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Subject: Enema advice Author: Chloe [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, March 22, 2025, 04:12: am Hello, I wish to start doing enemas for my children both to clear constipation and occasionally for punishment. What equipment should I buy, what solutions do I use and how much volume? Also if any one has any advice on how to give them that would be appreciated. I think they’ll put up a fight! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, March 22, 2025, 08:11: am Chloe, How old are your children? Are they having colon issues? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: Chloe [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, March 22, 2025, 12:57: pm AV, They are F4, F11 and M13. They are currently under diaper discipline as well which I know not everybody agrees with. But it seems to work well for us.Any advice on the enema part would be gratefully received, I’m thinking about doing enema days or nights a couple of times a week to keep them regular. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, March 22, 2025, 04:02: pm Chloe, I can tell you a lot because I have been on voy for years and have been on sites that have talked about diaper discipline with styles and techniques plus some even use enemas with the DD because they do not want dirty diapers. Your two oldest will fight the enemas or put up a good struggle. I don’t know how far you are willing to go. I do not mind sharing what I have read from other sites and let you decide if you want to implement the techniques. Whatever you decide to do to give them an enema, it will be an “awe and shock” method because they have never had an enema before. What are your rules for DD? What do they have to do to get into DD? Hope you don’t mind me asking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: Chloe [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, March 23, 2025, 06:40: am Hi AV, Please do share, I need all the help I can get! Should I do them all at the same time? And do I need to wear rubber gloves? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, March 23, 2025, 01:33: pm Chloe, These are things I have read that others have used. I am not endorsing any but sharing ideas. You decide. Keep it simple. Enema bulb, enema bag, long enema nozzle, retention nozzle. One technique You can let gravity help you do the work, butt up, head down. If you have someone to help you, you can use over a knee locked in place with the other leg where the butt is up and head is down. The other person helps plus sits and holds their hands as you administer the enema. Second technique You can restrain hands using silk scarves and use diaper position. Retention nozzle with an inflatable bulb helps. Third technique To prevent continuous pooping in diaper and changing it, Do a deep cleaning with long enema nozzle (10 inches) first and plug butt. Plug stays in and only removed when replaced by enema nozzle for next cleaning out then plugged again. Controlling the bowels. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, March 24, 2025, 04:56: am Chloe, Let me also include the enema position seen on the enema box called the sims position. The child lies on their left side and their right leg is flexed at the knee and hip, with the knee drawn up towards the chest. The left leg is extended and straight. This position allows access to the rectum and allows the enema solution to flow easily into the colon. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: Jack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, March 29, 2025, 03:44: pm Best to combine the second and third techniques. Restraining the hands is important but it should be done comfortably. The restraints shouldn't hurt, just be effective. And butt plugs are a very effective way of controlling when and if a child can mess in the diaper and also for extended enema retention. You can diaper the child up after the plug is inserted but keeping hands restrained and allow them to walk around the house. The movement helps the enema do its work and get things really moving. You can remove the plug when it's time for the child to expel. It'll be quite messy if expulsion is done into the diaper, so you would have to decide whether or not you want to deal with such a mess or if you want them to expel in a toilet. Then you can decide if you want to plug them back up before diapering them again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, March 29, 2025, 09:03: pm Jack, Good advice. I only know what I have read on other voy sights that implement enemas with diaper discipline. Parents do it differently depending on what result they are going after. I have read where some parents use the plug technique you mentioned where they do not want to change diapers all day so they enema the child that morning, plug them for the day, and the child is not able to mess their diaper, and the parents control the bowel movements by the next morning cleaning the child out again starting the routine all over. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: Jack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, March 30, 2025, 03:39: am That's true that some parents keep the child plugged and then remove the plug when it's time for the child to mess. It's also important when the child is getting used to wearing a plug to keep hands restrained until they stop being tempted to tamper with or resist the plug. They're just as likely to fight the plug as the enema. So for the first few days while they're getting used to the plug they may need their hands cuffed, taped or bound. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: Erica [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, March 31, 2025, 08:27: am Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice or tips for my 9-year-old son, who has been struggling with constipation for the past few weeks. It’s becoming a real challenge, and I’m not sure what steps to take next. He’s been having trouble going to the bathroom regularly, and when he does, it seems very painful for him. We've tried increasing his water intake, adding more fiber to his diet, and encouraging regular bathroom breaks, but it doesn’t seem to be helping much. Has anyone else dealt with this with their child? Any advice on natural remedies, foods, or anything that has worked for you? I’m also wondering if I should see a pediatrician, but I wanted to check with other moms first to see if there’s anything I might be missing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, April 01, 2025, 07:53: pm Hey Erica, Maybe introducing and starting him on a weekly bulb enema to help. You will have to be consistent and regular on giving the enema to him weekly. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]