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Subject: Re: pregnant dumb and young


Author:
Sharon
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Date Posted: 02/21/07 7:56pm
In reply to: danielle 's message, "pregnant dumb and young" on 02/21/07 1:50pm

Danielle,

CONGRATULATIONS!

Another awesome program you should get as soon as possible is WIC (Women Infants and Children). It's through your county health nurse and provides you with vouchers for lots of wonderful, healthy food (like eggs, beans, peanut butter, iron-fortified cereal, fruit juice, mild, cheese). It will even provide your little one with formula for a year and healthy food vouchers until he or she turns 5! (If you decide to nurse, instead of formula, WIC provides YOU with healthy food for a year while you nurse and then provides your little one with healthy food vouchers until he or she is 5.) It's such a wonderful program. And, the income ceiling is very high (meaning you can make quite a bit of money and still be eligible for WIC.) You sign up through your County Health Nurse.

As for morning sickness, I found it was "all-day" sickness! ;-) One thing you might try is to have some saltine crackers by your bed and eat a couple BEFORE you get out of bed in the morning. Having just a little something on your stomach can help. Also, NEVER take your vitamins on an empty stomach - that's almost a sure-fire way of getting nauseous ;-) BUT, the good news is that morning sickness usually goes away after the first trimester (when you reach about 12 weeks.)

Also, they measure the number of weeks of a pregnancy starting from the start date of your last period. So, if your last period started on Jan. 1, you probably ovulated around the 15th and conceived right around then, BUT they actually count the pregnancy as starting Jan. 1.

Yon mention you're pro-choice, but I really encourage you to visit some of the post-abortive support sites. It's also a good idea to view pictures of fetal development (and maybe even pictures of what abortion looks like, even though those are very difficult to look at.) The reason I say that is that I've heard SO many women say 'If only I knew - I thought it was a blob of tissue'. It's important that you be fully informed. This is your own little one growing inside you and he or she has only you to protect him or her.

You're right, this is a very supportive board! I'm glad you found us ;-)

I'll say a prayer for you.

Sharon

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[> Subject: Re: pregnant dumb and young


Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 02/21/07 9:26pm

Hi, Danielle!

Congratulations!

I was 22 when I had my first child, and like you, I was confident, and I did just fine. He has been a wonderful son. He's now 40. We also raised six other children.

You're better off having your children when you are younger. It's easier, and there is always the risk that if you wait until you are 35, you will never have a child at all! You are a very good age to become a mother.

What your political views are doesn't have a lot to do with what you personally choose to do. We have several women here who probably share your political views, but decided to have their babies, and like to talk to the women who visit.

I never had any trouble with morning sickness, for which I am grateful. However, I do have some suggestions. Try sipping a little ginger tea or ginger ale when you are having a problem. Also, some people said eating watermelon is good (if you can get it this time of the year, that is!) The crackers before getting up are a good idea, and take your prenatal vitamins with a meal. Eat smaller meals. I don't know as much about heartburn, but try the ginger and see if that helps. You can probably do research online about it.

As for your back, I think people say rocking exercises help. On hands and knees, arch your back and let it slump, and rock back and forth. You may have some little displacement, and for that, low velocity manipulation is awesome. Some osteopaths know this, and there are other practitioners. And as for your cold, stay away from products with mint or menthol in them, because this will dry everything out and make it worse in the long run. They say vitamin C is good, but probably mineral ascorbates are a lot better. I use EmergenC. Citrus juice (such as orange juice) is also very soothing, if you can sip on that when you're not feeling nauseous. And if you can handle it, cayenne also is very soothing (in spite of the fact it would seem the opposite, provided you can handle the spiciness; depends on your normal diet). For the immune problem, probably colloidal silver works best. The silver involved is a very tiny dose. People take it for ten days just like an antibiotic. These are my experineces; I am not a doctor and can't tell you what to do. You can also research these things online. I hope these things help.

Hugs,
Pat
[> [> Subject: Re: pregnant dumb and young


Author:
Tracey (SO glad you posted!!! :))
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Date Posted: 02/22/07 1:44pm

Danielle~
I'm so glad you posted!!! You have found a safe and supportive group of women here! Please post as often as you like! We are here to help you in any way we can!

I hope this morning sickness passes soon! It should end by week 12 if not sooner. I hated morning sickness, but by your second trimester, I always felt so much better. We look forward to hearing from you!
God bless,
Tracey



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