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Subject: Re: Unwanted by the father, and am back with ex husband Author: Antonella [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06/ 5/09 8:08am In reply to: Julia 's message, "Unwanted by the father, and am back with ex husband" on 06/ 4/09 10:27am Hi Julia, even if your situation isn't easy, the choice to protect this new life is the best one. You're right, don't listen to your ex boyfriend, he was miserable and awful, his words can show you one more time that this guy is a bad person and your baby can't "pay" with the own life because this person doesn't want him...Maybe this guy is too much worried now and he had that bad reaction, maybe in future he could back in your life looking for this "unplanned "child, but NOW you have to be strong for your baby and give him/her a real family, focusing on what the best is. Your husband has already showed you his love, now you 2 are back together, he was a good responsible father for your children, he knows how to be a father, he knows the word "respect and responsability", I think you can trust him and then you can find the right words to tell him everything. He is a good person and he will understand you. If you behave and are strong in your choice, everything will turn good- just trust yourself and the power of life! God bless you ;) [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Unwanted by the father, and am back with ex husband Author: Julia (still confused...) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06/ 7/09 12:23pm Thank you ladies. I still haven't told him. I'm really scared. I know he would not ask me to have an abortion but what if he leaves me?? I just want to keep this baby and have my family back together. Any advice for ways to tell him?? Thanks again

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Unwanted by the father, and am back with ex husband Author: Antonella [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06/ 8/09 6:56am I think you are both adults and you know how to face this situation, since you have had already kids together. I think he will understand you and help in some way, but he will be also aware about what/how it happened, so just be real and sincere to him and show him you undestand your own responsability. good luck and take care!