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Subject: Re: starting 6 yr. old on weekly enemas Author: Terry [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, August 31, 2024, 06:07: am In reply to: Shelly 's message, "starting 6 yr. old on weekly enemas" on Saturday, August 17, 2024, 08:10: pm Hi Shelly, so glad you're making progress with your son's enemas. I used to post occasionally on the defunct E & S Message Board and can relate to some of what you write about so Id like to share my own childhood recollections if I may. After age 6 I was developing a more positive attitude towards enemas and no longer whinged and didnt need to be held down etc. Momma was clearly pleased by the change and the next time I needed an enema she told me that since I was now acting more like "a big boy" she was going to do it in a different way (which a friend had suggested) that would make things easier for both of us. She then explained the Knee-Chest position to me and how I should co-operate etc. It sounded alright to me so I had no objections. Soon I was kneeling down on a thick towel, my legs wide apart,head resting on a cushion and my butt up in the air. For the next few minutes she gave my butthole a gentle very thorough lubing and then asked me if I was ready for the nozzle. When I said I thought I was, she told me to "push back" as soon as I felt the tip. I heard her say "Here we go,relax... Enema IN !" I felt it just glide into me so easy and painless till the shield was flat up against my butthole. She waited for a few seconds and then said "OK Here comes the water!" She squeezed the bulb slowly at first and then a little more forcefully and I felt the warm solution of castile soap suds and glycerine flooding in so smoothly like liquid silk in my rectum. When the full "dose" had been injected she said "Now pull tight...Enema OUT!" And so I clenched up as she gently withdrew her syringe and refilled it. She repeated the proceedure about 5 or 6 times telling me to let her know when I was "full". She left the room telling me to remain in position and try and retain my enema for as long as I could. I did try for a while but inevitably the suds won the struggle and I had to "go". Nevertheless I appreciated the newfound privacy. What a wonderful enema that was! It had gone in deeper than ever before and what a great clean out it gave me! I really felt "on top of the world" when it was over. Momma was impressed when she came back to check the results and told me that in future I would get all my enemas that way, needless to say I was only too happy to co-operate! Of course Im not saying that my mother was the best enema giver in the world, or that her technique is the best and only way, but it sure worked well for me. Might I suggest it for your son maybe when he is older and more willing to co-operate. I think he might appreciate it? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: starting 6 yr. old on weekly enemas Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, September 02, 2024, 04:19: am Hey all, Been very busy. Unable to find time to post. We basically had to rebuild our basement after it got totally flooded. Any way all is well again now. Exhausted. I'm not a carpenter! Where to start? Well the little guy had to have a spanking and then his enema the second Sunday. He scratched me like a cat when I went to get him and told him I had his enema ready. I usually reserve spankings for when they are fighting with each other so hard and physically hitting each other or throwing things. I know, all most all kids do that. But when they start hitting then there will be spankings. Anyway, so he is not unfamiliar with a spanking. He was slightly more cooperative for his enema after that. As for the suggestions, yes I use crisco for lubricant and douche nozzle, thanks. However, you can only insert the douche nozzle in about half way before you get resistance from hitting the spot where the rectum cavity curves. 10 minutes in place after enema is in? Can't do it. After the five minutes to get the enema in him he is apoplectic and too hard to keep in position any longer. I can barely handle him locked in over my left leg. He tries to push his way back up off my lap. Third enema last night was accomplished without the prelim spanking but it was close. He is definitely not a fan of the ENEMA! But, wow, he has always been a picky eater and won't try new foods and is a skinny boy. He has been eating like a horse the las two weeks. Hungry hungry! He was certainly impacted, constipated, full, packed! More reasonable amount of stool coming out with the enemas now. I arranged a little bit of fun for myself for a week ago enema. I planned for a evening out with hubby for dinner. Had a babysitter for the evening. 15 year old that sits for us often. Cute thing, would love to give her an enema. Had the enema bag hanging in the bathroom on shower nozzle to dry. She has maybe seen it before when over here babysitting if she is a snooper like I was at that age and looked in my bathroom cupboard. Anyway young fellow was already in bed and still pouting from his enema. I told her he was not happy with me and probably heading to bed early. Didn't elaborate. Hope she figured it out. Maybe he told her. He was very vocal to me and his dad about not liking my emmamas. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: starting 6 yr. old on weekly enemas Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, September 02, 2024, 06:42: am Hey Shelly, Sorry to hear about your basement flooding. So glad you came and posted. Like Krissi would say, “stay the course.” He might be a fighter but it will be a fight he will lose. Sounds like you are getting some positive results. Eating like a horse, hungry, hungry and more reasonable amount of stool coming out with the enemas. That is what is important right? Now, about this cute 15 year old needing an enema? lol You never know, she might snoop, or even inquire about them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: starting 6 yr. old on weekly enemas Author: Joyce [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, September 03, 2024, 03:46: pm Shelly, Seems like the storms have made life difficult for you. I'm guessing that you must live somewhere in the South or Eastern US. Hope things will dry up and get better for you. Glad to hear that you have been able to keep up with your plan for your son with all you have to deal with. I do have a couple of questions for you, if you don't mind: What caused you to decide your son needed a weekly enema program? From what you have written, is your husband aware of your program and does he support it? I do have some more suggestions for you to consider: When you set up your bathroom for your son' enema, if possible hang the bag where he can't see it while the enema flows into him. If your son protests when you take him to the bathroom, ask him if he needs a spanking. Then recite mantra: "This needs to be done, and it has to be done now." Recite this often and make him recite it after you. This needs to get boring for him to make it effective in getting him to realize that the weekly enemas are going to be a routine part of his life. You said that you were only able to insert the douche nozzle about halfway into your son's rectum before encountering resistance. Good thing you did not force it in farther. Assuming that your douche nozzle is similar to the white plastic ones that come with most inexpensive enema bags, I suggest you slightly modify it to help with this. First, place the nozzle in a pan of boiling water for about a minute. This should soften the plastic. Then pour off the water and quickly grasp the nozzle with a dry dish towel and gently make about an inch long 30 degree bend in it about an inch and a half from the end where holes are. While maintaining the bend place the nozzle under cold running water until the plastic hardens. When you are ready, thoroughly lubricate the nozzle and your son's anus and gently push the nozzle into his rectum until you feel resistance. Now gently and patiently rotate the nozzle while moving it out and in about an inch until you find a path around any stool and into his sigmoid colon. Continue to gently push the nozzle in and if you again experience resistance repeat while gently working it in. If necessary, open the clamp to let the water begin flowing while you continue. Above all else, DON'T FORCE THE NOZZLE IN. Hopefully you will be able to get the nozzle all the way in without causing pain so that most of the enema will flow into his sigmoid colon where stool frequently gets trapped and less into his rectum which will make it easier for him to retain the enema for a while. Hope this helps. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]