You will also get to see how the locked over the knee will work out for them. They will surely be trapped but I actually expect the enema being water will be easier to release compared to a suppository contraction. Do you plan to only start with one, the one who will be six, and wait until the other is six to start him? It is getting close. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 10:04: pm So yeah Bonnie's kid, I intend to be gentle with my boys initiating them to enemas. But they aren't keen on suppositories even though they both got their first when they were very young. They can't express what they don't like about the suppository just that they think if I just give them a chance they can go sit and go so they don't have to have one. They say they hurt. It is for sure a different feeling than when the muscles are naturally trying to make you poop. And there is some slight discomfort from stimulant suppositories. But what ever. If they were girls instead of boys they would already be very familiar with the enema bag. Not wanting to trade them, just saying. I may have always been trending towards bi-sexual but presenting my bottom to her enhanced my interest in girls. My roommate from college and I live too far apart to ever get together. I miss those intimate times with her. We had fun. And I got to give her enemas. That was so hot. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, July 29, 2024, 11:44: pm Shelly, Referring back to Krissi real quick. I haven’t seen or found her on any sites. Doesn’t mean she isn’t. I hope she is still journaling somewhere for her sake because I remember her writing how much it helped her release your feelings and thoughts. She would be ecstatic to read about your journey and how her writings helped you come forth. If she is still out there writing, she will eventually be found. I know she would be encouraging you. Hope you plan to journal to share any tension or feedback or emotions. We never know who is a silent reader being encouraged by what we write. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, July 30, 2024, 01:29: pm It's been interesting reading here, and over on Female Enemas, about other's experiences when enemas, suppositories, and rectal temps were involved. Shelly, Krissi, Carol A, Nancy, Joan, Sue, Barb, and others, have shared their methods and thoughts regarding this old fashioned procedure which I find to be a very valid treatment here in the 21st century. As I've perused the various forums here on Voy, Zity Biz, E4TM, Fetlife, Empowered Sustenance, Kitchen Kop, Glowfins, Quora, and others, I have learned a great deal about the history and pros and cons relative to the uses of these modalities. While I despised enemas, RT's, and suppositories as a youngster, especially when mom and grandma were the primary providers, I learned quite early to self-administer to avoid most of the negative interactions we had at home. They still gave me enemas as they saw necessary, but I was beginning to realize the positive aspects. My eventual enjoyment of the simple procedure and pleasures, has carried on for a lifetime. When I came to realize that I wasn't all that weird, strange, or perverted, I found some rest, relaxation, confidence, in addressing my own health and comfort issues. I also realized mom, grandma, and other users of these methods, weren't so strange or outlandish. I have appreciated the input of others who also find a positive and effective side of these old fashioned procedures. Those who advocate for coffee enemas as an aspect of a valid health concern, have introduced me to a very positive modality. When it comes to enemas for the youngsters, my only suggestions are to make the process as positive and effective as possible, without it devolving into a very negative or punitive procedure. I always believed I was being punished for some failure or omission when mom, grandma, or the pediatrician threatened me with enemas, suppositories, or laxatives. As an aside, sometimes I do enjoy some roleplay that takes me back to those times, when we used to play doctor or nurse as kids. We mimicked what we experienced. It's far more enjoyable as adult roleplay, so perhaps I do have some unique perspectives, but that doesn't diminish what I believe are very effective, efficient, procedures to deal with many maladies, either physical or psychological. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, July 30, 2024, 04:11: pm Bonnie’s Kid, I agree on making the enema a positive process. I hope Shelly will continue to journal as this process continues with her kids and who knows there might be a silent reader that may be a parent as well and looking into giving her children enemas and Shelly may have a part in that through her writing. I have examined the other sites and posted on some but I am mostly a silent reader myself when I visit sites unless the topic is one I can really relate. I decided though to make this forum my go to forum to journal and be able to share with others like yourself. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, August 04, 2024, 08:27: pm Hey, I do appreciate that there is this board for us to discuss our childhood experiences with things rectal done to us growing up. I was so afraid growing up that my friends would find out that our stepmom gave us enemas. I think now that it is likely that some of the kids I went to school with had bedwetting or holding or digestive issues that were treated rectally. And I wish I knew then and even more now, who among them were treated that way. My only inkling was when mom had me at the Drs. and as he has his finger up my butt and pushing against my tummy telling mom he sees many kids every month that are full of stool. It just didn't register when I started getting enemas years later that a lot of kids I knew had toileting issues and where getting some sort of intervention. I felt alone on an island with the enema queen. I know in my heart she was in to enemas for our health. I didn't buy it at the time. But she was. And I am now a product of those beliefs. Ask any Dr. and they will tell you that we humans aren't pooping often enough. AV I'm just going to give my 6 year old enemas. The younger will have a couple of years to process what he will face when it is his turn. I'm so nervous about starting the enemas. They fight fight fight about everything. The oldest is sensitive and shy and the younger is aggressive. I suspect the younger will use his brother having to have enemas against him to torture and ridicule him. There isn't much I can do about it. I just don't feel the time is right to start him on enemas too. That would mean his brother got to have two years without weekly enemas and he didn't. I know, silly, but still, not fair. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, August 04, 2024, 09:30: pm Hey Shelly, You going to make me cry. I hope you do your best in helping your oldest with taking the enemas. I hope the younger one doesn’t torture and ridicule him. How do you feel about giving the younger one a suppository if he does? Like you said he will have 2 years to process what he will face. Become more of a hugger for that older one and let him know you are proud of him when he takes his enema. Do what you can to encourage. This is why krissi called it the awe and shock method. He may not like it at all but if you plan on doing it, you just do it, that is the shock part of it all for him. Consider journaling your journey. It will help you process your thoughts and feelings. I will be here to support. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I was a holder Author: Bonnie's Kid [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, August 04, 2024, 09:35: pm I mentioned many of the other women who post over on the "Female Enemas" site. I have seen many postings on a variety of other forums and blogs that are apparently from these same people. I believe that many of them have a pretty good perspective relative to enemas for the youngsters. They are apparently quite experienced and may well be of a similar age or vintage when enema use was quite common and often suggested by the medical/health providers. I have no experience when the kids are involved aside from my personal experiences at home decades ago. My adult experiences have been quite frequent and very positive. The opportunities to share, mentor, or be mentored, have truly been a blessing as I got past my early embarrassment and need to be withdrawn relative to those rectal/anal incursions. Enemas have become a valuable physical and mental health indulgence and tool. Shelly, feel free to email if that works for you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]