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Subject: Two boys two attitudes Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Sunday, December 29, 2024, 11:26: pm AV, So my 7 year old actually sort of, maybe a little, looks forward to his enema with sitter because she isn't mean when she gives him his enema. 4 year old fights us. No other way to put it. He doesn't stop verbally abusing us until his enema is in him and he is on the toilet and we are walking out the bathroom door. I don't have time to do a bath so that he is already in the bathroom and naked because I need sitter to help me and we also need to give 7 year old his enema so she can go home. We tried a new tactic. I got my glove on and lube and his suppository so he could give me a bowel movement before his enema and we tracked him down and put him down on the floor and I sat on him and worked his pjs down enough to get his suppository in him and let him go. Again followed him to bathroom when his suppository kicked in and got him undressed when he got on the toilet. Sitter had prepared his enema and had it in there and we were all ready for him. No scrapes or bruises this time. We are getting better at controlling him and a little bit of the fight in him is gone now also. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Two boys two attitudes Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 30, 2024, 05:05: am It’s a losing battle for him. You had planned to start at 6 years old, I am sure you are glad you started him younger to get the fight out of him for the next 2 years. As he gets older, if he continues to be a fighter, he will get smarter. He might even start pooping in his pants with the suppository just to avoid going to the bathroom where the enema is. He might as he gets older, start locking the door as he enters. Doesn’t matter though, the enema is coming. You will have him broken way before he turns 6. Keep the suppositories coming, force him into the bathroom, take his clothes off as he is on the toilet, and then enema. Have you thought about the idea of sitter talking with the 4 year old, and letting her try to convince him to take an enema from her like his older brother? We know he doesn’t like enemas, this idea may not work, but sitter might be able to convince him to allow her to give him an enema. If not, he will have to know the alternative is an enema by you and sitter. I am glad jr is sorta a little enjoying his enema. That is good. That is one battle you are not having to fight any longer. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Two boys two attitudes Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 30, 2024, 10:57: am Shelly, I have to ask, are you having fun with the 4 year old? I would have to have fun with him since he is verbally abusing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Two boys two attitudes Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, December 31, 2024, 09:45: am Well like Kitten Paw says, "It's not like we are going to cut a couple of his fingers off". "It's just an enema!" He is only four years old. He has no sense of his private parts being off limits to anyone without his permission. He can't see my face but he and sitter are in eye contact during his enemas and she can't wipe the smile off her face as he is having a melt down and feeling his tank getting filled. And then her smiling will make me giggle because it is the only smiles I see from her while she is here on Sundays and I miss her smiling happy personality that I knew for these three years as she came to sit for us and so that makes me giggle and that just sends him into outer space. Yeah so I had the same thought about maybe he would submit to babysitter like his older brother does because our 7 year old torments him that he wants sitter to give him his enemas because she isn't mean to him like mommy is during his enemas. I had to put on my 'look kiddo you are getting this enema like it or not so get over here and get over my leg' face with him in the beginning. So I guess that makes me mean. Our four year old is a different animal. I just don't see him accepting an enema from anyone with his attitude right now. But I'll talk to sitter about it and see what she thinks. She can maybe better relate to him on his level because he sees how worked up and close to tears she always is when she first gets here and Sundays and has to have her enemas first. She is very much like a very young child emotionally as she prepares herself for the awful enemas that she dislikes also and both my boys pick up on that. She will come out of the bathroom to tell me she has her first enema returns in the toilet for me while knowing that means she will be getting another enema to rinse her and they see and hear her demeanor and I'm sure can relate to what she is going through in that moment. 7 year old I can tell has empathy for her as he sees her going through it because he has been in the bathroom twice now watching her get her enemas and can see in her himself being the one getting the enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Two boys two attitudes Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, December 31, 2024, 01:14: pm Shelly, I hope it works out for the 4 year old. Maybe he will follow in his older brothers steps and let the sitter give him an enema. I’m sure the smiling and giggling is tormenting him enough. Hopefully he will accept an enema from the sitter and that would be great. If not, oh well, “over the knee little lad.” [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Two boys two attitudes Author: Sue (UK) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, January 09, 2025, 04:47: pm You'll have no choice but to fight the fighter - with the spanking brush. I speak from experience. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]