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Subject: Re: Help!!! Single, pregnant and 40. Beth, YOU know best!!! Author: Lisa [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 03/21/07 5:17pm In reply to: Shellie 's message, "Re: Help!!! Single, pregnant and 40. Beth, YOU know best!!!" on 03/17/07 11:17pm Beth, There is not much that I can add to what Shellie wrote. Have your baby, you know what is right in your heart. You will never be sorry that you had your baby, but you will most likely be sorry that you had an abortion. There are many men out there who will want you and your children. That will all come in time, there are many things that you need to concentrate on right away. I do not know how old your other children are, but for your cousin to say such terrible things makes me very sad. A baby is a baby no matter how that baby is conceived. My daughter is the same flesh and blood that she would have been if I had been married. It makes no difference there. To look at her as anything different because I was not married to her father is crazy. Your family will come around. My Dad was upset initially, and he now dotes on my daughter, his only grandchild. He adores her. I look at him and think of what he would have missed if I had not gotten pregnant. You know what is right for you. Do it and you will be just fine! We are all pulling for you! Lisa and Sophie [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]